He stood me up twice in a row

[keyia22]

friends with benefits for 4 months now and he stood me up twice in a row ... the first excuse was he had to watch his mothers house he's 29 by the way in says he lives with his mom now ... the second time he said he won't be able to come over can he see me during the day.i was mad as hell because he's never done this before... I feel like those days he stood me up he might of f***ed somebody else cause he's always on yahoo messenger ..now he just text me in said what's good I ignored him should I show him that I'm mad at him or text him back like nothing ever happened...

[SuperPickle]

If he was watching his mother's house, he could have simply invited your over, or as the other person mentioned, just went to visit you without the house exploding on its own.

As for the other excuse, why the daytime? That seems pretty odd for a booty call.

You're not in a relationship with the guy, but, honestly, it sounds like he's got a lot of other FWB's and maybe looking for another one might be your best choice.

[Modernhippy]

Well if its a friends with benefits how much do you care? I mean if your looking for something long term I could see why you would want to guilt trip him, but if what you want is short term than I can't see the point of holding a grudge

[Tycho]

It's called "FWB' for a reason. You guys aren't tied down.

[unleashedsavage]

Its a fwb, what more do you want. Its compltely no strings attached. Its basicslly hit and run without any questions asked or all sex and no sweet mushy stuff. You haven't set any boundary or rules... so you can't be asking what up with himnor why he behaving like this. Sees like your developing feelings for him. Either you tell him or jus call it quits..simple as it is.

[masondixie]

Darling, you're 30-35. You're being stood up by a 29 year old man that lives with his mother and whose social life revolves around Yahoo Messenger... The problem isn't the man. It's your standards.

I understand that you're way past your prime, but the downhill slope will only get steeper from here. Stop playing the friends with benes game.

[clashcity22]

Move on. No offence but he's a loser if he's 29 and lives with his mom. Go find someone else and start a legit relationship because FWB never works. I'm sure he has no feelings if he's ditching you all the time now. Just push him away and find a good man.

[madhatters4]

it's a friends with benefits situation. If you are mad then end the casual sex relationship...there is an inherent danger in FWB situations which is that one or the other person may not respond to what you want, and in reality they have no real reason to.

[THE_Godfather]

I admit those are pretty lame excuses. "he has to watch his mothers house?" Like nobody ever left their house empty to go to dinner or on vacation.

On the other hand "modernhippy" is right. You're FWB's do you have an agreement that you have to be at each others beckon needs?

If you think he's out effin with someone else is he being safe so he doesn't bring anything to you?

It is what it is. Are you better off with or without him as your FWB?

[Modernhippy]

my first answer didn't go through...huh

[1inmillion]

Your friends with benefits isn't Buffalo Bill from Silence of the Lambs is he?

[art84]

You just answered your own question, FWB.

[Anonymous]

He's FWB. Get over yourself already.