Why does he want to please me more than himself?

i'm just kind of friends with benefits with this guy that I kind of dated two years ago (we just didn't really click but we're friends now). whenever... Show More

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  • There is always the possibility that he likes you more than you think, but it may also be the kind of person he is. I feel like that, if I don't really satisfy my partner, I'm not really "doing my job". There's a lot of pressure on guys to be good in bed and to think about their partners needs before their own. Especially if he fancies himself as even a little bit 'gentleman'. Is Chivalry at all a part of who he is? If so, it may just be part of his 'code of honor', or whatever you want to call it.