Why does my girlfriend call herself a cumslut and beg for me to cum in her mouth?

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Im definetly not complaining haha but we'll be chilling and when she's giving me a blowjob she tells me to call her stuff like cum slut and whore or tell her that she's stupid just stuff like that and everytime im  going to  cum it has to be inside her, whether its in her pussy or mouth its  going to  be inside her or she says she  doesn't  get off. I think its hot but I dont get why it turns her on so much. Ladies?

washize · Accepted Answer

It turns her on. Sometimes people lose their shit in an EXTREME sexual experience. Don't hold anything against her during sexy time.

usually during sex people express their PRIMAL thoughts/urges. Unless she's faking it (putting on a show for you so that you can ejaculate and get The fuck away from her), chances are that she's just letting go and enjoying the moment.

Live and let live. Have fun. As long as no one is getting hurt, anything CONSENSUAL goes during sexy time.

samhradh_leannan · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure what you mean by "something behind it"? Either she is just genuinely turned on by that, and likes thinking about/ talking about/ doing those things, or she thinks it turns you on and is doing it for your benefit. If you never implied that it was something you were especially into then it's probably just something she enjoys. You can always ask her about it, and tell her you would like to know what her feelings are about those things and what she likes!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think she enjoys you doing that. It turns her on.

islands7 · Accepted Answer

I think the extra titillation she gains comes from fantasies that touch on male domination, even fantasy rape sooner or later.  If this wish is strong, she might go shopping for it if you don't come through for her.  The more you research and become her playmate in this diversion, the more likely you'll not only win her forever, bar any thoughts of shopping this around and then see this fantasy as fleeting.

sovetskii13 · Accepted Answer

Dirty talk turns her on. She's not messed up. She's not  going to  be offended. She doesn't actually think of herself like that. It's just a fantasy or fetish she has. She likes hearing or being called dirty names. It turns her on during sexual situations. It's normal. Since you're not complaining, do what she wants. You'll both enjoy it. Just don't call her that stuff outside of sexual activity.