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Men, would you watch your wife masturbate?

My husband really wants me to squirt and he can't get me to do it, nor can he get me to orgasm because he has a bit of erectile dysfunction. I have been telling him that it's no big deal and that I still enjoy the sex. Honestly I CAN squirt, and I DO orgasm but only with my curved vibrator. I know he likes dirty photos and I was thinking of sending him a video of me... Would this offend you knowing that you have problems in that area? Would you be excited you at least got to see me squirt/orgasm?
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  • He cannot get you to squirt because he doesn't know how.

    First of all you need to tell him to research the G spot. And he needs to learn how to stimulate that area using his fingers.

    Next he needs to get good at role playing, because if the girl is not wet enough, or stimulated enough, itll be harder for her to orgasm.

    Its OK that he has ED, but that is no reason for not using his fingers, tongue or even other toys.

  • I wouldn't worry about offending him, but if he is insecure about his ability to sexually please you (or lack thereof), I don't know if it's such a good idea. He might get the idea that you enjoy masturbating with your vibrator more than having sex with him.

    • I enjoy the closeness when we have sex. I enjoy him enjoying it, but when I need to come I head straight for my vibrator.. I see what you are saying maybe this is a bad idea.

    • Yeah, I was just throwing that out there in case you hadn't thought of it. You obviously know him better than I do though, so that might not be the case at all. What made me think of it was when you said "I have been telling him that it's no big deal and that I still enjoy the sex," it gave me the impression he is worried you do not enjoy yourself. I feel like sending him a video of that might exacerbate that worry.

    • The way you phrased your question though, most guys are just going to immediately answer yes.

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  • I can't see why he would be offended. Most likely, he'd be excited, and he might even learn something...

  • Have him use the curved vibrator on you.

  • I watch her masturbate with great pleasure.

  • I'm not into squirting but if I had a Girlfriend I would love to watch her masturbate as long as I could do the same while watching.

    I would be depressed if I had any sexual dysfunctions or anything like that and try to seek help.

    I'm sure I could live with it if I had it all my life.

  • Yeah, according your expressions and some informations. I am extremely curious about your squirt orgasm. Because I've never watched a girl who could achieve squird. Despite our regular and hard sex, my girlfriend hadn't achieved it so far :(

    • MAKE SURE HER BLADDER IS EMPTY. If you stimulate her 2 inches in and up in a gentle fashion working up to aggressive, then go in and out she should blow if he isn't to nervous.. G spot vibrators are awesome.

    • Thanks for your suggestions :) Yeah but she hasn't already had sex with me when her bladder wasn't empty. Yeah, I know about G-spot stimulation. I normally go and out inside her vagina but she merely leaks her lucid and clear liquid. How do you have sex in order to squirt? Would you telling me with their details in the private message?

    • Most women flat out can't during vaginal intercourse. Men do it with their hands for them. Unless she's cytheria. Lol

  • Hell yes!

  • He would love it even more if you did it in front of him I promise you that. Would that be something you're comfortable doing is the question though

  • My girlfriend has masturbated in front of me before and it was the hottest thing ever! I started masturbating and we both came all over the place

  • excited ! plain and simple

  • I would LOVE to get a dirty video from my gf! then I would want you to do it for me in person...

  • Yes, I'd rather watch it in person and have her squirt on me, though.

  • I love it when a girlfriend,friends or family send me videos off them squirting and orgasm when I'm not about to do it for them.

  • In the reverse situation, I would be exciited.

    • im nervous... I really love him and I don't want him to be offended..

    • He is your husband, and you two should be open to things like this :) I don't even know that he would take it as offense rather you just trying to spice up your sex life in a new way

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