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I am a 26 year old virgin who is constantly horny?

I am a 26 year old virgin and i know it says 18 to 24 on my profile but i am actually 26. I have been feeling extremely sensitive theses day to the point its getting annoying. Anything can sets me off even saying the words "fucking" or "fuck" turns me on. I dont know whats happening to me i just can't switch off. I hate to admit it but i have watched p*rn and i masturbate but i am still so charged up. Whats wrong with me? has anyone else felt like this? How can i stop feeling so horny?
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thanks guys i really appreciate your input!! I will take verything into account!!
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guys i have recovered now thank u lol I feel calmer now lol
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This might be unwelcome advice. I hope not, because it's sincere and from my own life experiences.

    I know you want to wait until marriage. The truth is that given your libido this is probably a mistake. Girl, you need, need, NEED to get laid.

    I waited until I got married. It was a factor in why I married badly, because I was desperate to get some. I didn't know it at the time but this badly skewed my thinking and I made a very bad choice in who I married.

    But it doesn't end there.

    My wife would withhold sex for months sometimes. By the time she would give in I was nearly crazed with lust I wanted it soo bad. I didn't care how, I just wanted to be inside her and pounding. And it is at moments like that you really don't care about little things like condoms. Of course, she would give in only when her (tiny) libido was up, which was only when she was ovulating. Three kids later... I love my kids but I wish they were better planned. And preferably with a different mother. Too late. I let my horniness take control of my brain and my life choices.

    It probably won't go away on its own for years. So do you want to stop feeling horny now? Want some relief? I'll be a little cruel here. You need to fuck. Fuck, fuck, fucking fuck. You need to have a man between your thighs and pumping you full. Get a friend you can trust, and rip his clothes off. Go on craigslist and say you're a 26 year old virgin, send proof of life and cock size. Hell, give me a call. After writing this post I'm halfway ready to buy a plane ticket to wherever you are and we can both get some relief.

    Demystify it. Learn what you like. Scratch your itch with a man's cock instead of your fingers. The best thing you could do is to have a glass of wine, take a dildo, and pop your own cherry just to get it out of your own way. Do it in a way you can make mistakes and still be safe, before it makes you crazy enough to do something permanently life altering.

    • Yeah definitely take advice from someone who let his desire for sex ruin his life, and now has him considering betraying the mother of his three children.

    • "uuhhh": Don't read into things that aren't there. I'm not betraying her. She betrayed me, time after time, in things having nothing to do with sex. And now we're divorcing, "right and proper". It's tearing my life apart but it will be over soon. Yes, take advice from someone who had to learn the hard way. Why do you keep commenting on my posts, determined to twist everything I say? This isn't the first time. Please stop.

    • From what you're saying I don't think you've learned anything at all. You're blaming everything else but yourself, when really you just made the wrong decisions over and over again because of how you were a slave to your sexual desires. And now you're telling her the solution is to just abandon herself to her sexual desires and fuck left and right. No. And on top of that, in the midst of a divorce, while breaking up the lives of three kids, you're making advances to a girl just out of her teens. So let me make it clear that whatever your precious sensibilities are if I find that someone gives advice this bad and misguided, that I absolutely find no respect for, I'm going to say my piece and you can deal with that.

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  • Pretty much what guys feel all the time. It's natural and you shouldn't push down those feelings and urges. And when you're ready don't be afraid to do something with someone. It doesn't have to be sex if you are saving that for marriage but there is a ton of other stuff you can do. If you don't want to do any of that stuff then just keep doing what you got to do to relieve yourself. I personally don't watch p*rn, but if that helps you relieve yourself do it. You can always masturbate more than once a day and many people do.

    So to answer your questions: Nothing is wrong with you, it completely hormonal and is natural. I think almost everyone has felt like this at some point, and if people say they haven't then they are lying.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Hmmm I think that you are still virgin although you are 26 years old maybe it sometimes bothers with you because virgin people always feel horny by themselves but I can't generalize for everybody... To illustrate, I was very horny like you before my first sexual intercourse but now I've settled down any more, thus I can control my feelings and thoughts about sex, besides I feel very satisfied and relaxed after the sex, anyway the sex is very soothing for everyone. There's no wrong something of you, you just want to have sex in order to discharge your sexual load. I hope my expressions and infos were explicit and clear for you :) GOOD LUCK !

    • Thanks hun!!

    • Please :) But you can be sure that you had no problem. Seeing that, you are 26 years old, you should get married with someone who you love or try the first sexual intercourse. I understand you very well but you will satisfied if you follow my suggestions :)

    • I will thank u for the input :)

  • I think what you're feeling is totally normal and natural. There's nothing abnormal about feeling horny. It's how our bodies were designed to be and I think most people would be able to relate. I don't think you can do much. Your only options really is to wait for it to pass, to do something about it or to try to think about other things but ultimately your body is going to want what it "wants" and it's no different than a craving for food or sleep or any other human need.

  • There is nothing wrong with you. People's sex drives fluctuate all the time. For example, many women feel more horny around the time they're ovulating. In your case it seems like you're horny from lack of male sexual contact.

    Since you're waiting 'til marriage, you can release some that energy through dancing, like salsa. Maybe read romance novels? In the meantime, I'd up your flirt game so you can quickly find yourself a nice, caring boyfriend.

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  • You are in the middle of your child-bearing years - you are SUPPOSED to be horny. It would be abnormal if you weren't.

  • I hate to be so obvious but maybe you need to get busy and find a sexually compatible guy to "meet" your needs and you his.

    • lol i know but its kind of difficult and i dont want to get into why but trust me I know what you mean

  • I'm afraid you need a guy w/o STDs badly but choose wisely

    • Only real sax satisfies my appetite like a steak self-sex is like eating a small portion of Chinese food

  • Pray - fast - worship - do good works - try obeying the other 9 of the 10 commandments

  • Yup, sounds like you have a high sex drive. The best thing to do is to keep your mind distracted (as hard as it may be to do). Find different hobbies (play sports, meditate, exercise etc) and spend about a month focusing on those things. You have to train your mind to stop being constantly horny. It doesn't mean that the feeling won't go away, but it will be less than it usually is.

    • Yes, I think i might have a high sex drive and i hate it!! thanks for answering i would definitely think of ways to distract myself.

  • You may just have a high sex drive. If you think it is do to the fact you are a virgin and not having the full experience of having sex, then you could try to find someone to have a relationship with.

    • but i have only recently started to feel like this. Its really pissing me off!!!

    • People's sex drive can go up and down throughout their lives. It can be effected by all sorts of things such as diet, stress, or growing older.

    • Thank for telling me that peoples sex drive can go up and down cos i need to seriously calm down and at leat i have hope that i will caml down. Thanks!

  • There's nothing wrong with you. Sex drive is just an indicator of general health, so you're healthy. Avoiding sex is not good for your physical and emotional health, so go out and get some.

    That would be the simplest cure.

  • See horniness is just a natural, physical feeling, like hunger, except satisfying it isn't necessary for your survival. It's completely unnecessary, in fact, to satisfy it, which is such a key thing. Now that's not the popular consensus but I think that's why someone could ever see horniness as a real problem like it is for you. When you start looking at it stoically, then it's just... there. It's manageable and goes away on its own.

    Definitely if you masturbate you'll only feed the horniness. Really I find it hypocritical that for moral or religious reasons you'd want to wait for marriage to have sex, yet you'd masturbate to p*rn.

  • ...

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MZWVZvQFaQc

    • lmao!! why are you doing this to me!!

  • I know it sounds flippant, but that's just totally natural given it's been a quarter century dry spell. ANYBODY would be really horny. It's like saying I'm fasting. Why am I always hungry and how can I stop? The solution to that one is eat regularly. I'd recommend having some really great sex. (after that long it's going to be great) It won't cure you but you'll get relief from the symptoms for a while.

    • Just saw your comment that you're waiting to get hitched. If you've got a guy ready to marry, marry him and go scratch that itch. If not, you might want to reconsider that whole waiting for marriage thing. I know more than one girl who became a middle aged virgin because she insisted on perfect or nothing.

    • I definitely feel better now that u said its natural it was irritating me!! i seriously need to get married fast becasue i think i am getting to the point where i need to fufill that area of my life. Thanks!

    • But you really shouldn't marry someone just to get the horny out of your system. As someone mentioned before, it might lead to making a poor choice in partner.

  • Are you waiting till marriage? if so, huge respect :). I know it ain't easy, the best thing to do is just try to distract your focus, divert it to something else to stop you thinking about it or just keep busy. Its the best way

  • You are horny because you are looking p*rn and masturbate. Abstain and you woun't feel such horny after a while (3 months)

  • You don't wanna have sex till marriage so try to find a way to release this energy. Maybe yoga or exercise. You can ask a specialist.

    • yep thats what i am going to do i might need to throw myself into exercise or some sport that can help me release the tension!!

  • Well avoid eating more hot spicy food that will fuel more of your sex drive to go up.

    Yoga help balance the energy flow in the body.

  • Hate to say this but you need to have sex, a lot, and if you aren't going to have it because you said you are waiting to get married, then nothings going to help you. You body is designed to do it now, not in several years down the line, NOW

    • yes i know i need to sort myself out i am going crazy!!!

  • whatd you do to fix it (at status update)?

    • Those feelings naturally died down. I am about to start my period so just before i start i get super sensitive and thats the case for most women.

    • and i forgot about this fact lol

    • so what are you going to do next month, when it happens again

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  • I exercise, go to the gym and run. Keep myself occupied which helps a lot. Keep your mind off the topic and stimulated towards something else.

    • since i am anonymous i can say this to you lol i think you are super cute lol!!

    • haha, brave because your identity is hidden? lol. But Thank you, very sweet of you!

    • Thats the only way i could do it to be honest hahaha and you are welcome :)

  • it's because you're a virgin and have never experienced what it's like to be in a relationship (probably).

    go get yourself a nice boyfriend if you don't want to be horny anymore.

    although you still might be horny after that.

  • I wish more girls where as horny as you.

    Anyways I don't think anything is wrong with you. You just have a high sex drive.
    I do too. I masturbate to p*rn like twice a day and I am also a virgin. It's also really easy to get me horny. Well it is what it is.

    • well i am hoping it's a phase and i get over it to be honest.

    • why is that? Is it taking over your life or something?

    • its not taking over my life i just feel a bit dirty to be honest. I haven't really explored that side of me so thats why i am uncomfortable with it and the funny thing is, is that i might have a high sex drive so thats super uncomfortable.

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  • I was a virgin until age 25, 8 months ago, I turned 26 two months ago and I've only had sex that one time I lost it, I still kinda feel like a virgin though

    • its not bad being a virgin

    • why are you a virgin? by choice I assume?

    • yes i want to wait until i get married

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