Girls! Is my 5.5' penis is small? Can i be least desirable for majority of women?

No girls, it's not about penis obsession. Well i am quite good looking guy and is quite shy towards girls. I am olive skinned with height of 5 feet 9 inches. I don't have any experience of sex ( i don't know if some girls will think of me as loser lol) My girth size of penis is approx 5 inches. Well i can say that if i ever get a chance to go in any relationship with desired woman, i will love her, take care of her and always try to keep her happy. But grrr... my bloody shyness and insecurity feelings... Now, Imagine for a moment that i am the guy you have been dating me since 2-3 months and then we decide to have sex. And you don't know about my size. You have dated and had sex with few guys b4 on past. Now If you have slept and enjoyed with the guys who had huge 7 to 8 inches penis size from your past relationship, then looking at my 5.4' penis...am i entitled for getting rejected later for being small when compared to previous guys? Will you laugh and discuss this among your friends? Will you fake orgasm and try to avoid and run away from me next time? Girls frankly answer this. No one will criticize you. YOU HAVE FULL RIGHTS TO GO BY YOUR CHOICE AND CHOOSE YOUR PARTNER. YOUR OPINIONS WILL BE RESPECTED.
It's you i would be interested on, not your penis
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Yes if it is one night stand, then i will consider
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Only size queens will reject you.
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I may have rejected you, if it was 3 inch.
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  • I wouldn't reject you due to your size compared to any previous guys. I'm also not the type of person to discuss such intimate details with friends so I most likely wouldn't tell anyone else, and even if I were to mention it for some reason I wouldn't laugh about it. Faking orgasms isn't my thing either, I'd probably just ask you to get me off through oral/fingering at some point. If I wasn't into it, I'd either just not organize another meet up or straight up tell you, as I find running away from someone much more rude.

    You shouldn't worry too much about your size. It's not too far off from the average size of men, and as long as you become good in oral or fingering, I'm sure you won't hear any complaints. :)

    • Hmm...thanks for your honest reply :-) But one more honesty please: how much size do you want to see on your guy?

    • No problem. I've been mostly with guys around your size and it's definitely enough to keep me happy. Be enthusiastic and make an effort to please your girl whether it be through intercourse or fore-play, and your size should not bother you or her in the slightest.

  • I like what you said about how you will love her and always try to keep her happy. I would prefer a man with those qualities over a guy with a large penis.
    If the girl is right for you and deserves you than she will love you regardless of your size. If she truly respects your relationship than she won't go off making fun of you with her friends. I wouldn't laugh, or fake an orgasm. I would love it because I'd love whats atatched to it lol and I think you're pretty average

    • Thankyou for your honest answer! I feel great now.

    • You're welcome and thats good :D

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  • That sounds like a pretty good size to me. I don't know why guys think women like HUGE penises, honestly we don't really. Personally if it's above 7.5 to me, that's kind of a turn off. Then again, I am a little woman :p but anyways unless it's like a little stump (lol) I wouldn't reject a guy because of penis size.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Some guys have big penises, some guys have teeny penises. Some girls have larger vaginas, some girls have smaller vaginas. Most people fit somewhere near average.

    I guess the point I'm trying to make is that not every penis and every vagina are meant to go together. At nearly 5.5", you're basically just shy of average, which means that you're basically normal. I highly doubt your size will cost you a chance with most women.

    • Agreed.

  • I'm a little bigger than you (but I'm taller than you so it probably evens out) but the girls I've been with are always shocked at the size of mine.
    It's definitely not 9 inches or something like Ron Jeremy.
    But it's big enough to where it surprises girls. Moral of the story is, there's a lot of guys out there with below average penises, so if yours is average you're in good shape.

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  • 5.5 inches is actually average. So you have nothing to worry about. And if I really loved someone, I wouldn't care if they were 3 inches!
    Also, thats one of the benefits of saving sex until marriage, like I am, I'll have nothing to compare my husband's size to, so will be happy what ever it's size is :)

    • So nice ;-)

  • 5.5 inches is average and itll satisfy a girl easily (along with foreplay but that goes for all dick sizes. i would prefer average size over large because im a small female and a large dick sometimes hurts

    • :-) :-) :-)

  • Girth is for most women more important.

  • all of your options on the poll suck. Yes that is kind of.5 inches bellow average also i wouldn't date you because i hate relationships

    • Actually it’s.5 above average

  • Isn't that average sized? Really I hate guys feeling so insecure about this. Don't. It's dumb and any girl who'd leave a guy over his size is just... there's no word.
    It's like a guy leaving a girl because she has small breasts.

    • So sweet...

  • Read the post a few lines down about the guy with the 101/2" dick. Maybe his GF would rather have you instead.

    • Yeah i saw it. LOL

  • I have been with a couple of guys with a huge penis. That doesn't make them good lovers. I have been with a guy who was maybe 4.5 inches. This guy was a very good lover...I had so many orgasms I lost count.

    • Hmmm...depends...

  • I like thickness on a guys dic... so you have enough in that department, and your length is adequate. I like 6-7 inches in length.

    • Okay you are allowed to date me then...LOL

    • lol. cute, any day

  • I don't carry a ruler with me...

  • are you a 5.4 with being hard?

    • I didn't had sex , so i can't say on it's hardness.

  • Hell I got a two incher? Chicks love playing hide and seak with it bro. Dw, you are fine

    • They are like "Owww tini tiny, Come out" and it goes soft and turn into half inch. Yep lets just say I always win.

  • You'd be fine, honestly only the first five inches of the vagina have the most feeling

    • No beautiful... Only 3 inch part of vagina is sensitive to penis. So girth is actually important than length. But most girls never realize that. But it's not their mistake. It's general mentality that bigger is better. No wonder, in the phase of evolution, man has developed bigger penis (w.r.t body ratio) compared to primates for this reason. It's just the way some men like big breasts and some women like big penises.

    • Well then that works too. It's not what you have it's what you do with it

    • Yeah i know...but no experience yet my dear.lol

  • I've never rejected a guy for that. It always depends and I've found guys with bigger penises think they don't need to try as hard in bed (well that's my experience anyway).
    I'm dating a guy smaller than your size and the sex is amazing :)

    • Your words made my day :-) :-)

  • I prefer penises in the 5.5/6.5 range to bigger. They are just more comfortable in more positions.

    • I mean that I like a 5.5 penis more than a 7.5 one, though ultimately it matters more who it's attached to.

    • Hmm :-(

    • Hmm ;-)

  • Depends on if it's wide or narrow lol

    • Probably you will like wide :-)

    • Sorry did you say about me? Oh its 5 inch in girth.

    • Then no you're good lol

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  • The first guy I played with had a 10 inch dick. Then when I played with other guys and found a five incher I was confused and was like "where is it?" but the length doesn't really matter as long as it is thick. Lol

    • I would never date you. LOL

    • LMAO

    • At first it was cuz I thought ten inches was the normal length. I had never seen a guys D before lol

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