I've been molested by a boyfriend. I didn't even realize it at the time to be honest.
He was trying to eat me out and I was kicking him and pushing him because I didn't want it, but ultimately caved in once we got going. At the time I thought it was my fault for caving in eventually (after he'd already been eating me out for about 20 minutes or so), but now I realize that since I really didn't want it and expressed the fact that I didn't want it that it wasn't my fault. I didn't report it.
The not so funny thing about it is that I talked to my 2 best friends and they said that they've been through similar situations as well. One of my best friends is waiting until marriage and she was fooling around with her boyfriend one day and he shoved it in without asking her and she had to fight him off and the other said her boyfriend pinned her down and ate her out when she was saying no and fighting him as well similar to how mine did. We all had like a sudden realization after the fact and it was like a "wait, I've been molested before" type thing. You don't even think of it at the time you just think I don't know that the guy is being hard headed and not listening to what you want, but technically that's what molestation is. None of us have reported our cases.
I think it's pretty common for women to blame themselves after it occurs as well like "oh well.. I didn't exactly stab him in the chest I just kicked him in the face multiple times if I was REALLY being raped I would have tried to kill him instead" to reason it out and make it not seem as bad and kinda talk themselves into thinking that they want it when they didn't .
1 guy friend was unwanted. afterwards, he told this other friend and this guy did the same after i broke up with my bf.
didn't report cause i didn't see what good would it do. i was young and so were they. it may have been partly my fault too. i may have led them on and my pushing may have seemed playful, id never know. my innocence and oblivious self, kept giving second chances to see if they would change just led to them to do it again... that was my fault. lesson learned.
I am not asking you to report what happened cause I catch your drift. You aren't into self blame stuff but are possibly thinking rationally somewhere which is good. But be sure to report anything even remotely similar god forbid if it ever happens in the future, never let them get away with it
Never happened to me, thank God... I don't think anybody would admit to committing rape on this site! Also remember, it's not only guys who can commit rape.
You'd be surprised how many people are proud of the fact they had raped a girl and got away with it. Happens a lot in the military. I used to be in a unit where you were not "one of them" until and unless you had raped a girl, preferably a girl in the military too. Yes women could rape too but the laws in most countries don't recognize this :)
1. Not many girls will be comfortable answering it buddy even if they have been raped. I know a cpl of girls out here on GAG who talk about their rape but I'm sure it's not easy on them to do so especially descriptively as you desire & also not a very good thing asking this :) please take out this question if you consider what I say makes sense
2. No I haven't but I have stopped quite a few from happening for sure. Those guys regretted having me around or trying that stuff
3. No I haven't done it to any girl / woman when she genuinely doesn't want it
No, I would never do that.
But I don't know why you're making this question gender-specific. Women can rape, and men can be raped (by men or women).
In most jurisdictions it isn't recognized in the law that a woman can rape.
That is true. But obviously, in actual fact they can rape. That's what I meant.
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