My boyfriend wants to finger me but I don't know what to do during and after he's done!?

[Anonymous]

Basically I'm really close with this guy and we are practically going out. We get off a lot, and we are always together at school, and we have reached the point where we both want to do more together? He wants to finger me, and im so confused about how to get him to, what do I do? Take my pants off? What underwear do I wear? pants or thong? and when he's doing it am I supposed to make noises or what? also, when he's done, and I know this sounds gross, but, what does he do with his fingers when they are all err.. gooey? haha! Someone please help me!!!

[UlsterScot]

I know what I would have wanted that first time.

Take my pants off?
No. Wear a pleated or ruffled, knee length skirt. It will look discreet but but be easily lifted.

What underwear do I wear? pants or thong?
Wear loose, thin silky underwear. He may first, tentatively, finger you through them, which will get you wet and invite him to move them aside.

When he's doing it am I supposed to make noises or what?
Mostly be quiet, but natural deep breathing will help him "keep score".

Also, guide his hand to the target. Hold it and help him do what you like and ease him away from something you don't, like a sharp nail.

Know what you like from masturbation and lead him to it. In first times, most if us think plunging our fingers is the main event, but, in my experience, external (first) and then direct (later) massage at your clit is.

What does he do with his fingers when they are all gooey?
They will dry quickly and he won't mind. If this concerns you, bring a face cloth for him to wipe his hand with.

Good luck. This should be very exciting.

[Anonymous]

Make sure that you get tuned on before he shoves his fingers in your vagina otherwise it might be quite painful for you. Make out, maybe let him rub down there while you still have your clothes on. Once he gets your pants and underwear off, have him rub/kiss your thighs, massage around your clit, etc. This will get you lubed up, and let your vagina get ready to receive his finger. You do not need to moan like a p*rn star, but you will probably be breathing heavily without giving it much thought. If he does something that you really like, give a bit of a moan to let him know he's doing well. When he's done, have him give the finger a taste. It's really not as gross as you might think. Just relax and have fun.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, he's going to be so horny knowing that he's getting some action that he will not give a second thought to what you're wearing.

[madhatters4]

agree. most guys are too amped up to be distracted by what the girl is wearing

[RileyRis]

1) Don't do it at school. Do it at someones place where he can wipe his hands. He can also wipe his fingers on your panties in a pinch.
2) It doesn't matter what underwear you wear as long as you aren't wearing grannie panties
3) Honestly, you are supposed to have fun. Not freak out about what to do. If you don't feel comfortable enough to sit back and enjoy it, then I think you are a bit too immature to be doing anything sexual.

[teasegirl]

Just wear anything that you find easy to put back on. When he is done with your orgasmic massage lick his fingers if you want.