What is the proper golden shower etiquette?

I really want to give my girlfriend a golden shower! We haven't talked about it, although she said she is willing to try anything once. Should I ask her first, or just surprise her? Is there a spot on her body I should pee on? Or should I just go all over? Obviously avoid the hair and eyes, right?
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  • One time I took an abnormal psych class and we were discussing socially acceptable sexual practices and ones that were deemed wrong. One girl let us know that they didn't like calling them golden showers but rather, "water sports." Not sure if that's true but I wanted to share.

    "Golden showers" aren't my thing, but I would advise you not to surprise her with it and maybe try it in the shower for your first time in case she hates it.

  • Ask first. Most people are put off by getting peed on, so surprising her is definitely not a good idea at all.

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  • Take her in the shower, run your hands over her body, play with her until she is aroused then whisper in her ear how hot it would be to you and that after you'll make her cum. Few girls will say no to that. They are turned on

  • I've peed on my gf in the shower before without asking. I strongly suggest that you ask first. Tell her it's something you want to do and then workout the details of what areas, if any, are off limits.

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  • Ewww. Just ewww. As a girl I think it's gross

  • GOD NO DON'T SURPRISE HER. Seriously, unless you want to get yelled at, ask her first

  • I can't say I get the appeal myself, to be on either end of it. Whatever floats your boat I guess but definitely ask first!

  • I would advise you to talk to her first.

  • umm... that's interesting. does your mother take golden showers?

  • Ask first and talk it over with her and as others have said, do it in the shower