Will my girlfriend stop stripping for me?

[thegreatboyfriend]

we have been together for a while. I really really want this to work but I hate the thought of my girlfriend naked dancing on dudes every weekend. I know she comes home to me but she also leaves me to go dance on them. she is very money motivated and I feel like she would rather want the money from stripping than to be broke and in love with me. We are both college students and am now getting two jobs to convince her I will do anything for her to stop stripping. I have been miserable for months due to her job and it only gets worse as time goes by. its a case of love vs money. I feel like she loves me and she could have left me and made a lot more money without me. but how does she see it as okay to be in a committed relationship and work at a strip club. rubbing tits in guys faces, grindin her pussy on the crotch of men. and even fake flirting with men on a regular. We will never be able to have a relationship where it is just me and here because she will always have fake relationships with customers. Is it too much to ask to have my girlfriend to myself sexually? I even tried stripping to make money and hopefully feel better about her job but it didn't help. I have a lot of confidence in myself and I know she does too. Is it worth staying with the love of my life who is a stripper and living in pain everysingle day due to her job? I even went to a strip club on our 21st bday to see how it was and I was very hurt. I don't see how a person can dedicate themselves to someone and "sell their body" "sell the idea of sex' , what ever you want to call it, at the same time. She even told me that her job effects her sex life because she doesn't feel as horny as she once did after working at the club for so long. And to make things worse we have an apartment together where we split the rent. She was the major financial provider for the first 2 or 3 months but now that I have two jobs I feel she should get a regular part time job for the benefit of our relationship. I believe she really loves to strip and is falling in love with the money she is making from it. Is staying with her because I love her very deeply worth my pain and agony every single day of my life. I will be able to love her better if she wasn't a stripper. I want to treat her like my queen but her actions as a stripper keep me from doing so.

[Anonymous]

You got into the relationship knowing she's a stripper, right? And since she didn't quit the job after getting together with you, why would she quit now? Obviously she enjoys it. I'm not saying it's the ideal to work at a strip club when you're in a relationship, of course not. But if it has become a part of her and she likes it, you have no right to tell her to stop. Yes, you can talk to her about it and yes, you can kindly ask her if there's something else she could work as when she's with you. But don't make it into a "me or the strip club" ultimatum. That's just childish. So either suck it up and deal with it (because you made the choice of being with her even though she's a stripper) or move on and find someone else that isn't a stripper.

[thegreatboyfriend]

This is true but its not easy to accept that your woman sexually pleases another man in any type of fashion. she is truly a good person but I want to understand how a person can like doing that and still want to be in a relationsip

[Opinion Owner]

Then you shouldn't have gotten into a relationship with her in the first place if it bothers you that much.

[sadie-lynn]

are you really "thegreatboyfriend" as your username implies? I think not. plain and simple: tell her you are bothered by her "duties" and ask why she still works as a stripper. then, go from there. if you have been with her for as long as you say, you would be able to be direct with her. and if I had a partner who stripped, whatever gender, yeah it would bother me. but I would have had a talk with them early on about it.

[sadie-lynn]

@update: you will accept her but if it doesn't change you will leave her? that doesn't make any sense.

[Troian]

You imply changing her. It was her job when you began dating her and you have to accept it.

[CellLuddite]

No.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

She won't quit.

I'm a stripper myself, but I would quit as soon as I got into a serious relationship. If she had intentions of quitting, she would've done it by now

[RebeccaSJ]

I haven't stopped doing it for my hubby.

[JennieF]

I'm still doing it for my husband.