I can only get off from PIV sex?

I get nothing from clit stimulation. When I masturbate I use a special handle from an old makeup brush because its 5.5" Long but only 3 inches around(I can't take much girth). The best sex position for me is missionary with my feet on his shoulders or over my head and him penetrating straight down as fast an hard as he can. This is a guaranteed orgasm in less than 1-2 minutes for me and I keep orgasming as long as he's still going. I always hear the opposite, that many girls can only orgasm from clit stimulation. Why doesn't clit stimulation work for me? Are there many girls like me and guys is it an issue if your girlfriend can only come from sex and she doesn't get anything out of oral?
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  • IIRC it may have something to do with how the nerves branch out from the spinal cord to the genitals. Some women have more "connections" to their vagina and their G-spot. For most, it's the clitoris.

    Take that with a pinch of salt because it's something I read a long time ago and I may not be remembering right. Also many people have questioned the validity of the book I read it from (Vagina by Naomi Wolfe). It's probably more of a hypothesis than anything.

    Personally, I just like lady parts. I have no problems at all about eating a girl out and would love to go down but I don't have any particular attachments or preferences to clitorises or any other erogenous zone. I just care about making a girl feel good. If she just doesn't enjoy oral I won't force it on her. I like it that there's lots of ways to give a girl pleasure and not all girls are the same. It's an adventure. It's a challenge, too. I want to learn what feels best for her and then learn to master the technique and give her great orgasms. I want to make her toes curl and knees weak.

    Also keep in mind that only about 30% of women can have orgasms just from penetration alone, most girls need clitoral stimulation too. So you're more likely to have fulfilling sex since there's too many guys who don't about clitoral stimulation and expect a girl to be able orgasm as easily as they do just by them ramming it in her. For most girls that doesn't work. For you it seems to so you should be able to get plenty of pleasure without having to train the guy. I'm sure you won't hear guys complain that you need to penetrated to get off! "What you mean I don't have to fiddle with her clit, I can just stick it in? Well, if I must..."

    So you could look at it as an advantage.

  • you are worrying for no reason the fact you come from sex every few minutes will give guys such an ego boost and they will love f***ing you and seeing you come over and over

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  • Somehow I'd cope with this.

    • Would it be a negative to never give her oral/fingering etc? This stuff does nothing for me but I'm concerned guys will be turned off that I don't respond at all to oral or clit stimulation

    • For me no. I enjoy getting a woman off. If technique A doesn't work for her and technique B does, great. If technique B happens to also be really good for me ...

  • It's normal, just rare, and nothing is wrong with you and there's no "reason" for this.

  • Every.one is different

  • It depends upon each person

  • you are a very lucky girl