Use prostitute to gain sex confidence??

[Anonymous]

i am 27 and woefully lacking in sex experience so I have been in more than a few situations where I should/could have taken some girls to bed and I just didn't go for it Because I am scared they would find out how inexperienced I am and I worry that the anxiety would mean I can't even get it up or keep it for long so I just gave up the chance to go to bed with them. and this is a vicious cycle of: "no experience>no confidence>no experience..." so I feel like the only solution is to use prostitutes to get past that barrier until I get to a point where I am confident in bed then I can start getting normal girls. but then if I was the kind of guys who don't mind using them then I would have done it a long time ago, but I haven't. well, less than 5 times but that doesn't really count. thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Prostitutes don't enjoy sex, they have addiction issues, emotional issues and need money to support bad habits. How would paying to sleep with someone who does not want to sleep with you and is not enjoying herself give you any confidence? I would say this is a bad idea.

How about find yourself a horny cougar? It's expected that you will have less sexual experience and that is a big part of the turn on in many cases. This way you get legitimately laid and gain experience and confidence to sleep with girls your own age.

[Stacyzee]

I don't see how that's gaining confidence.

You're not getting a girl that wants you...you're getting a girl that wants

whats in your wallet.

All of it is an act.

If anything you will end up losing more than gaining.

You'll lose your money but at least gain sex.

You pick and choose.

Want to gain confidence?

Pull a girl that actually likes and wants to have sex with you.

[Asker]

did you even read my post? if I wanted to pull a girl that wanted to have sex with me, which I totally could have done a million times, but the whole point of this post is that I am worried that I would expose my lack in sex experience!

[Stacyzee]

Yes, I read your post but what you're asking makes no sense. WIth a prostitute you will still have that same anxiety she will just tolerate it because you are a paycheck to her. How exactly is that supposed to give more confidence ? Ur better off pulling a regular girl and being honest about the whole thing. No girl is going to respect you after uve been with a prostitute.

[Kelly34]

Sex is sex. It doesn't matter whether the girl is having sex with the guy for money, because she likes his face, because of his 'game' or whatever you believe attracts women. The physical process is the same. If the QA's anxiety is caused through inexperience then getting more experience might well help it.

[Stacyzee]

Who says prostitutes like all of their clients ? If not for the cash factor they wouldn't even sleep with these men. Half of them are weird, old, ugly or married. So liking the first part isn't always true. The man perspective - sex is just sex like you stated. The women perspective - it is not. I feel like sleeping with a prostitute to gain more experience is ridiculous when you could be saving money, and being honest with a regular who will accept him. If he chooses a prostitute he better take

[Stacyzee]

that secret to the grave with him.

[Kelly34]

The physical act of sex is the same whether she desires him or just wants his money. If he is seeking more experience in the act of sex then he will get it from a prostitute. Surely you can see this? Also you are very deluded if you believe any man can have sex without paying whenever he wants, if that was the case prostitutes would not exist since there would be no demand.

[Stacyzee]

Obviously you don't hold a very high value of sex. And surely, you probably have it with anyone. Sex is just sex to you (with no meaning or value). That is the only explanation for your view. You cannot see my logical stand point in this whole manner and fail to do so because you are wrapped up in your own way of thinking. You're the one "deluded" I know men that get laid left and right and never have to spend a dime. Perhaps you are lacking something.

[Anonymous]

honestly, most girls don't really care how much experience you have...sex is about working with your partner, trying different things to figure out what you both like; its all about pleasuring eachother. Just be straight up with the girl, tell her you aren't all that experienced, but you want to experience it with her

and if you are attracted to the girl, you should have no issues keeping it up

[ironeddie]

If you don't have the confidence with people you know. I don't see how you would have confidence with hookers. Hookers are good for two things. They're good for nothing and they're no good.

Get a book on improving your self confidence. Once you've done that. Then you can start to build up your sexual confidence.

[Anonymous]

What's the difference between a self-labelled prostitute and any other woman? A prostitute is honest, LOL.

Do it. You'll enjoy it. I've been with prostitutes and 'non-prostitutes'. Prostitutes are better.

[Stacyzee]

Nice to see you think your Mom is a whore. We don't put prices on ourselves and sleep with 10 men in a day every day. That's the difference.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, she is. She's a dishonest whore. At best, a 'non-prostitute' is a dishonest prostitute. At worst, if she can find a desperate and pathetic man, she's a parasite.

[Opinion Owner]

And don't discourage him. Have you had sex with prostitute women and 'non-prostitute' women, as I have? Are you in a position to compare the two and to recommend one over the other? I doubt it.

[Asker]

hahahahahaha lol. Touche!

[ironeddie]

I know I'm not in a position to compare the two and recommend one over the other. But then again I've got standards.

[Opinion Owner]

ironeddie is off his meds. "I've got standards," he whines.

[Stacyzee]

One word: sad.

[Opinion Owner]

'One word'? You've already spoken more than one word. Stop stalking me please. Thanks.

[Stacyzee]

But I have to "stalk" you because it's hard to find a man like you. You are a keeper.

[Stacyzee]

I'll close this discussion and say, I hope you don't really think like this. If you do, I will pray for you. Have a good day .

[Opinion Owner]

"But I have to "stalk" you because it's hard to find a man like you. You are a keeper." Thanks, bebe. I actually am. I have a six pack and I earn more money in one month than most people earn in an entire year. That's all 99% of women care about, right?

[Kelly34]

If you just want experience, then go for it.

Its important to be honest with yourself whether its actually a lack of experience which is causing your issues though.

[abw121290]

A terrible idea... Period.

[wondering_guy]

are you me from the future, you sound like me

[Anonymous]

I recommend going for it

[Anonymous]

Virgins rule