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Why do guys like to announce when they are cumming?

almost all the guys I've been with, and a good bit of male p*rnstars, announce the fact that they are about to ejaculate. "i'm about to cum" followed by "i'm cumming" isn't really something I care to hear, unless as a warning. so why do guys do it?
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okay I get it it's a warning...tell me something I didn't mention in the description. but orgasm timing...guess I never thought about that seeing as I have a medical condition which prevents me from orgasming :(
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's a notification or a warning so she can prepare for what she wants when I actually do ejaculate. Like, does she want me to finish inside her, in her mouth, face, boobs, whatever.

    I prefer girls to tell me if they are about to orgasm so I can know if I should just continue at the same speed, increase, and when to stop. Well, she usually tells me what to do, but knowing that she's about to orgasm really raises my mood. And hearing a girl say that she's Cummings sounds hot too.

  • we release few ml of white liquid but feel like balls would blast out and **** will spurt like fountain flow. I don't do as warning but if I announce she feel in inside the pussy or take the warm liquid inside the waiting mouth or or she can see how I make myself empty.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guys are aware that many girls don't like to swallow so it's like a warning. It can be difficult to change that habit. I always swallow with my boyfriend and it took him at least three month to spot saying it.

    Though, during an intercourse...it's not necessary and it's clear when it happens

    • yeah I swallow too. and during actual sex...yeah it's unnecessary.

    • Marry me please!

  • It is a warning. I personally appreciate it, because besides preparing me for the ol' ejaculation, I know not to change the pace/whatever and mess up his orgasm lol (cos I bloody hate it when guys do that).

  • My boyfriend doesn't. Sometimes he doesn't even thrust extra, he just stops, and I'm like OKAY, WHAT'S HAPPENING.

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  • Guess it just gives them something to say other than "ugh ugh"

    • lol, but personally I like a guy who sounds like a wild animal during sex.

    • Sometimes I like him acting like a wild animal in heat

    • lol one guy reminded me of a bronco the way he would buck, esp when I was riding him. but he told me he felt like a wolf... ::shrug::

  • Its a warning. I usually tell the girl I'm seeing because she likes me to finish in her mouth. Otherwise I wouldn't say anything.

  • Why don't you like to hear it?

    It's just a warning, in case she doesn't like to swallow or something. Get her prepared for it

  • When we get close, that's pretty much the only thing on our minds! If we're not saying it, we're thinking it.

  • My boyfriend never does, I have to tell him to tell me when he's cumming. I can normally tell when he's cumming anyways.

  • I only had one guy do that lmao I would have had to be deaf and blind to miss the fact he was about to cum.

    • i'm not good with the visual cues, but I can usually tell by how much and how loud they vocalize if they are close.

    • That will give it away every time.

  • I've only had a few guys do that a few times. I didn't realize it was so common.

    • lucky.

  • Because you girls require it? I wouldn't have to announce it, but my wife wants to know ahead. Either to "time" her orgasm with me or to be warned when the load is about ot hit her mouth or face.

    • i don't require it, unless I'm giving a blowjob and don't feel like swallowing.

    • Well, that makes you an exception, I think :D Most girls I know want to know prior to "impact" :D

  • Because we've been chastised by women for not doing that.

    • @Update: you mentioned in another question that you masturbate using a vibrating butt plug to stimulate your clit. Do you get enjoyment from that without having an orgasm? Sorry if that's a dumb question.

    • okay why didn't you ask this on the other question? and yes, I get immense pleasure from it. though I would love to orgasm again...it happened once but since then if I even feel close I get burning pain and cry :( are you following me? lol.

    • What difference does it make under which question I ask? This is the one where you said you don't orgasm so it seemed appropriate. Regardless, thanks for the explanation. Hope you are able to do it again soon. Good luck.

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  • Most girls think come is gross so most guys give a warning

    • on the contrary, I love cum!

  • I think it's pretty smart to announce it during a blowjob. Gives the girl a few seconds to prepare. But during normal intercourse, I don't get it either hahaha. Kinda stupid in my opinion.

  • I will softly say "here comes" (no p*run drama) when I'm getting a BJ or HJ because so she can set her mouth for it or get ready to switch to her "help ejaculation along" technique. It helps optimise my orgasm.

    • now that I like.

  • You've never had come shot in your eye or down your throat without warning, obviously.

    Some girls appreciate a heads-up. Some girls get off on dirty talk, and that is a part of it. Some like to try and time their orgasm so you climax together.

    • actually yes I have. pinkeye from come is painful! and I almost always swallow.

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