What do you think about lesbian and bisexual girls? Do guys really hate them?

Personally, I am bisexual so I like my own center and I had some sexual intercourses with my own-gender because it's unique and it has different, intense sensation for me. When my closed girlfriend eats and sucks my pussy, I feel almost numbed and dizzy thanks tohigh pleasure. I have some closed girlfriend around my friend group, they're so cute. If I am alone at my home, I sometimes call them to have sex with her. Indeed, it is very nice but it is not point that I don't like guys, besides I have boyfriend and we've been dated for 3 years ! However, some guys misunderstand me, they suddenly think that I hate all guys in the world BUT NO!.. I never hate guys, conversely sex gives incredible pleasure and happines to me, I love having sex with my boyfriend. Why do some guys think that lesbians were stubborn and enemy of male? Actually we aren't... It should be noted that, I am bisexual but my boyfriend sometimes reacts negatively to this situation...PLUS, WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT LESBIANS ANS BISEX GIRLS? Have you ever had girl to girl sexual intercourse? (MEMO: If anyone exists in this blog who is lesbian or bisexual, she can add me as a friend. Guys also adds me. Free to do it)
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  • I feel like lots of guys enjoy sexualizing lesbians and bisexuals (because of p*rn) yet also like turning around completely and then shame them etc. for not liking guys (either entirely or "not enough"). I don't know how many times I've seen a guy tell a lesbian/bisexual girl that he'd be able to turn her 100% straight if they had sex. Ugh I don't even. As if his dick is some kind of magical device that's able to just completely change someone's sexuality.

    I feel like too many guys nowadays only think of p*rn when someone mentions "lesbian" or "bisexual woman". What they don't realize though is that most of the "lesbian" p*rn stars they watch are probably just straight women doing it for the money. Most of the time it's quite unrealistic and it's so obvious that they're doing certain things just because guys like it.

    But, luckily, I've met tons of guys who either don't care if you're a lesbian/bisexual, or think it's cool (and not because it's "hot"). So in my opinion it just depends on the guy. Some guys are cool with it, some guys only like it because of p*rn, and some are 100% against it. But what they think shouldn't matter to you. Just do whatever feels good to you and screw everyone else. :)

  • We're only accepted because guys have sexualized us. I've been in a lesbian relationship wih the same girl for 13 years, and so many times hugs have come right up to us, literally, and asked which one of us is the man. It's like they don't even know what the term lesbian means, they just see two girls and picture them fucking. Then heaven forbid they're turned down be ause you're a lesbian, that's when he shaming starts. They like to say "You just haven't had the right dick yet"...I have, and I found a better pussy.

  • No. I have many friends and teammates who like girls.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I do not "hate" anyone owing to their sexual leanings.

    I dislike political lesbians who make a scene in the media over their sexuality.

    I would not want someone I believed to be a lesbian in any position of authority over my children at school, church, etc..

    My sense is that all women have some degree (tiny or greater) of ambiguity in their sexuality. That is so they can nurture boys and girls equally and it allows them comfortable intimacy with other females. Watch them groom each other, dance together and show each other affection. My sense is also that another woman's gentle hand in intimacy is a strong attractant to be "bi-curious" even for ordinarily heterosexual girls. My double standard makes homosexual intimacy between women tolerable while I find gay men intimacy abhorrent.

    I would not date or marry someone I believed to be bisexual unless I believed it would not interfere with her being faithful to our relationship now and in the future.

    • But the odd paradox of the whole matter is this: Straight men often find lesbians erotic in fantasy, but tiresome in reality. They find gay males repugnant in concept but often likable in person.

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  • There are some man hating lesbians out there and I've run into a few. I was walking through the mall awhile back and two lesbians were walking towards me, holding hands and kissing occasionally. I smiledd at them and next thing I know they're screaming at the top of their lungs about how I was an asshole, they weren't interested in men and how dare I assume that I could have a threesome with them.

    They said "yeah right, I don't believe you, you pig" when I explained that I smiled because it's always nice to see a couple in love. So yes, there are some man haters out there.

    But I don't make assumptions and I know that's not all lesbians.

    As for your boyfriend reacting negatively, it might be that he doesn't like the idea of you with someone else and that he can't take care of all your sexual needs by himself so he's worried about you running off with a chick for awhile? That would be my concern. I don't share.

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  • not hate, but they bisexual girls are competition

  • I personally like bisexuals or lesbians, I don't have anything against them.

  • An interesting article on this: "Why Lesbians Aren't Gay":

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  • I don't know where you got the idea that men think lesbians are the mortal enemy of all men, that's the first I've heard of that... You might be thinking of feminists.

    There are some people who disagree with your lifestyle choices, but I don't think any of them "hate" you. I've been known to fool around with other guys, women seem to respond positively to that when I tell them.

  • Most American guys think that lesbians are super sexy.

  • I don't have any thoughts about it either way.

  • I think bisexual girls are pretty awesome.

  • Not at all. Five of the girls I've been with have been bisexual.

  • Nope, Do not hate them. They are fun to watch with another woman, and I love having mff threesomes. The only time I get angry is if they hate men and try to take it out on me, and are rude. That's all. The more naked women the better I say!

  • I think lesbians and bisexual girls are hot.

    Ok now that that's out of the way, no I don't think that they hate men or anything like that, just like I don't think that feminists automatically hate men.

  • There are millions of girls on this earth. I don't care even half of them say we are lesbians...i need only one girl who can say "m for you" .

  • In my personal experience, all the bi-sexual girls that I met have some sort of mental problems.

  • I tend to find that people don't accept that lesbians exist, often saying that I'm besexual and that I just like women more. Odd logic but I don't care enough to argue most of the time.

  • nothing wong with that its hot. if it feels good do it.

  • I don't really care about that. Women are free to like whatever they want. Even having a bisexual girlfriend would be fine too

  • I have a bisex girlfriend. Definitely a plus to me. We talk about that openly and accept each other as we are. Few times she also brought her girlfriend at home and I let them enjoy their time at bed. Nothing wrong with me

  • I think bisexual females and lesbians are pretty hot too! And if I was your boyfriend & I knew that you were bi, I would love to have a threesome with u! I think that would b a pretty amazing relationship.