I've been sick and my friends with benefits keeps texting how am I feeling?

[Anonymous]

Last time when I saw him, we had pretty rough sex few times, I guess that's too much for me, I got really bad cut on my vagina and it's been killing me eversince. Then plus I got body aches, chills like my body was out of control last few days. My friends with benefits kept trying to calm me down, and when I visit to his because I was scared, he tried to google any medication or anything for me, he texts everyday see how I'm feeling, I figured it will take awhile to heal, so I texted him I won't be able to see him for at least 2 weeks(we see each other few times a week), which he replied it's OK and getting better is most important. I thought since I'm sick, he was going to text me once in 2-3 day just see how am I upto(he used to text me everyday before tho), but he's been pretty caring to me.. because before this, he's been giving me some weird vibes that made me think he likes me more than just fwb, now I'm tring to read the same thing here. do you think he's caring more than he needs to? I'm not trying to get attatched because I don't want to get hurt, but then lately he's been so sweet acting saying stuff like my boyfriend, I'm confused :(

[madhatters4]

I wouldn't necessarily say he wants to be your boyfriend. If I were in his situation I would also want to know how you are doing for two reasons. 1) I'm not a callous a**hole and even if it is a FWB situation I still care about the person. 2) I want to know when I can get back to the benefits

He certainly could want more out of the relationship but I think it's safer to say that he simply does care about you and your well being and is checking up on you to make sure you're alright, especially since he had something to do with you feeling sick

[Lunacyx]

Think about it, if he didn't appear to care about you then that would have made him a pretty sh*tty guy. What he's doing is his way of saying he actually cares for you as a person too and not just for sexy time, which I think is how any decent guy would act in his situation. It doesn't necessarily means he likes you.

[gitana379]

Hes worried because he's the one who caused you all this pain and feels bad wait til you heal to see his real reaction that's wen you'll really kno how he feels

[Blobb]

I think he cares about you as a person :)

I don't know if he likes you or not. You should do what hte girl said and wait till you're fine to see his reaction :)