Do I tell her when I'm going to Cum?

I just started getting hj/bj's and when I'm about to come I don't know what to do. do I let her know when I'm going to or let it be a surprise. I know when I get head they know when you are going too because my dick gets bigger, but I'm not sure about hj's.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You should, it's considerate. She might want to swallow, she might not. But in case she doesn't, you don't want to completly turn her off by cumming in her mouth and her not liking it. She's doing you a favor so do her one too

  • You're probably better of telling her when you're about to cum, in both situations, just as a courtesy.

  • Although there's telltale signs, yes, it's usually best to tell her when you're about to cum!

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's the golden rule man.

    Just "aw" a lot or actually say your cumming.

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  • You can ask her; if she doesn't like swallowing I'm sure it's best not being a surprise.

    Also, it's sometimes predictable when you're going to. you're reaction may give it away.

  • Tell her. Give her a little notice.

    Just say, "I'm coming."

  • Women love surprises and nothing is more surprisingly than a frothy, foamy batch of man shake in their mouths! Yum, does a body good!

  • tell her when your about to come for both. most girls appreciate it. also...a big moan or a tap on the shoulder is enough, if you don't feel like verbally saying it.