I threw up on my boyfriend during a blowjob?

Question

I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob, and when he was about to cum, he grabbed my head and started thrusting kind of to the start of my throat. I knew if he kept doing this that I was going to puke, because I have a really bad gag reflex. When he came, I literally threw up a little bit onto his pubes. I didn't know whether to tell him or not, because he just thought that I spit out his cum. I told him that I threw up, and he's like, Well that's gross. Then I told him to go and take a shower. I'm so embarrassed right now, I don't even know what he thought because he left right after.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

Yes, that's really gross and I'm sorry that happened to you. He shouldn't have been doing that if you were uncomfortable with it. But, if you know you have a bad gag reflex, why did you just sit there while he was doing that until the point of you throwing up on him? You could have stopped him at any time and then proceeded on your own without him thrusting in you.

Communication is important...especially when it comes to sex. It's good to know each others' limits beforehand. Obviously, deep throating is an issue for you which is completely fine, there are many women who can't do it due to their gag reflexes. However, that is something he needs to be aware of and he needs to realize that you are not okay with him doing that and let him know that he shouldn't do it again in the future. Just let you control the blow job so you have complete control over how you do it and how far in you can take it. Hopefully, after talking with him, that will not happen again.

Troian · Accepted Answer

You don't have to feel embarrassed, he's the one who grabbed your head. I know my boyfriend sometimes do it but I'm always in control because I know I have gag reflex and need to breathe at some point. He wanted to go hard, he has to understand you can't always go that hard. Don't hesitate to push him away gently if you feel that it's gonna happen

xobrowneyedbeauty · Accepted Answer

well he shouldn't have thrust into your throat (or you should have at least made him stop). he'll get over it. and if he doesn't then obviously he is only with you for sexual favors and isn't really cut out to be a boyfriend anyway so you'd be better off without him.

indy7 · Accepted Answer

Good for you! But you should have thrown up you're entire lunch, breakfast, and last night's dinner just to show him that he shouldn't be f*ckin' shoving your head down on his c*ck like that. The prick. What the hell does he expect? Tell him the next time he pulls a stint like that he'll see the entire previous week's menu.

gonyr · Accepted Answer

If he forced you like that and just left I would say he shouldn't be your boyfriend for long.

There's a limit. I like to push my gf's head down a bit. That's all fine and well but holy crap he seems excessive lol

He doesn't even feel bad about it?

fatalcharm · Answer

He deserved it and you shouldn't be embarrassed. Guys should not do that, ever. If they want you to "deep throat" them, then they are very welcome to ask but they also need to understand that we are human beings, we do have a gag reflex, we can choke to death on his member and we can also bite hard if we really need to. A guy should always let you control the depth that you choose to go to.

mousexox · Answer

Don't stress it, its pretty much his fault. That shows how caring he is.. not. If I were you, personally I'd be pissed with the way he handled the situation, and besides, guys come is pretty disgusting sometimes, even pros get caught off guard.

BrunetteNYC · Answer

He sounds like an idiot.  HE should be the one embarrassed.  It's not a p*rno, you're a real person and he needs to understand that and act right.

bluexqueen · Answer

Don't feel embarrassed! He grabbed your head and started to thrust what did he expect? Did he do it without your permission? If he did it's time for a serious talk.

MissConfused93 · Answer

He should be embarrassed. Not you. How rude. He deserves to be puked on I think.

Shpongolia · Answer

What a great guy...

TangerineFire1 · Answer

He deserved it.  It is his own fault, really a jerk you have there.  Hopefully he learned, and even better maybe he won't return.  He  is being abusive to you, yes!

Enideqa · Answer

It's not your fault, but maybe next time I would kinda stop him from pulling on your head. You can only take in as much as you can, and that is up to you not him. Don't be embarrassed, it was only a natural reflex. He shouldn't have been doing that to you anyways.

bh6676r942 · Answer

gross! Or hot ?

Dandeus · Answer

You shouldn't be embarrassed.  He was pushing too hard, and that's what happens.  It's his own fault. That said, you can train your gag reflex down so it doesn't happen again.