Should I text him and ask him for sex?

Met this guy recently, gone out a few times, had sex two times. Last time I heard from him was 5 days ago. Seems like he's not interested in me anymore and wants to stop talking since he hasn't texted me for so long. BUT I'm super attracted to him and super horny. Should I just text him and say, "hey, wana meet tomorrow?" Or I'm gona come off as a loser if he replies and says sorry, "not interested" or "I'm busy."
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't text him asking for sex, even males don't like to be objectified. If you are actually interested in him, then give him a small text just saying hello, don't ask to meet because that comes across a little desperate (at least in my opinion). If he replies and a conversation start, see if HE asks to meet up first, if he doesn't drop him a hint, if he doesn't pick up on it then he's probably not interested.

  • 5 days isn't that long... maybe he's wondering why you haven't texted him. If you want to continue seeing him then by all means text him. Who cares if he replies that he's not interested? You can't have defeatist thinking like that.

    • I agree with her. Always having to be the one who starts all the conversations does get old. If you've slept with him twice, you should be ok sending him a text every now and then.

  • You are degrading yourself by texting him and asking him for sex. All he is going to do is think of you as an easy lay. Spreading your legs for him isn't going to make him like you or want you more.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It depends on what you're willing to give up. If you're okay with just being a fuck buddy, then why not? However, if you want something more, then it's probably time to move on. There are literally millions of guys out there. Find one that you're attracted to that's into you.

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  • A woman should never ask a man for sex.