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Girls, ever been sitting on a guys lap and have them get hard? Not your boyfriend or husband. Someone that's just a friend or friend of boyfriend?

There is more to my story and question. I had this happen recently. With my sister in law. She is attractive, but I don't look at her that way. We were having a family get together. I was sitting at in a dinning room chair, slightly turned sideways. Everyone was talking and the room was crowded. I guess she wanted to sit down, and saw no problem with sitting my lap. I say lap, but she sat on my left leg (the side I dress on). Her back was towards me, she scooted her butt back really far, and put her elbows on the table. At that point her vajaajaa was on top of my junk. It got hard quickly. Up this point things are innocent and human nature (I can't control the monster) Here is where I get freaked out. When she felt me, she looked back into my eyes and said "MMMMM". She then proceeded to lean forward, and wiggle in little circles. Now remember we are in a room full of family. She never stopped having her conversation, and neither did I. This continued for about five minutes, I was throbbing, and almost came in my pants before she got up. When she did she just looked back and smiled. We have not discussed it. I just need some opinions. I know it was completely wrong.
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  • well if this isn't a troll or a made up fantasy story then that was really wrong of both of you.

    you should have told her to get off your lap and find an empty seat or have your chair and you move or at the very least to stop rubbing herself on you as its inappropriate and she shouldn't have practically grinded on you and flirted heavily when she knows you have a wife (her own sister!!!)

    im not saying it was wrong of you to get an erection as you cannot help that, its just wrong that you knew what she was doing when she turned around and went mmmm and you let her do that to you without stopping her

    • Troll, no! True, yes! Does not fit her personality at all. I was in complete shock, pretty much frozen and afraid to move.

    • He was afraid to do anything.. it really wasn't his fault. If he made a big deal about it, it would have been worse, embarrassing for him, she could have turned the whole thing around on him too.

    • um no Michael, if this was his girl and his brother, I am SURE he would have mad at his bro for not getting up and stopping it.

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  • Wow, that's really awkward and, yes, kind of wrong. Your wife didn't mind her sitting in your lap?

    This has never happened to me but I don't sit on my guy friends like that, only my boyfriend. It wasn't really your fault though if she just sat there (although you could have told her to get up Lol) but you can't control the fact that you got an erection.

    I think it's really messed up that she noticed it and continued to do that, it shows a lack of respect for your wife (her sister?). Anyway, I don't think it's a huge issue, I would just say try not to let it happen again.

    • No, don't think my wife thought anything of it, after all it was her sister. Nothing going on right. Wrong! She more than noticed too, was like 10 seconds from making a sticky mess. It's not like I could of said, "stop, I'm going to come"

    • Wow. Your sister in law has issues then. Lol i mean who does that? Your wife probably would be upset if she knew the whole story. But like i said, it's not really your fault, it's your sister in laws fault.

  • you should have said something like "oh you can take this seat I'll just stand up" or say something like you had to use the restroom,, any excuse to get up out of the seat

Most Helpful Guys

  • I had this happen to me, a girl I didn't see that way came over and sit down on my lap, more like on my junk and I couldn't help it, to make things worse, my fly was undone so you could see my thing poking through with my white boxers... embarrassing lol..

  • guys don't really have much control over when they get a hard on. Even if he's not attracted to her, just having her sit on his lap can be enough

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  • thats why it is inappropriate for girls to sit on laps that aren't their men. and who is especially taken...

    • oh and she is a complete whore. :) you should tell your brother.

    • well.. since it isn't your brother.. then you should tell your wife... I mean... I would want my husband to tell me! wow... the sister is wow...

  • I think you should talk to her and your brother... you should have got up and walked away.

  • That is embarrassing. And really awkward.

  • i was on dads friends lap and felt him getting hard i was nt wiggling but was kind of turned on he just squeezed my leg and i left but it felt good to me

    • The same happened to me when I was 5 and 6. My mom and my brother and I would go see her boyfriend and his room mate used to watch us when mom and her boy friend were our or having sex. I used to have a crush on his roommate so I would sit with him every chance I got. I would make sure that I was touching his penis. I would sneak a peak of him in the shower and sit with his dick right in between my butt. He never touched me but his sick would get big and ide wiggle on it and wrestle with him. I used to rub my pussy on him as we wrestled. Some times ide just have a night gown on with out panties and sit across from him so he could see my goods. Around a year or so of him baby sitting us I asked him about boys penises and sex. He didn't say anything I didn't want to hear. I asked him if he would have sex with me. I was 6 and he was 30. I've seen my mom having sex so I knew that the penis went inside the girl and I had been masturbating since I was 4. That night as we were watching a movie. I stared rubbed my self while on his lap. I noticed that he was watching and got hard so I put my hands on it and said I want see it. He was surprised but I begged him. So he pulled it out and started rubbing it. I turned around facing him and rubbed his penis on my pussy. I told him I wanted to be his girlfriend and him to have sex with me. He started rubbing my pussy as I did him. I told him to do it like mom does and I flipped over and pulled my gown up and he fingered me to see how tight I was. He licked my pussy and my butt hole and I loved it. I finally told him to put it in and he was so gentle. He asked me I'd I new what cum is and I said is that what shoot out. Lol he said yes. I said mom let's Mike do it on her mouth. He said let's do that and I said yes so when he came I let him cum in my mouth and on my face. This stuff went on for a few more months until mom broke up with that other guy.

    • @Flirtybaby thats so cool did you have other guys when you where younger i did every chance i got

    • No I didn't like other guys like him. He did fatherly things with me like a dad should. And that's why I fell in love with him like that. Other guys were after my mom. And yes my brother and I have played also.

  • Yeah I sat on a guys lap and he got hard, I didn't notice at first until I felt something hard under me and I got up to look and I saw the bump in his pants

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