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What really happens in VIP rooms at a strip club?

First of all, do the female strippers always strip down to nothing? What happens during a lap dance? Are the girls naked and are the men noticeably "aroused" and does the dance produce an orgasm for the man? How do men feel about this happening in front of their buddies? Does sex happen in the VIP room, any kind of sex? Are girlfriends or wives allowed, and can they get lap dances?
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I am just fascinated by this whole phenomenon. My male friend says he may take me to a strip club. Yes, I would like a lap dance, maybe while my male friend is having one! Who cares, you only live once, right? I still want to know if guys feel embarrassed or proud of having an erection and possibly an orgasm in front of their buddies. Does that actually happen anyway? What should I wear to the club? I was thinking a skirt and thigh high stockings, no panties.
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I mean are they proud or embarrassed of having an erection and possibly an orgasm during LAP DANCES, in front of their buddies.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The answer to your question really depends on the club and the city. Rules for strip clubs vary, a LOT, from place to place. Commonly, clubs that allow drinking only allow topless dancers, or may even require pasties, while full-nude clubs are alcohol-free. Some clubs prohibit customer-dancer contact of any kind ("lap" dances are then performed with the girl dancing/stripping on a platform in front of the guy), while others allow the girl to touch the guy, but not the guy touching the girl.

    Any kind of sex (oral, intercourse, even HJs) is illegal, but in some locations, it goes on. Not every dancer will participate, but in these locations, there are usually at least some dancers who are willing to do a whole lot if you pay them enough. If found out, they will be fired and the club could be shut down entirely, so most clubs don't allow it. I suppose some clubs have police on the payroll and don't worry about being raided, so it happens.

    Guys getting erections is normal. Girls rubbing against guys during lap dances is pretty common, and it often keeps guys paying for more dances so they can get off. I've never understood the attraction of paying some chick tons of money to rub your penis raw through your clothes only to blow a load in your pants, but, hey, some guys seem to like that. LOL.

    But, mostly, strip clubs are there to TEASE, not SATISFY, the customers, and of course, to extract as much money as they can out of the men in the process. I've never found them all that enticing, but since I've gone with groups of friends who wanted to go, I invented a way to entertain myself without spending much money. I simply talk to the strippers like they are regular people. This is so novel and different that it usually doesn't take long before I've got a girl or two sitting next to me, talking about random stuff that they never get to talk about with customers. Sometimes I've even gotten free lap dances, simply because I treated the girl like a person. My buddies can't figure it out, as they always leave hundreds of dollars poorer...

    • Good answer. My impression is that prostitution in clubs is relatively rare where I live. Clubs are full nude with expensive drinks, lap dancing involves lots of lap contact and there's enough money that nobody wants to risk being shut down. I wandered into a club in Finland once, and it was completely different. The girl on stage only went naked for seconds, the place was packed with women trying to chat you up, get you to buy them a drink and seemed like a front for prostitution.

    • Yes. To be fair, I've only been to clubs in California, Nevada, Texas, Ohio, and New York (mostly with guys from work). I've been told by several people that, for example, in Montreal, customers can fondle the strippers during lapdances, and offence that would get you thrown out of nearly any club in the US, except for the "private room"/illegal sex clubs. All the clubs I've been to except one enforced the rules aggressively. The exception was in San Bernadino - you could pay to touch.

    • i have premature ejaculation. i paid for 2 lap dances and another girl for one lap dance. that was enough for me. the stripper is almost like playing flappy bird, either i cum or i lose interest in her and get someone else

  • Most times at VIP Lounges things like that do happen, and yes, everything from lap dances to full contact sex is involved, although most times it is illegal for it to take place as then it would be considered as a prostitution place like the Mustang Ranch or other establishment.

    If a man wants to take his gf/fiance/wife to these places and she's willing to go, then yes, he can. That also depends on whether the gf/fiance/wife wants to have a lap dance/full sexual contact or not. If you were my gf/fiance/wife, would you want to go (Not that I would be going to these places anyway).

Most Helpful Girls

  • I went to a VIP room with my boyfriend once. They were in their underwear but topless and there was like a separate area if you wanted to get a lap dance and a balcony. The place I went it seemed the same down stairs but there was a cooler atmosphere. Some guys are noticably aroused and others are not it depends on the guy. Anyone can get lap dances and sex is not legally allowed in USA.

    • just because sex isn't legally allowed doesn't mean it doesn't happen because it does. Maybe not at every club every on every night but more then you think.

    • That is why I said they can`t do it legally allowed and didn`t say that they don`t do it. Trust me I know it goes down. One of the strip club owners in the town I live was put in jail this last weekend for his club having prostitution.

    • trust me there are 3 gentlemen clubs in Detroit Michigan that get away with it !!!

  • I was curious, too. These were written and uploaded by a stripper, should answer most of your questions:

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    Hope those answer all your questions! :)

  • When we're flat ass broke..

    the strip club is a great place for free drinks..

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  • Yes sex could happen in VIP areas. I was once a male dancer and the opportunities were endless. However I never crossed that line while working. Strip clubs are about teasing and $.. male or female establishments.. being a performer you have agencies that book your venues. It's the last thing one wants to do is sabotage ur income over a piece of tail.

  • The best answer is, it depends. But yes, it’s possible the female strippers will strip down to nothing. During a lap dance, the stripper will dance, on your lap. She may grind on you like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl, she may let or even encourage you to touch her (but not her holes, for want of a better expression). Incredibly, a stripper once licked and kissed my ears and neck, and even put a finger inside herself to wipe on my cheek. Men will certainly be aroused. Some may even reach orgasm. It is awkward in front of others, and most rooms will have semi-private booths. Although actual sex likely will not happen. Girlfriends or wives are definitely allowed and can absolutely get lap dances. Guys may have dress codes (like no shorts, no sweats), but girls are more of a novelty, and can pretty much dress how they want. Not sure why you’d want to wear no panties? By all means go. Try to have fun. If you’re horrified, leave.

    • in flashdancers nyc, lap dances are in the common area. i had no shame having an orgasm

  • both of us naked. sucked my penis a little. handjob at the end

  • if you're at a stripclub with the guys you're not worried about getting a hard on during an LD. in the VIP room, for the right price you can get a blow job or fuck the girl, esp if she's high on coke or some other drug

    • the price not worth it

  • Sex.

    • i wonder how much the price

    • @verylovelyguy Around $40.00 for a lap dance.

    • i was asking about the sex

  • Money talks.

  • Anything you want.

  • In Canada they strip down to nothing.

  • We suck cocks and don't tell our husbands.

  • This site is really hurting. lol

  • Boyfriend shared his s experience...

    Both in underwear, him laying down with girl straddling in top, letting his hands rub everywhere except under g-string.

  • Nakedness happens and erections definitely happen. Can't say I've had an orgasm yet, but I'd definitely not turn that down!

  • I got swallowed at a strip club before on my birthday my buddies paid her off I don't know how much but it prob wasn't that cheap lol. I would never bring my wife or girlfriend to the strip club and I'm probably never going back. Usually its dudes there and very little females besides the strippers.

  • "Men" are not the controlling factor here.. CASH... is what calls the shots here.. LADIES, IF YOU GOT THE CASH.. YOU WILL GET SEX IN THE V.I.P. ROOM. End of Story.. .If you're into girls, of course... same for dudes...

    • girls will go to male strip club.

    • Sure, some girls are into that, and more power to them.. but I was saying it would be cool if a girl and her man go to a female strip club (assuming the girl has some bisexual tendencies of course... like in my case..)

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