Questions for girls about grinding.

[Anonymous]

Girls who enjoy grinding with guys at poarties /clubs 1. Do you enjoy grinding ''back to crotch'' or ''front to front''? 2. Has it ever happened to get turned on while doing it? 3. When you are doing it with a stranger how would you like him to use his hands? Is grabbing your ass ok? 4. Do you do it with your girl friends? Does it feel weird when a girl friend touches you that way while dancing or is it just for fun? 5. Has grinding with a guy ever led to making out? 6. Do you mind if the guy gets a boner and you feel it?

[EmeraldSky]

Generally, I don't enjoy grinding because it's not much of an artistic dance and it draws a lot of negative attention. Weirdos and horny, unattractive men who aren't getting any girls will literately stand aside *soemtimes with a beer* and watch with the identical look across the faces of sleazy men in strip clubs. So personally, I'd rather actually DANCE with some hip-hop moves, belly dancing, hip rolling, contemporary, modern, and a bit of salsa rather than draw all of this negative, trashy, sleazy attention towards myself.

So I'll answer this with the old version of myself.
1.) I only liked to grind back to crotch because I was shy and front to crotch was too intimate for stangers. Front to front just felt slutty and I didn't like that.
2.) Nah, I never really liked the feeling of being objectified and I'd easily get turned off if the guy touched me the wrong way.
3.) Grabbing my ass is NEVER okay. I will walk away immediately, that sh*t pisses me off, I'm not an effing object. I used to just like for him to put his hands on my hips or wrap them around my waist.
4.) No, I wouldn't do it with my girlfriends because I'm strictly dickly and it feels weird to have a girl touching me like that. Plus, I really just can't stand guys looking at us like we're a slab of meat. Gross.
5.) Nope, I don't make out with strangers. I never make out with a guy after knowing him for less than 24 hours.
6.) Depends on how he acts. If he acts like he's going to try and touch me inapprorpiately or illude to some sort of sex act, then I'll walk away and leaveh im all by himself, just him and his boner lol

[CuriousRoses]

For me the grinding was always fun but now that I've gotten older I dont do it ad much as I used to. But when I did dance like this I
1) only done front to front with my girl friends and "back to crotch" with men.
2) yes there were several occasions when he would get turned on and get a boner.
3) when I danced with strangers usually having their hands on my hips, hands or belly was fine. The ass is never okay. Occasionally guys that had a bit longer arms would put their hands on my thighs but for strangers also never okay.
4) yes I did dance with my girlfriends this way. It was never strange since we were all really close anyways. Occasionally I'd dance with a random female back to front and that wasn't too weird. Felt like dancing with a man except she wasn't trying to get in my pants and didn't feel muscular to the touch.
5) grinding with a guy has led to make out a few times but only with men I knew and never became anything more than that.
6) I dont mind men getting boners as long as they are trying to intentionally stick it where it doesn't belong.

[timetowaste]

1. When I was into the partying thing, I preferred back to front.
2. Not really turned on. I was just having fun.
3. If a stranger is involved, don't touch me with your hands. period. I'd prefer if you hover danced instead of grinding right up against me too.
4. I've done it with girl friends.. doesn't feel weird because it was some of my closest friends. We laughed about it.
5. No. Never led to making out.
6. Like I said, I prefer if they not touch their body against mine, but it's happened, and there have definitely been boners involved. Once I notice it, I walk away. So yeah, I mind it.

[pineneedle]

1. It will vary but generally i prefer back to crotch as it's easier to move and dance.
2. Yes
3. With a stranger the ass grab just sends the signal that they want to have sex, and that usually just means time to go. But i like when they gently touch your hips, pulling you in a little closer. The key word is gently.
4. Yes, and it is way more fun! There is no worry that you are sending the wrong signal, it's people you know and can laugh about it with. Not weird at all.
5. Yes, but only with a boyfriend, or someone I'm dating. Not with strangers.
6. No, cause sometimes they can't help it right?