I need a little advice (strip tease for my bf)

[Toxicproblem]

So my boyfriend is away for a little while, and he asked me to record a strip tease for him. I'm okay with this but I don't even know where to start! I don't want to do anything on a chair, or stuff like that, but if I just stay on my bed what exactly do I do? For the guys: What do guys want to see? Girls: Advice on what to do? Esp if you've done this before I'm not embarrassed about my body, but I judge myself a lot...so I'm a little nervous on how I will come across. Any advice is appreciated! and none of the "don't do it" stuff please,

[Anonymous]

Haha making a video can be really scary, I've done it before. But once you get into it, it's actually really fun! And I think you having fun is the key to it being a good video.

Definitely watch the clip from 9 1/2 weeks that someone posted for some inspiration. When you dance, just kinda do whatever comes naturally to you, a lot of hip movement, touching your hands along your body, etc. You can watch other vids of girls stripping to get dance move ideas if you want.

When it comes to the actual stripping, be very playful to make it fun for him. And be a tease! Start off wearing maybe a skirt and tank top, and if you're feeling adventurous get a nice lingerie set for underneath, including a garter belt and stockings.

When you strip, take off little things at first, like the stockings, maybe heels, jewelry, etc to build up anticipation. Maybe wear your hair in a pony tail and take it down as you start stripping. When you take your actual clothes off, be very slow and seductive. Turn your back to the camera when you take off your bra, and cover your boobs to tease him.

Then maybe as you're taking your undies off, tease him some more by pulling them down a little but then bringing them back up and dancing more before fully taking them off. Basically anything you can do to torture him a little bit hehe :)

In terms of songs, you'd probably be best off picking something in the genre of music he likes best. But if he doesn't really care, here are some suggestions:

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=aouySgvSnVs

aptly named stripper ;)

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=870cSxoRVK8

if you want something reallyyyyy dirty haha

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=RaG8faaFUMM

I can't remember the song I did mine to though :( and it was a really good one ugh! But anyways, hope this all helps!

[Opinion Owner]

jk I found it! link this is the song I did mine to

[Aytra00]

Wear something light on top of the lingerie to start with that's easy to take off like a button down shirt or a jacket. What happens next is up to you... do you rip and tear your clothes off or do you let them slowly fall and hang? Create a "plot" to the dance, have a beginning middle and ending. Do a dance that projects confidence. Why? because most guys find that incredibly sexy. Improvise with everyday things like an iPhone, a mug, etc and incorporate them into the dance. Don't just stand or sit there and wiggle your body and DONT overdue it.

The movie 9 1/2 weeks is a good place to start :)

put 9 1/2 weeks strip tease into Youtube

/watch?v=_0HLjhdHSk4

[hardness]

i would say wear a bra and then slowly remove it and after take out sound like ahh yeah and all and rub you finger on your va**na and then insert you finger in it and call your boyfriend so that he and f**k you and also lick your bobbs

[Anonymous]

Maybe some sort of costume or lingerie and dance to something that isn't rap or R&B. That's what I would like. If I was receiving something like that, I wouldn't be very judgmental on your dance moves if that's what you're worried about.

[Toxicproblem]

what kind of "dance moves" would you want to see exactly

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know. I think it should be whatever comes naturally, you know? It's more enjoyable when you're into what you're doing. Be enthusiastic and it will go very well, especially for him.

[Toxicproblem]

I guess...but I'm so confused lol.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't strip and I don't go to strip clubs or anything, so I can't really give you great examples. Sorry I couldn't be of more help. Though I will say that you're probably over thinking it. It's going to go fine.