More than any specific technique, being good in bed is about the following for a girl:
- Be ENTHUSIASTIC. Make it clear by your words, actions, and attitude that you WANT to be sexual with him and that you are enjoying what you are doing.
- Be OPEN-MINDED. Be willing to try new things: new positions, new techniques, new places, new experiences. Ask him about his fantasies, and see if you might be willing to try one or two of them with him.
- LET YOURSELF GO. Obviously this assumes you have privacy, but be in the moment during sex, instead of thinking about other stuff. Relax, and focus on what's going on. Let yourself make noise, or thrust your hips, or pull the sheets off the bed, or whatever you do when you are totally into it and he's driving you wild.
- COMMUNICATE. Use your WORDS, and your ACTIONS, to tell him want from him, how much you like it, and when it blows your mind. Talk dirty, be descriptive, and use full sentences when you speak, and when you aren't, don't be afraid to grab his arms, rub his chest, pull him in for a kiss, or take his hand or head and put it where you want it. Actions can communicate just as well as words can.
It is just about impossible for a guy not to enjoy himself with a girl if she does these 4 things, and in fact, a girl who does these things well is likely going to be considered among the very best that guy has had.
Agree with Mr Oracle. How you approach it and your level of excitement is a turn on for me. Be enthusiastic, don't be shy, surrender yourself to him and above all have a good time. Don't worry about being polite or reserved - thats for in public. We want to know that once you close the door the animal in you and the dirty side in you comes out. Something only we see. Someone that wants what we have to offer 100%. Someone that tells us how much they want us. I'll take that over moaning any day.
Own it, be confident, let yourself loose and you will blow him away.
In my experience I've noticed a couple things that really get men going.
1. Rub the head of his penis gently. Focus on the top half of the penis.
2. Use lotion or lube of some sort.
3. Stroke him slower rather than faster.
4. Massage between the scrotum and the anus.
5. Be loud yourself!
6. Take action, don't let him do everything.
Excellent points... I agree with all of them..
Solid advice
Thank you!
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Lol this is too much.
We like gals that are clean in all pits & slightly perfumed
that seem to be as hungry/needy for sex as us
and as aggressive in initiating it, pursuing it
inventive in bed to give new pleasures by watching our feedback
we like gals that MOVE and in magic ways on our dongs,
even athletic in enthusiasm
acting as if in love taking care of it
in my opinion, the best thing to do would be to sit him down and ask him what are his likes and dislikes when to comes to being intimate. When you speaking with him, be sure to listen to what he is saying and have a genuine interest in wanting to try what he's interested in. If there's something that he really likes, let me know that you want to be great at it for him. Ask him what do you need to do to make it the best pleasurable experience for him. I'm sure we'd all like to be with someone who wants to truly please the person the way he or she would like. Trust me, if you talk to him and ask him what you have to do to make it the best sexual experience for him, he'll love you even more. A woman who a genuine pleaser is something I believe most (if not every) guy wants. Vise versa
if she's got him by the balls, his heart & mind will follow
Fucking ask. I bet he's got ideas he hasn't shared. Just brace yourself for the inevitable sick shit.
moans are great ego boost. loud but not too loud
for me the ultimate would be
Blow job, let him cum in your mouth, then either show it to him before swallowing, or show it to him and let it run down your chin onto your breasts. don't wipe it off, just leave it there, arghh over the moon crazy.
Can you explain why that would be a turn on, lol...I don't mean to be rude...but I don't understand how showing him his cum would be a turn on...
for some guys it is a huge turn-on. you asked for opinions so it is just mine but most of the guys I know agree whole heartedly. the act tells me she has a deep emotional attachment. that she is willing to do something she may not really care to do. she is willing to do it for me. It is hard to explain why something turns you on sexually to someone of the opposite sex. can you really tell me why a penis turns you on? they look disgusting. just pieces of skin to me
When you're giving him a handjob or blowjob, give him a prostate massage. There's lots of info on the internet about how to do it. You can wear a latex glove.
Get really close to orgasm - but not actually have one so you are soaking and your clit/vasgina is throbbing then let him enter you, nothing like going in a girl whos allready really aroused
switch it up, try something new. kama sutra, the likes. etc... try deepthroating, if you can
I think setting can really add to things try to do it in a spa or shower or someplace fun.
THIS IS MY SPECIALITY!!! okay, try this, before he ejaculates, grab his penis and tighten your grip *snickers*. Before you get into the meat of the affair, play around a bit, tempt him and lure him into your trap. You know like seductively make out, take off one piece of clothing at a time, do things REALLL slow and make him drool!!! oh do a strip tease too, and make sure you get an orgasm alright? the best part of sex for men is when the girl gets the orgasm, that is kindness
If you are both willing, try giving him a prostate massage. Best thing ever in my opinion.
Give him lots of attention and be as girly and seductive as you can
Bury your vagina into his dick!
Lube his penis up.
Bend over.
Spread cheeks.
There are other options but they require skills and stuff.
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