What to do when your boyfriend gets a boner when you sit on his lap

ny boyfriend had boner when I was sitting on his lap. I stood up in fear that his penis would get hurt from my full body weight. he got really embarrassed. is there anything I can do to make it less awkward if it happens again will it hurt if I continue sitting on it?
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  • If you were hurting him, he'd have shifted your butt a little to put your weight on his thighs. Otherwise, you were fine.

    For many guys, just being physically close to a girl is enough to get them aroused, especially when the girl obviously LIKES being that close with him. It's normal, and no big deal, so don't MAKE it a big deal, because that's what will get him embarrassed. Instead, make it a positive: give him a knowing smile, and then continue what you were doing, so he knows you know, and so he knows you are fine with it, and even like it.

  • You jumping up didn't suggest to him worry, it suggests you didn't like it or were grossed out or freaked out.

    Unless he seems uncomfortable, just move slightly against it, smile at him to suggest you know. That makes him feel accepted, that his arousal makes you pleased and maybe turned on, not horrified.

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  • If you don't want to take care of it, just put your weight on his tight or close to his knees.

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  • Don't worry about it. Next time you feel it just wiggle around and grind on it a bit. Most likely it will feel good unless it or his balls are being pinched. Just enjoy.

  • If you hurt him he'd let you know ASAP. Girls know when if they hurt my dick when they're on top of me during sex.

  • getting up was a good idea or move yourself and shift your weight to his legs.

  • if it hurts he'll tell you. fact is he probably liked it...otherwise he wouldn't have gotten hard. I don't think you should worry about it so much. if he does seem pained just take a little bit of weight off of him, but I doubt it hurt much if at all

  • Talk about the first thing that pops up!

    • the first thing that pops up! ;-)

  • If it hurts he will tell you...in fact it may have felt good for him.

  • Take him somewhere private and make the boner disappear.

  • generally, it doesn't hurt to continue sitting on it. once you feel it you should wiggle around a little bit. He was likely only embarrassed because you got off his lap: he may have interpreted that as some mild revulsion.

  • Well that means he's attracted to you, so I would take that as more of a good sign than anything.

  • No honey, it won't hurt, in fact it will be quite the opposite, feel great, thus the reason he got hard. If you want to make it not awkward next time, un do his pants, and give him a good blow job, and/or fuck his brains out. He'll love it. If he doesn't, then look me up. ;)

  • Hey!... it's your job as his girlfriend to help him hide his boner, if not make it go away all together.

  • You did the right thing.

  • It would be nice if you started to massage it,

  • Next time start massaging it with your hand.

  • It generally doesn't hurt and if it did, he'd most likely would tell you to get off. Next time that happens grind your ass back and forth or left and right to tease him. Then get off of him and give him a blow job.

  • It depends on where it is pointing. If you or he can position it so it is laying flat pointing toward his navel, he will have minimal discomfort with you sitting on it.