I think I may be a lesbian how do you know if you are

[Anonymous]

First of all I have never been with a girl but when I was 8 my neighbor and I use to finger one another and play with each others body parts. Ever since I was like13 I have been turned on by girls and watched more lesbian p*rn than straight and it seems less gross to eat a woman than give head to a man. Though I do like men I just feel more sexually relaxed with a woman than aman. Recently I have been seeing this girl and we connect well but she is bi. I don't know if I should give it a try or not. I wanna know what I am just speaking about it turns me on but I don't want people finding out until I have made up my mind. How do you know if you are bi or lesbian?

[normalice]

easiest test: imagine spending the rest of your life with someone, is that person a man or a woman? Who you choose to have sex with is not and indication of sexual orientation. Who arouses you is also no such indicator. Why it's called "sexual orientation" is beyond me, because it doesn't really say anything about sex - it only speaks of which gender you would rather spend the rest of your life with. Sex is just a bi-product of that: it isn't the commitment itself.

[MrOracle]

Don't feel like you need to be in any rush to put a label on yourself. Experiment and see what you like, and know that it may be several years or more before you feel totally "locked in" to something, and that could be bi-sexuality.

You don't need to "know" what you are, just let things happen naturally.

[Anonymous]

I've been turned on by the thought of girls since I was 12 and startewd watching a lot of lesbian p*rn too. I still fantasize about girls but don't want to be with one. I'm only interested in breasts. I don't think I'm a lesbian or bi, just into breasts. I had my first and only experience with a hot girl but I didn't feel sexually excited like I feel when I'm with a hot guy. She was turned on but I didn't feel anything.

[Asker]

it could be curiosity but I think I will try it

[Anonymous]

Ok, if you like women and women only you are a lesbian

If you like men and women you are bi, It doesn't matter if the amount of liking one gender is more than the other you are bi if you like both

[blackkid2]

If you have to ask you're not that thing. It's inherent knowledge much like one knows if they have hands or not.

[kambo_trick3y]

Do you want to touch a woman's face and gently caress her lips with your tongue, before letting it enter her mouth to explore every single nook and cranny of her being in a heavenly locked partnership of lust and desire?

Uh...scuse me, I'll be right back.

[MorbidPrincess94]

You're a freak!

[kambo_trick3y]

Girl you crazy. Psh, just crazy.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

there's only one way to find out since you seem unsure. If you were straight you wouldn't have such questions.

[GreatnessPersonified]

If you have sexual attraction for women, as in you want to have sex with them more than men, you might be gay. Try a lesbian bar and see how you like it.

[Anonymous]

If your not attracted to men at all and only women your a lesbian

[Anonymous]

Well, it's normal to be nervous around the opposite sex, especially if you're a virgin. That doesn't mean you're not attracted to them.

Yes I'd say you're at least bi.

You're a lesbian if you're attracted only to women. But some women who are a little attracted to men choose to identify as lesbian.

Go ahead and try it. Just make sure any girl you try it with is understanding about your concerns.

[Anonymous]

You're a lesbian if you like women.