Why do guys ask if you're okay during sex?

The last two guys I've had sex with both would pause multiple times while we were having sex and ask if I was okay. Is this something common? The last time it happened I was smiling and he still stopped to ask.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I clearly dont know you or anything about your sex life so I hope you dont take thing the wrong way but I think it can only be one of two thing that kind of relate. They either thought you were in pain or didn't think you were enjoying it.

    You said you were smiling. Which kinda of suggests to me that your more on the shy side in the bedroom. You may not be very vocal or very expressive. You should find ways to express your interest and that you're turned on (if your not already doing so). There are many ways to do this. You could tell him when you're really enjoying it, you could be massage his shoulders or back, or kissing him or his neck, you could try different motions with your hips and legs, try kegels etc. You dont have to be a p*rn star by any means, but show them you like them andare into it. They won't enjoy it if they dont think you are.

  • Maybe you're not very expressive when you're enjoying sex? So they could've been double checking that you were in fact enjoying it. Glad to hear multiple guys have done this though. Means most of them care enough to ask right?

  • Maybe he's nervous so he's trying to talk to hide it or he senses something different about you. When an ex asked me that during sex it was because i wasn't enjoying it and he probably saw it in my face

Most Helpful Guy

  • Some women can make sex a very complicated matter so they are probably just trying to make sure your needs are being taken into account. The guy can be asking for simple reasons like making sure the thrusts are not painful for example and some women will have sex and not enjoy it so the guy could just be trying to make it a sexual experience that actually leaves you fulfilled. Plus many girls fake and don't even know how to have an orgasm thanks to society's negative stigmas that cloud a lot of women's judgment. A guy can have sex with his girlfriend and all she'll think over and over again is "I'm such a whore" to the point where it fucks up her head even.

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  • Maybe you just make very awkward faces during sex because no one ever asks me that

  • To make sure you're enjoying it.

  • Probably thought it might be hurting you, so he was checking to make sure if it was or not

  • Maybe they thought they were hurting you.

  • Because they care about you.