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I accidentally humiliated a guy. Am I mean?

I was playing truth or dare with a group of 3 guys and 3 girls when one of the guys and I got dared to get naked in front of everyone. I've never done that before, but for some reason I didn't mind. So I did and the guys cheered. The guy took for ever to get naked and as soon as he did, I burst out laughing. I couldn't help it and I accidentally made everyone else laugh too. Why did I laugh? Well, I did in fact find his penis very small, and this is a guy who has been a jerk to me for many years. The bottom line is, was my reaction completely uncalled for? Or was it perfectly normal? Has something similar to this happened to anyone? He sent me a pissed off email later stating his erect size and a picture (which I am more than happy to share with those of you who are curious) to prove he's average. I don't have that much experience, but I still believe that he's under average, and that my reaction was pretty normal and common. But I might be wrong! What do you think?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • lol! XD Yea you humiliated him. He was a jerk to you, so who cares & I know you're probably just saying he was a jerk to you to find some kind of justification for what you did but that's only natural we humans will rationalize anything as long as it makes us feel better...

    You laughed because you might have a sadistic personality I don't know tbh. Also just to let you know that if he was actually average then that means that not only will guys who're 6''- (..''-'' as in below 6 inches...) not approach you after this but also guys who're 6'' - 6.4'' will as well, if it was really bad then even guys who're 6.5'' - 7.4'' will steer clear away from you, hell maybe even guy's who're 7.5'' - 8.4'' will be too prideful & insecure to approach you as well.

    I'm just guesstimating right now so don't worry anyway here:

    Beta ''Men'' (-6'') = 25%

    *Average/Neutral* Men (6'' - 6.4'') = 50%

    Prime Betas Men (6.5'' - 7.4'') = 10%

    Lesser Alpha Men (7.5'' - 8.4'') = 5%

    = 90% of The Male population might not want you now.

    Just remember to try not to over think & worry yourself to death over what I'm typing I'm just trying to give you a heads up for the after effects of this messy situation you're in right now. & like I said earlier it's just a guesstimation nothing to take serious. (:

    • Goddamn I SRSLY! Fucked-Up my reply to QA question I can't believe how badly I messed up my wording in this giant mess of a reply. GAG! If you're still experimenting with the layout of your website can you ADD in an EDITING OPTION for our replies?

    • Why would someone downvote this response? I'm being completely neutral, subjective, unbiased, & fair to both sides...

    • lmao. exactly

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  • If he's been a jerk to you for many years, why do you care if you embarassed him or not? It sounds like he needed to be taken down a few buttons from the collar, and it sounds like you struck a nerve. Also, we can't really control when we laugh, and it's much more embarrassing to see someone holding their laughter back than seeing them laugh out loud. The best thing to do is to ignore him and let him stew on it; maybe he don't won't be such a little prick to people now that he's been cut down to size by someone he mistreated.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I do admit you could have handled the bare essential a little differently, as to Not hurt Nor humiliate your small sample friend. It was just a game, after all, and no one should laugh At anyone, just With everyone. When it comes to something as Big as a "half dollar or full dollar" dick, guys have their pride. You will learn this with experience.
    Whether he was normal or abnormal, it was in bad Taste, sweetie, and perhaps an apology and "Act of contrition" should be either told to his Face or in an email, Privately.:)) xx

    • You're right, I should definitely apologize, and I will. But don't you think he deserves it a bit? As I was saying, he never really was nice to me. To be honest, I felt kind of bad for his size (maybe mostly because of my emotions). Do you think my girl friends would have laughed if I didn't? Do you think they felt bad for him too?

    • When it comes to displays of 'Privacy," I draw the line.. After you apologize in dist and ashes, I would say you are "Even Steven" with "Mean Gene."xx

  • Yes, your reaction was completely uncalled for and to be honest, it made you look like a total, mean spirited b*tch. You sound malicious, even insisting that you would disrespectfully share his private picture with strangers on GAG.

  • yeah you were mean for that. he can't help his size. and really.. who cares about size if you're mature enough..

    • That's sweet & I really like the fact that you're a caring & understanding person but lets get real here size does matter. This is an undebatable fact of life; it's only common sense. But still it's cool that you wanna let these guys off easy. (:

    • actually, for me, it doesn't. My first guy was just 4 inches. and I didn't have an issue with that at all.

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  • We were playing it at a pool party in high school and the dares started getting wild. We wanted to see one of the boys naked so we just picked the hottest boy there and dared the boys we were playing with to pull down his swim trunks, and if they did my one friend was going to show them her boobs. So they ganged up on him right after he got out of the pool and dragged him over to us and held his arms apart so he wouldn’t be able to cover up, then they grabbed his swim trunks and pulled them straight down to his ankles. His dick was SO little ahahaha we all just bursted out laughing at him. He kept trying to make excuses and saying that cold water makes them smaller but it looked so funny like it was ridiculous. We let him pull his trunks back up and said they weren’t even covering anything anyway 🤣. So you defintely weren’t mean compared to that. And my friend still had to hold up her end of the deal, they picked her because her boobs were huge and she just pulled her top off over her head and bounced up and down for them. While she was doing that one of my friends just reached for her bottoms and pulled them all the way down so she was totally naked in front of all the boys for a second. It was a wild day

  • Nah you're not mean, it's him who clearly has the issues, he'll get over it.

    • I'm a Man who still hasn't gotten over the fact a bitch broke my heart when I was still in Jr. High believe me we Men don't forget when a Woman damages our pride in fact WE NEVER FORGET! That said this guy was a beta with low self-esteem & decided to take his anger out on QA via bullying (I don't think he was a classic ''jerk'' after all ''jerks'' can get laid & betas naturally can never EVAH! get laid especially that ''class'' of beta.) her----

    • ----so lets just call this a textbook case of ''Karma's a Bitch'' & turn it into a scary ''folk tale'' for Boy Scouts to talk about while they're sitting next to a campfire at night & roasting marshmallows. (:

    • I know but what's done is done and she can't take it back and it sounds like he needed a bit of a reality check as he'd been a jerk.

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  • Dick size is a major deal for a lot of guys. It'd be like if he pointed at your belly and said "loose some weight you fat cunt" whether you needed to or not. It's definitely something guys need to get over, just like any insecurity. Either way it wasn't a very nice thing to do.

  • As everyone else has already said, you should probably apologize. Though, I'm curious - how small was it? lol

    • He said it was 5.5 inches. It looked smaller in person though (and in the picture he sent me so I'm not sure).

    • This! My innate human curiosity demands an answer to this question please it's literally killing me.

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    • As you can tell it took me close to an hour to find that gif. lol! XD

  • It doesn't mean you're mean but what you did was very humiliating, you definitely have to apologize.

  • it was kinda mean ya. Remember, a flaccid penis is very small for pretty much everyone.

    • True. I saw a amateur p*rn vid not to long ago where a girl & a guy were having sex in front of their friends on a dare at a party the girl smirked & kinda laughed when he she saw how small he was he didn't even care in fact he smirked back she got him hard & the thing grew to like a 8''-9'' & her face was completely shocked. tbh I was wondering if it ever was going to stop growing? lol! XD

  • You do realise the size of a flacid penis bears no resembelance to how big he is when it comes to sex. If he had just taken his clothes off yeh it probably would look small if his body just got a lot colder

    • and yes whats the link to the picture :-P

  • To be honest you probably did make him feel like shit but your story kinda made me laugh. But hey if he has been a jerk to you for years i would call it even. And besides it's not like you purposely tried to make him feel bad. Your laugh was just a reflex.

  • I think the real question is why did you get naked in front of a bunch of guys? Want attention much?

    You couldn't help that you laughed, people do it naturally in an anxious/ weird situation. I'd watch out though, this guy seems above and beyond pissed off.

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