Is it bad that boyfriend thinks my butt is my best physical feature?

We've been dating for about 6 or 7 months now. I'm his first girlfriend. He's a gentleman. We're both 17. We were playing 20 questions and I asked him what my best feature is and he said "Your butt" I started laughing and said "What's my second best feature?" He said eyes. I'm not sure if it's a bad thing or a red flag. I heard that guys like butts because they want anal sex? I don't know... I remember talking to him about sex and he said "When we're both ready" . I felt something in between my breasts and it felt weird so I asked boyfriend if he could feel in between my breasts and he said no. I didn't want him to feel my breasts. I asked why not and he said "Because I'm a gentleman". I remember months ago, I wanted to tell him a secret and I was afraid to so he said he will tell me something if I will so he told me he stares at my butt sometimes lol. When we make out now, I tell him he can touch my butt if he wants. He does it sometimes. Whenever I touch/grab his butt, he does. So I asked him today what my best feature is (again) he acted a bit shy lol and said my butt. I just said "Wowwwwwwwwww" we started laughing but he acted confused. He said it's the truth and that I have a cute butt lol. I asked him what's my best feature mentally and he said "To be honest, I don't know. Everything is just a tie for me."
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I am not sure what your issue is? You asked and he gave you an answer. sometimes it is hard to know why something grabs as the way it does. Sex occupies most of the thought processes of a guy that age. while it could be tied to anal I doubt it. When I was that age the thought of anal was kinda gross. I grew to really like it when I got older. but eveyone is different.
    For me my wife eyes caught me and were always amazing...
    What did you want it to be? he is not saying your not pretty and he is not saying you don't have a really great rack... he just really likes your cute butt... :)

  • He sounds kind of uncomfortable/shy talking about it. He looked confused because he was probably genuine when he said it and then you kind of questioned whether he was genuine or whether it was normal to like a girl's butt (which it is) by going "wooowwwwwwww." And you probably put him on the spot with the best mental feature thing, that's why he was kind of awkward about it lol.

    And liking a girl's butt has nothing to do with wanting anal sex necessarily.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He is a butt guy and thinks you have a really nice butt. That's all. Some guys are preoccupied with boobs, others butts.

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  • He's just not very savvy but at least he's honest. As a fellow booty guy, I can tell it's a compliment.

  • No, it is not bad. Keep up the squats.

  • There's nothing odd about his response. A lot of guys are 'butt' guys.

    Does it mean he wants anal sex? Not all 'butt' guys want anal sex and some guys who are breast guys or whatever do. He's probably a little more likely to find the idea at least somewhat hot. It sounds to me like he's not all that physically experienced, so he's probably not sitting at home planning out "next week i'll touch her breasts, then the next night we'll have sex and then anal".

    • Lmfao ^