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What are subtle ways to turn a guy on?

i get a sense he is attracted to me, what are some subtle ways to turn him on? I have a private meeting with him. how can I be flirty and sexy without being inappropriate?
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I have large boobs so even in a shirt that isn't really low you tend to see a small bit of cleavage unless I wear a shirt that is up to my collarbone. And I have a habit of sitting in a sexy angle around him because of attraction body language. It happens naturally I start touching my neck and legs and playing w hair and sitting in a sexy way where my boobs are out and forward. And he totally sits crotch display, angles his body exactly facing me, touches his legs, does the mirror, smiles a lot
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  • You'll get lots of suggestions to show some cleavage, but you could also take the opposite approach: Wear something with a high neck/collar on it--no cleavage at all--but tight and thin. Especially effective (but less subtle) without a bra. Also, I think coming up with a reasonable excuse to touch him on the shoulder/hand/arm/leg can tell him that you like him without being particularly overt. Your behavior, beyond simply how you sit and what you show, too can have a huge effect. This could be tough if you're trying to pull off something that doesn't come off as natural or unforced and also depends on what triggers this guy. For example, some guys find it really sexy when a hot girl acts a little bossy in a flirtatious way. For others, it may be a real turn off. I find feigned helplessness revolting, but others, I'm sure, find it attractive. I'd emphasize doing what comes naturally to you rather than trying to guess what might be appealing to him. It'll be more natural and you're less likely to find yourself trying to maintain some kind of charade that may not be something you can or want to keep up forever. Let us know what you try and how it goes!

  • Position yourself when speaking so that you're showing off your body in a sexy way. "Accidental" cleavage display is GREAT for this. Like you sitting down when he's standing and you leaning forward so your top hangs off just right for a lot of cleavage to be on display.

    If you're just hanging out, "accidental" touching is great. I had a girlfriend who was the master at this. She'd come up behind me and would just be casually talking to me and maybe pointing something out but would also be subtly pushing her boobs into my back or my arm. Love it!

    • @update: sounds good! how big are your boobs? Have you ever tried going braless around him?

    • Sounds like he's attracted to you. When you're sitting full boob display does he look at them? And when he's positioned full crotch display, do you notice any movement?

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  • Well certainly the way you dress impacts it.

    Physical contact. If he makes you laugh, lightly touch his wrist while you laugh with him.

    Don't be afraid to make subtle, sexually toned jokes.

  • Are you talking about a meeting at work? Well if it's private just sit on his lap and tell him how attractive he is?

    If this is a "private meeting" in your house then just ask him a few sex questions about what he's into and what type of stuff he's tried in the past. That way he will instantly realize that "SHE WANTS THE D"

  • cleavage or a bit of bra showing always a massive turn on.

  • make best use of your gift

  • it sounds like you're doing a great job already, if its a cold day, wear leggings and smile at him when you walk past. In general, just stay close to him and trail your hand along his back as you walk away and just smile at him a lot

  • A private meeting eh...

    • Give me best answer. Don't go for subtle go for BOLD

  • be forward about it and not act so innocent or subtle. and you asked "how can you be flirty and sexy without being inappropriate"? simple don't worry about being "inappropriate" ... guys like that stuff

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