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How often do girls fake it?

faking orgasms. I know all of us have done it at least once. my boyfriend asked me this question last night and I told him I have faked sometimes and he got all mad. but seriously sometimes you just have to! I told him its sometimes when I have to much stress or if I'm too tired or just not in the mood but I still go have sex with him because I know he wants it. so the question for girls is: how often do you fake and why, and for guys how would you react if your girl told you she had faked in the past and how do you feel about women who sometimes fake orgasms for reasons like being tired, stressed, etc.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't like the fact that she might feel the need to fake it, but I am aware of the fact that women do not always orgasm, and I would be happier if she just told me that she didn't, which is pretty much the expectancy in any relationship I'm in. But I would be upset somewhat if she faked it, I would rather know that she didn't because although a woman does not always cum, it doesn't mean she doesn't enjoy the sex, but if she made me aware of the fact she didn't cum, I would make an effort in making sure that she di in the end, by either going down on her or whatever it was she wanted me to do, but I wouldn't be upset that I wasn't able to make her orgasm, because womens bodies are complex, and its not going to happen every time, if any guy thinks this then he needs to start understanding women a little more before getting upset. Because knowing that she feels the need to fake an orgasm is more severe than her telling you she didn't reach one, so I would always ask to be told so I can put it right after. x

  • Hats off fir you telling the truth...however, he should not be surprised when he asks a question that was 50/50. if anything, he should now try harder...which you may hate...because now he is not finish early...now he will ask you a hundred questions during the sex. If he knows what makes your blood boil... you may actually get aroused. It is a guy thing. Meh... that's why I like squirters

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't try to fake it everytime . BUT if I don't really have one I will fake it every time I don't really have one . just cause I want him to feel good like he did the job .. MEN fake to sometimes.. one time my man did cause I wanted some and he was so tired .. he did it any way then faked it so he could go back to sleep .. at first I was so mad and it made me feel ugly but he really was tired he had worked a double shift that day .. lol I would say I fake it about 95 percent of the time and the other 5 percent was real

  • For a while, I was unable to have an orgasm with a guy, only by myself. So I faked it most of the time back then. After I was able to have one, I've only faked a few times. I don't think it's fair to either of us when I do that. Not fair to him because I'm lying, not fair to me because I'm not showing him how to properly get me off.

  • I've never faked it.. I told my boyfriend outright that unless he's got something really special up his sleeve he shouldn't expect anything.

    He laughed and we enjoy each other without worrying about finishing and it's just better to not fake it, honestly. The sex ends up being much, much better.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • link > Too lazy for my own thoughts.

  • Her loss if she does, hard to learn what makes her tick if she keeps sending out fake signals.

  • I've faked it a few times. I've never told the girls though... I know they wouldn't take it very well.

  • And yet women say they want a real, honest man...

  • i have never faked it. I never would. I don't care if I'm stressed exausted or not feeling well I'm not going to pretend I orgasm. That's just silly. I orgasm everytime though so I'm pretty sure if I even tried to fake it he would know instantly. I also think its rude. good job for being honest with him but you hurt his ego. You made him probably feel like you are doing him a favor and that's just not what sex is for.

  • When I first met my boyfriend, I faked it 2 times. I felt horrible for it because he was so happy he pleased me. Since then I have never faked it. Even if I can't orgasm I tell him I can't and we may do it later. It's not fair to the guy to fake an orgasm. I also feel like the reasoning women might not be able to orgasm is not enough foreplay.

  • As a guy and most men think the same way. If we can't please a women and she says she faked it we all get pissed because we feel like we failed. Now if this was the first time in a new relationship that's different because you don't what each other like. But it sounds like you've dated a while and had a fair share of sexual experience that's different. I dated a girl once who said she faked it and till this day I ask why all she said was it just wasn't working that day. which you can't control like you said stress and all causes things to not work. if you aren't feeling it you should tell him before that you won't get off because you had a rough day. It would seem like you're doing the motions just for him.

  • Never. I think it's rude to fake it. Just because I don't orgasm it doesn't mean I don't enjoy it, and this is something I tell everyone I sleep with. I'm an honest person and I don't believe faking it will do anything else but cause trouble, especially if they find out.

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