Hand cuff him, get him really excited and leave the room for a while. Then come back and torture him some more. If you actually want to go a little further you could also come back in and use ice or candle wax on him. They are uncomfortable, but shouldn't be dangerous, or too much for him to handle. You could also ride his face and make him keep giving you pleasure without doing anything to get him off. Then you could pretend to take pictures and then act like you are going to show them to people.
I was going to say the same thing
What! You mean there is another mind as sick as mine... This is a dark day for humanity.
I'm a very dominant man so I'm not familiar with the mind set of submissive men. I think you should talk to him about your frustration and desires and see what he says. If you told me that, it would be time to throw you down and ravish you, repeatedly. Does any of this help?
kind of. lol. I don't want talk, I'm a person of action
But talk is where it all starts. If he's not giving you what you need, ask him. It may be a little embarrassing but just charge ahead. I'd probably limit the list to your top three complaints. Stick to the behavior and don't criticize the person. See how he reacts and let me know. If you want to chat more about this friend me and include the URL for this question.
I think this is kind of a bad idea. Dominating each other is great, but only when it's done with love and care. You shouldn't dominate him because your angry. That's not a good reason, and who knows, maybe it'll somehow get out of hand. Leave your problems out of the bedroom and talk about them instead. Wanting to "punish" him because you're angry is not a good idea, trust me.
It's possible to go for rough sex but if you're goal he's too really make him suffer, this is a bad idea. When you dominate your partner, it's always with love and you have to care. It's a matter of trust and if you're just angry at him, you could hurt him.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You gotta talk, you're definitely going at it the wrong way your really risking your relationship beating around the bush with actions that don't back up how you really feel you'll confuse him and it's not gonna be a productive thing to do at the point, but a non productive thing you must communicate you wants, and make your situation healthier communication in the bedroom, and in everything in life truly is critical and NOT a choice, but NECESSITY!
Lots of tease and denial, maybe explore ruined orgasms or post orgasm stimulation. Kinky stuff that will definitely spice up the bedroom life.
Not the right way to do that. sex in the bedroom should be dealt with love and care not anger. If you want to be dominant, that's fun, but talk about all of this first and be honest with him about your anger.
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