Why do guys see me as nothing more than a Booty Call?

[Anonymous]

This is a serious question and I want serious answers! I'm not a slut. I'm not easy. For pete's sake I never even had sex! I am young 16 to be exact, buy anyway guys don't seem to be attracted to me. Actually that's a lie wrong use of words. Guys are attached to me I just never had a boyfriend. Guys hit on me constantly. They ask for my# or wanna kik me. Even when I was only 11 and MySpace was still in it seemed like I was just an eye candy. Actually I have been asked to be in a relationship 2 or 3 times but the first word that would come out of their mouth is SEX! People say I look older than I really am ever since puberty, but anyay I get compliments but that's not doing it for me anymore. I don't get asked out, haven't had a boyfriend, guys seem to be into me, but at the most guys ask me for pics, to sext them, and jack off to them. I don't dress slutty, I'm a good girl but guys some how seem to get the impression that I'm just the opposite. I don't know why?! What is wrong with me it seems like I have a sign that says Easy A attached to me. Please Help! And I want honest answers. Also why where how do they get this message/idea from?

[xHoneyxBeex]

Teenage guys can be like that sometimes. At that age, (generally speaking) relationships aren't on their minds, sex is. If you don't want that then just tell them straight up you aren't interested in that. It can be annoying and difficult when it seems like that's all a guy wants from you but just hang in there. Eventually you'll meet a guy who likes you for more than just physical reasons.

Being friends first helps a lot with that. When you find a guy who you feel like you can be yourself around and you get to know each other on a deeper level as friends first, then if he becomes interested in you, it's likely for all of you, not just sexual reasons. Of course I have made some generalizations here, but you get the point:)

[Asker]

Thanks your answer really helps, but the thing is I don't attrct teenage guys that much. Well at least not ones that I know or go to school with me. It seems like I attract guys round 18 to 40s that's why I think I'm a booty call =(

[xHoneyxBeex]

Well, as you get older you'll realize that sometimes age doesn't really make a difference. The older guys are after you for sex because you are young and pretty, they would feel like a "stud" for being able to get a young girl. I know it's hard but you kind of just have to weed out the bad guys from the good ones. It may take some time but you'll find a good guy eventually. You're still very young:)

[kheserthorpe]

It sound like you may be female.

Men are interested in hooking up with many more women then they would date. So every woman in the world has more guys who are interested in hooking up than in dating.

Note that especially as you get older, sex is one of the top reasons men want relationships. The question with most men is if they are interested in sex, OR sex + emotions + companionship. But there will always be more men open to just sex then all three.

[gonyr]

I came here to give a guy version of what the BA already said. 16 year old boys wanna get laid. Not saying a relationship isn't possible but 16 year old me probably would've lied about being in love f it got me laid (I didn't till I was 18 lol)

[kambo_trick3y]

This is like asking why do dogs bark.

[THE_Godfather]

Bad rumors? You look older, a guy asks for your # then he finds out you're 16 & he's afraid since you're under age?

[222fallguy2]

Most guys your age just want to bang and you may dress the part who knows?