Ladies: do you like the look of your vagina, and would you change it given the chance?

[BoundByCuriosity]

I recently watched a documentary that said because of p*rn, more and more women are opting to go under the knife to get a 'more pleasant looking pussy' because its 'what men like'. Personally this made me sadface, because we are made the way we are, and shouldn't need to change that. (breast enhancement makes me sadface too, but thats sort of off topic)

[skullyy]

I think mine is nice and pink :]! There`s no extra stuffs hanging or weird colors.. i don`t watch p*rn, but i have seen p*rn.. and i don`t think theirs look any better than mine.

I haven't had babies though... maybe those who have, are the ones who would be crazy enough to consider an operation down there... maybe it gets ugly after givibg birth? :/ and pwrhaps those who have a lot of sex woth different partbers also tend to have an ugly kitty because it been adjuates and moved around tooooo much.. ewwk! LoL

[skullyy]

Haha my phone loves typos grrrr :D

[BoundByCuriosity]

im pretty sure lots of sex with different partners is no different to lots of sex with just one. im also pretty sure that regular sex doesn't make a woman 'loose' as the vagina is a muscle, and im also pretty sure the amount of sex has no affect on her labia either. sure it will change with age, its skin, and all skin does this, but yeah, i may need some women to back this up/verify it?

[skullyy]

I never said it makes it loose, but having different partners with different sizes as a life style WILL have an effect on the way your vajayjay looks after sone time. I say this because i know a few clise friends who verified this.

[skullyy]

And even when it is a muscles that adjusts to size, a woman who has had many dofferent partners and with kids will have a less tight pussy than someone who hasn`t. Which os why those tyoe of operations exist. Duh!

[BoundByCuriosity]

a cock isn't going to change vaginal tightness if the woman is properly aroused. the changes tend to occur when the vagina is damaged and tears occur in the muscle eg a baby popped out or a fist popped in.. as for the labia, if you have a guy that likes pulling on them or sucking on them hard, or you have a less than vanilla lifestyle that may involve other pulling or stretching, then sure, but i have my doubts about 'regular' use.

[BoundByCuriosity]

i stand corrected. a regular big cock can cause the labia to stetch and not return to its regular size and shape. thankyou google :P and my appologies @skullyy

[Anonymous]

Well I'm going to be honest, if I had the money I would change mine for sure. I have had three kids naturally and I am getting older (30) so my kitty needs some help. I would have my outer lips cut down to a "p*rn quality size" I would also have that surgery that tightens the vagina, inside and out (I forgot what its called) and I would have my uterus either pushed up further or even taken out. I do feel that p*rn has had an effect on how I see myself, I wish I could be happy with what I have but I am not.

[BoundByCuriosity]

do you still have an active sex life with your childrens father (husband)?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes we do, he claims that it is fine to him. So it is mostly how I feel about myself.

[BoundByCuriosity]

wow that really sucks. its a pitty you feel you're inadequate somehow. how much p*rn are you exposed to that youve got it in your mind to change?

[Opinion Owner]

I have had my fair share of p*rn in my life, but nowadays I don't watch it too often. I think as a women, I feel I need to compete with other women. I have never had any complaints from men, but I am also bi and I feel as tho I wouldn't be comfortable with another woman going down on me. Maybe its just me, but men have the same feelings when it comes to penis size. For example: I over heard a conversation at work between two men, one of the men was talking about his girlfriend leaving him for another man. By the way these men are older (40's) so this was not a high schooler type of conversation. Anyways, the other man asked him why he thought she left for the other man, and this was his reply "Because she wasn't sexually satisfied with me, she wasn't the first girlfriend that left me for another man. I know that the average penis size is 6 inches... I could be wrong but I am not enough close to that." So do men have similar feelings towards inadequacy?

[BoundByCuriosity]

men are probably worse when it comes to penis envy. and every guy (who cares about the women he is with) worries at some stage if she has had 'better', and how well he may or may not be doing. but generally with guys its a performance thing more than a visual thing. if you know you are 'hitting the mark' with an average sized dick, you tend not to really care too much about being bigger.

[Opinion Owner]

That makes total sense! And I can agree, my issues are mainly visual, based on my own opinions, pulled from other sources (p*rn). I guess I needed a reality check, maybe a part of getting older is accepting yourself for who you are flaws and all. Now that I think about it, I wouldn't want every man to have the same EXACT penis. I enjoy the thrill of seeing a new different penis when I am with a new man, it adds to the experience because its different. So why should I try to mutilate my unique vagina to look like someone else's. Thank you for your responses, sometimes we need a different outlook from someone else's eyes. :-)

[BoundByCuriosity]

B-) im glad i was able to help! all the money you might have spent on getting some reconditioning done, could always go towards a second honeymoon and some great sex hopefully somewhere exotic ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Great idea!!! Sex on the beach here I come! lol

[XRabbitHeartX]

I'm pretty happy with mine. It looks good, nothing wrong or abnormal looking about it. So no, I would not change it. I agree though that it's pretty sad that people are so insecure about these things. The pressure gets too much for some women to look perfect when in reality we can never be 100% perfect. If people get all these plastic surgery procedures then at the end of the day there's nothing "real" about them anymore. It's all just fake. I'd rather be human thank you :)

[AdamThomas]

It is sad, however what's more sad is that I came here from your other question on what women like about penis', in which many of them ask for circumcised.

Most people see female insecurity due to p*rn as sad, as a problem to be solved, as unacceptable, yet men (or more often, baby boys with absolutely no choice at all) going under the knife cutting bits off of their genitals, and women asking them to do so in order to please them, is seen as being perfectly acceptable.

[thisGUYknows]

you know what? I'm willing to bet that this "movement" was started by women trying to please men. otherwise it just doesn't make sense. WE DON'T CARE WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE!!!

[BoundByCuriosity]

as much as we might not care when we get to play with it, from the couple experiences I've had a strippers via the way of bucks parties, guys definitely comment on the look of a womans vagina and have their own personal prefrences.

[kittyforlife]

Im pleased with mine :) and its goood to know that im not cavernous agter having a baby lol

[pineneedle]

To be honest, i hadn't really considered it. I don't really spend my time with my head between my legs..

[BoundByCuriosity]

lol as much as it might get denied, women do a hell of a lot of things because 'guys will like it'. but thumbs up to you for not worrying :P

[Blondeandfree]

I love mine. It's me and wouldn't change it's shape for anything. And my guy loves it the way it is, so no need to change. Would you change the shape of your d*ck?

[BoundByCuriosity]

I've never had any complaints, so no i would not change a thing. In an attempt to keep apples with apples and oranges with oranges, labiaplasty (neatening up the external bits) is sort of on par with circumcision. Both fairly harmless in the greater scheme of things, but I am damn glad i was never cut as a child, i love all my nerve endings in tact ;) as for 'reshaping' i guess vaginoplasty (re-tightening) would be on par with penile reduction/enhancement. a woman can get this done without any really obvious or visible signs, but a guy will end up with scars all over his cock. would i like an extra inch or two via some magical spell, sure, any guy would (unless they are already blessed with a footlong), but would i ever go under the knife for it, hell no.

[justbanANNAz]

welll… imma b real here… i seriously think my vagina looks better than most of the ones on google lol….
I'm happy with mine:)
everything seems fine size and colour wise.. iv also got none of the wrinklyness [which looks a little weird to me] so yeh=]
never used it sexually tho. one day=]

[Arwens-Fire]

I'm pretty happy with my vagina. Have no desire to change it.

[uuhhhh]

oh philip, you crack me up

[filiasan]

This is actually true. I wouldn't go under the knife, because it scares me. Also, I don't heal very quickly. But I do have a problem with "unevenness". But I haven't heard complaints. Well... yet.

[chocolateismylover]

Nope, it looks fine.

[Anonymous]

Love my vag. Honestly. Would not change a thing about it. to quote the Ugly Truth "Well, you better start. Because if you don't wanna have sex with you, why the hell would Colin?" If i didn't find myself and my lovely lady parts attractive then why should I expect a guy to want them either?

[BoundByCuriosity]

for the same reason guys can be self conscious about being cut/uncut

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly it comes down to you've got what you've got. you can try and change it but is that really going to make you happy? I understand some people do eventually feel the need for plastic surgery to alter their appearances. But that in itself is disheartening. Our society has f'd up so much about what is attractive and what isn't that self confidence is hard to find nowadays. Is the person who undergoes that surgery going to be happy after it's done? Or will they just want to have something else changed? Personally I've learned to be grateful for my setup and have found partners who liked them as much as me. Our own insecurities are much greater in our minds. The little wrinkle there or the extra piece of skin there bothers us much more than anyone we would ever be with.