Yeah I'd just move on. Especially for FWB since its just about the sex.
Even for a relationship I would just move on. I'm a pretty conservative guy who was raised in a christian household, but I still don't believe in waiting until marriage.
For one, its extremely hard if not impossible for most people to do. I know I couldn't date a girl and not want to have sex with her. It be like making a kid live in a toy store but telling him he can't play with any of the toys. It would be torture.
Two, I feel sex is a very important part of a relationship that really helps a couple bond. I feel it would hurt our relationship if we were void of doing this. I also feel that because of this, sexual compatibility is as important as anything else and so I'm not going to marry a girl without knowing that we are sexually compatible.
"Would you still try and pursue a friends with benefits arrangement with her?"
Assuming that's what I wanted in the first place? Absolutely.
It's not like I have to respect your ideals or wishes. If I can get you to change your mind, then I still get what I want.
Actually that's exactly what a guy friend of mine said and I wanted to see how many guys would feel the same way.
A smart guy wouldn't because y'all have different goals! Hello, you want a long term commitment for sex and he wants something causal. That's incompatibility at it's core.
I guess I should be glad I've scared off lots of guys 😂😂 they didn't lead me on
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No of course not.
I think that whole no sex before marriage idea is flawed.
Deeply flawed. Scientist have proved it.
I would like to see this scientific proof, please.
It probably relates to how through looking at our evolution as a species, how sex existed before marriage, how one is ingrained into our primal urges while the other is heavily promoted via certain organised groups and comparing our behavior to that of other species in the animal kingdom. For example, any species that have life partners only do so after having sex, there are never life partners prior to reproduction.
Nope, I'd move on. Fast.
No. The pursuit would be illogical and if I really did want such a relationship, there would be "easier" targets for such a thing surely. But then again, if I enjoyed "corrupting" others, then that's a whole different story.
I don't pursue relationships because of sex though if possible I like to express my feelings for someone through it. Honestly it would feel like I could never do enough for her if she wanted to remain a virgin.
No. That seems the exact opposite of what she's into. If I wanted to enter into a FWB relationship, I'd pick a girl who knows what's what.
I would stay with her, as I am doing likewise (until marriage).
WTF kind of stupid question is that?
You mean, would we try to make the horse drink the water? F***no.
I wouldn't pursue a relationship with her either!
You just did way too much. If the question is so f***ing stupid then move the f*** on . You don't have to be rude.
will she put out, like give blow jobs? then no, I wouldn't waste my time. I'm not 14
Well my current girlfriend is celibate. It's very difficult being with someone whose lifestyle choices are opposite of yours. Sometimes I wish that I would have moved on because the sexual frustration just kills me slowly, other times I look at her and realize just how much she is worth waiting for. My biggest challenge though is finding a solid boundary for myself.
For instance I often times find myself in her bed, she almost has nothing on and I hate myself for being there because I want to make love to her in that moment. Sometimes I leave her place at 3AM bc I stayed and couldn't get any rest because of my thoughts and desires.
I just don't know where the healthy realistic boundaries are. I hate it. I kid to myself and say mentally " if her husband is the only one that can have sex, my wife should be the only women sleeping in my bed or whose bed I'm sleeping in"
It depends how hot she is... if she is super hot I will not stop till I nail her..
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