How would you feel about your bf masturbating to p*rn?

How would you feel about your boyfriend masturbating to p*rn? I found out a couple months ago my bf has done it. I told him I don't like it because I give him sex basically every night. But he has done it a couple times since I told him that. When I ask he doesn't lie about it (that I know of anyways) but why would he still masturbate even though he gets it almost every night. Plus he gets boners a lot as well.
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  • If it's not impacting your sex life (and it doesn't sound like it is), then I don't see why it matters. It's not cheating, it's just masturbation. And as for him getting erections... that's going to happen. A lot. To be honest you sound a little bit ignorant of the male sex drive/organs/habits/hormones, which is causing you to draw some incorrect conclusions about it, which in turn is causing you to become upset.

  • His honesty is very ennouraging; however, he's clearly a Onanite and as such I'm afraid we'll have to stone him to death. Start looking for a nice man.

    • What's an onanite?

    • Haha im so hoping that i caught on to any scarcasm.

    • After Onan's brother Er was slain by God, his father Judah told him to fulfill his duty as a brother-in-law to Tamar, by giving her offspring. However, when Onan had sex with Tamar, he withdrew before climax[3] and "spilled his seed [or semen] on the ground", since any child born would not legally be considered his heir.[4] He disregarded the principle of a levirate union, so God slew him.

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  • P*rn isn't cheating, it's just a masturbation aid. Guys have high sex drives so it's completely normal for them to masturbate a lot. Some of my exes told me that they watch p*rn and it didn't bug me at all. It's not like he's addicted to it or cheating on you.

  • Tell him to go for it haha. It's completely normal ! I wouldn't care at all as long as it wasn't affecting our sex life together. Maybe watch it with him? Who knows maybe it could benefit you more. I think it could be fun !

  • As long as he wasn't doing it a lot I would be fine with it

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  • As long as it is not affecting our sexual relationship and our sex is good, then it would not bother me. I think they are just naturally going to do it.

  • I would dump him.

  • Because you are NOT in control of what he does with his own body.

  • I don't have a boyfriend and I admit it would bother me, but you just gotta let him do his thing. I think it would be abnormal if he never did it.

  • I am fine with it if its not a lot and if its nit over fetish or very hard core p*rn.

  • I can understand why you are feeling resentful, but I have a question, you say he gets boners a lot as well, why is this a problem?

    • I would think if he masturbate to p*rn and we have sex almost every night why he still gets them all the time. You would think he wouldn't get them as much.

    • You do realise a boner is completely out of a guys control, he will get several in his sleep, he will get them at awkward times in the day, many times a day. No way to stop it.

  • Would you rather he cheat on you? I don't see the problem here. Stop being so butthurt and go watch it with him.

  • Doesn't really bother me.

  • if you don't like it, leave him.

  • Leave him alone. You don't like it, go somewhere else. Every guy likes p*rn. If they say they don't they're lying. I don't want a bunch of guys replying to me with, "Not every guy, I don't like p*rn!"... YOU'RE A LIAR!!!

  • I'd suggest we watch it together so we can help each other.

  • I know my boyfriend watches p*rn. I'm fine with it, I watch it too. However I would not be okay with him watching the live cams. It seems too personal, since they seem to be amateurs and you are able to pay them and request they perform certain acts.

  • Every guy watches p*rn

  • I have no problem with my bf watching it. I watch it too sometimes. who cares? it's not like he has feelings for the girls in those videos.

  • It's perfectly fine :) i would not make any fuss about it especially if it doesn't affect our relationship:)