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Cumming inside a girl is it a big trust thing for you?

I was with a guy recently and he asked me if he could finish in my mouth I said no but you can come inside me. He seemed to be a bit shocked and laughed and said he was really tempted to. So cumming inside a girl isn't something he does very often. I reassured him that I was using because and we have known each other for quite some time so he did finish inside of me and he even double checked with me if it was OK to finish inside me. So I was wondering if cumming inside a girl is a trust thing and something you usually wouldn't do if you didn't know that girl all that well.
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  • Its absolutely a trust thing. Cumming deep inside of a girl is the most intimate things you can do, plus a guy opens himself up to the risk of having an unexpected child. On the other hand, I can't stand sex any other way and would not have sex with anyone who I would not trust and want to come inside me. Then again I know I'm consistent with my BC.

    • I agree it's a trust thing but from a guys point of view it has nothing to do with "being one of he most intimate things you can do." The only thing about trust is do I trust she's on because & do I trust she never misses a pill. I have known several women in their 30s who were dating guys they liked & I'm sure started missing a few pills here & there because they said to themselves "I guess it's not a big deal if I were to get pregnant..." And sure enough they got pregnant & locked the guy in

  • It's a trust issue. I've told guys they could come in me only to have them pull out. I don't mind though. I'd probably be wary if I had to take a guys word that he was on birth control. Soon we may all be in that position with male birth control pills currently being tested.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Huge. Babies are real and I'm too young to be a father right now. But if she was on a contraception and wasn't keen on kids it would be easier. I have friends who have been trapped (at least attempted to be trapped). That is my biggest worry. That is why it would be a while before I even contemplated going raw let alone finishing in her.

  • Do you want to get pregnant? It's a huge trust thing because the guy doesn't want to be a father so why wouldn't he want to make sure. She could say she's using BC and then she's not and gets pregnant and then you're stuck in court. So yes, I think he was hesitant because he wanted to make sure you weren't going to freak out.

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  • Sorry to put a damper on things but it's actually not a special, romantic thing at all. Generally speaking it's more of a cautious thing for men who don't want dem kids. It does have emotional implications however that are really deep, just not in the same fashion you describe.

    • Yeah I was thinking of it in the not wanting kids sense rather than the romantic sense :) But I'm interested now what are the emotional implications.

    • Generally speaking it's a sign emotional comfort with the person, a bonding mechanism in men, and depending on what you may believe for some it's a spiritual experience when you are with someone whom you already trust and completely invest yourself into. I guess to be blunt it's the stuff you "remember" that leaves emotional imprints in people generally changing their entire outlook on sexual activity.

  • I always come inside the girl. I figure it's what you do.

  • I only cum inside a girl if I like her enough to be prepared to bring up any baby with her if that ended up happening. I would never be a lowlife absent father. It is definitely a trust thing. Also a passion & enjoyment thing. The whole performance, extended cunnilingus, different positions etc is a bit lame for me if I don't finish with an extremely deep creampie.

  • yes it is.

  • Sure it feels great going bareback but it's a trust thing.
    You both have to agree to it, make sure she's on birth control.
    You don't want kids if your not ready.
    My first girlfriend let me go bareback after the third time, we got plan b , after that she
    got birth control shots.
    Not only is it a trust issue but it's intimate and a turn on for some.

  • For me personally, it's a huge show of trust and love when my girl allows me to do so.

  • I always used vaginal spermicide unless I was sure the girl was on protection. It is a trust thing. Lots of chicks out there hoping to have babies. :)

  • No it's just less messy and I feel connected to her very deeply at that moment

  • I always cum inside a girl's vagina if I can trust her. If you think about it the ultimate goal of sex is insemination. So I enjoy sex the most if my girl lets me shoot my seed in her. On the other hand, I have hyperspermia and I ejaculate much more cum than an average guy and it is always a huge turn-on for me to literally fill her up with my cum. And for my partner too.

    • How many tablespoons come out

  • It is a big trust thing although in the heat of the moment it is hard to do anything other then cum inside.

  • It is a big trust thing. I need to love and fully trust my girl in order to finish inside of her. I am just not comfortable doing it with a girl I am not certain I will marry someday.

  • Yes a big trust thing. he's trusting you are telling the truth in taking birth control.. trust me there are crazy girls out there who lie about that.

  • Yes, it's a huge trust issue. I know a guy whose girlfriend told him that she was on BC, but then she got pregnant and had a girl. She later told him that she had really wanted to be a mother, so she had stopped using BC and lied to him about it. Now he has to write a child support check every month for the next 18 years. Plus, every time he sees his daughter, he has to explain "why mommy and daddy don't live together."

    • smh wow

  • It's definitely a big trust issue.

    Even with a condom, I'm sometimes reluctant to come inside a girl's vagina. Without a condom, I definitely would not, unless I really trusted her about taking the contraceptive pill.

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