Walked in on my brother and his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

My brother in law is 16 and his girlfriend is 17. I came home from work and I saw them having sex. They were on the couch and she was giving him oral while he was kinda standing and she was sitting. I was looking down at the mail but saw them in the corner of my eye. EW. As soon as they heard me walk he sat down and put the blanket over himself and pretended they were watching the movie. I have not spoke to him since then or told his brother. I am scarred for life. It feels so awkward now at dinner he just gives me this dont you tell look. What should I say to him? Should I tell his brother?

[yawst]

OOohhh poor you and poor him. I feel more sorry for him though, so extremely embarrassing. I would tell his brother just so it's out in the open. Maybe that will help him get over it. I don't know, so embarrassing.

[yawst]

who the fuck downvoted me.

[Asker]

There I tried to upvote you (:

[yawst]

Wow thanks, been having a crappy day, this made it a little better.

[ironeddie]

Do you think telling his brother would accomplish anything? I mean he is a male.

If you told me you walked in and saw my younger brother getting a blow job from his girlfriend. I'd "high five" him. :-D

[Asker]

I am not fairly close to the brother lol I know my husband has been giving him condoms and sometimes I can hear them upstairs but nope I never imagine i would see his naughty bits in her mouth! YUCK

[MissConfused93]

Tell them not to have sex in public areas. It's really none of your business that they're having sex but they should have been more respectful.

[Asker]

I guess they didn't know I had a half day off haha

[MissConfused93]

Oh hahaha I just feel embarrassed for them. Yeah it's never a good idea to have sex somewhere that isn't a bedroom. I think it's gross, risky and rude. Just politely tell them to stay in their room next time.

[Asker]

Should I tell his brother to do that? I am not that close to him and it is extremely awkward.

[MissConfused93]

Maybe tell your boyfriend and get him to tell him if that would be easier.

[Asker]

Oh it's my husband not boyfriend haha

[MissConfused93]

Hahaha okay! Right! Husband lol sorry I'm off today.

[JamielovesKU]

No, just try to pretend you didn't see it? Thats the only thing I can say. Stuff like that is common, no need to freak out. Just let it go.

[theoldguy]

why would you want to tell anyone let him know that you are sorry for walking in on them but at the same time tell him they shouldn't be doing such things in a common area of the house take it to his room

[NerdInDenial]

You're going to have to address the issue. Talk to him; if you truly don't want "drama," tell your brother in law that you have no intention of telling someone else what happened. He's a teenage boy, and sex is natural.

[pooper89]

Tell them not to have sex in the common areas. That's disrespectful. Especially if you live there with your husband

[Bluegameroyon]

lul.

i walked in on my parents having sex. you can't get any worse than that.

but i just don't think about it anymore. doesn't bother me, but it does make my dad look like a hypocrite to some of his religious beliefs.

whatever though.

[Asker]

Your parents? That is horrifying lol

[Bluegameroyon]

it disturbed me a little bit to find out my parents are just as human as everyone else- sexually speaking. but now it's just "meh". whatever.

[wondering_guy]

oh please I've heard my sister have sex, it was gross but im not scarred

[Asker]

Have you seen naughty bits in her mouth?

[wondering_guy]

no i haven't

[Asker]

Then you're not scarred until you witness that.