How do I just ask him to sleep with me?

[Ayee4barbie]

Hey guys, well I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months now, we've hooked up a couple of times and we've also slept together, right now I'm confused I don't want a relationship with him but I still wanna sleep with him and we're on the same page with that but it's like one day he's all interested the next I can't figure it out, I mean the sex is wonderful and I'd like to continue, what way can I just ask him or let him know that I just wanna fuck his brains out! Any sort of advice is welcome. Thanks!

[echoaj]

First of all your awesome.

Anyways to tell you the truth I would just straight up tell him.

I would text him and be like are you interested in having fun with me tonight?
something like that. And when he is having sex with you and your moaning just be like "I love having sex with you"

[Ayee4barbie]

Thank you and tbh I have told him what i want maybe I've sugar coated it a bit, but he's always busy with school, his frat and work so I feel bad for asking all the time, what else could I do

[echoaj]

I see. Maybe you could go to your local sex shop and buy lingerie or toys that way you can keep him interested in having sex with you and have him wanting more.

[kheserthorpe]

Are you asking how you express that you want to have him propose sex more often, or are you asking how, on a given day, if in the mood, you ask to have sex that day?

[Ayee4barbie]

I'm asking how on a given day I can ask to have sex that day

[kheserthorpe]

'Do you want to come over'

[Ayee4barbie]

i've tried that but he's busy juggling his frat, work and school so I kinda feel bad for asking

[kheserthorpe]

Asking isn't a command, its an offer and suggestion. He's a big boy, he can say no or yes.

[Ayee4barbie]

I asked him straight up yesterday and well he hasn't replied my text, I told him he could always say no and it wouldn't be a big deal but I haven'y gotten a no or yes so I don't know what he wants

[Anonymous]

Your two are basically friends with benefits so you should just tell him to come over. While he's there just start talking and you know eventually you'll probally get there.

[Ayee4barbie]

Yeah I know we are, it's just that he's so busy, juggling his frat, school and work, I feel bad always asking him to come over

[Opinion Owner]

just ask when he's available to come over:)

[Ayee4barbie]

Well today I was trying to see if he could by snapchatting him, he opened it but then he didn't reply so I guess he's busy again

[Opinion Owner]

text him? or call him? tomorrow...

[Ayee4barbie]

I guess I could but I'm your average girl who over analyses everything, so if he doesn't reply or something I start over thinking

[26ukdude]

I think he is one very lucky person, many guys would want to be able to have a girl there for them to see to certain "needs".

[Metal189]

I think truly deep down, he doesn't want to be used

[Ayee4barbie]

I don't think I"m using him, we're both in it for the sex, and i'm 100 sure he doesn't have feelings for me trust me

[Metal189]

You don't know that for sure.

[Ayee4barbie]

trust me I am sure cuz we've talked about it

[Metal189]

That doesn't mean he's not lying

[Ayee4barbie]

he could be but the signals i'm getting don't seem that way

[Metal189]

Signals don't matter

[Hunterb]

No strings attached if he says no he's gay