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So...um...my boyfriend just sent me a dick pic?

We've been together for 2.5 years but...still. This is new. It was on SnapChat so it was gone after like 10 seconds and I didn't watch the whole clip but I always told him I don't want a picture of his dick. I find the concept of dick pics to be trashy and immature. I did not ask for the picture. We weren't even talking about anything remotely related to anything sexual and then bam. Dick pic. I'm kind of really disappointed that he did this. I mean, if I wanted to see his dick I'd have him take it out in person or I'd at least ask for a picture. But I told him at the beginning of our relationship that I don't ever want him to send me one and yet this happened. Maybe I'm overreacting but I just can't even describe how depressed I am about it. It's like he stooped way too low and now is all trashy and gross. It's not like I've NEVER seen his dick but I just find pictures to be so...low class. I don't know what to do about it now. His sending me that like altered my entire image of him. And I know that may sound a bit extreme to you guys but I genuinely NEVER wanted a dick picture. Ever. Now it's like he's like every other low scummy guy who sends dick pics and he's not my classy, self-respecting, up-standing member of society guy anymore. Ugh. I even thought to respond with a break up but maybe that might be too extreme but that's how turned off I was by it. Disgusted with him right now. Advice?
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For those of you who are saying it wasn't meant for me, I can assure you it was. The caption to it was going directly along with the conversation we were having. Just a normal conversation about school except instead of his beautiful blue eyes...
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...it was his penis.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I understand your point of view. I would be disappointed, too. Most guys like to receive Snapchats of one's boobs, because it is enough to get them aroused. On the other hand, I do not see anything attractive about a dick pic. The only vision of the male organ is definitely not enough to get me going in real life either, and I would also feel mildly violated if I was sent a picture of my boyfriend's penis in the middle of a casual Spapchat session. I would probably have the same reaction if my boyfriend just stood up in the middle of dinner and shoved his dick in my face. So, my point is, your reaction totally natural. Now, you decide what you want to do about it. Maybe just telling him you found it extremely deceiving would be enough for now, and his reaction could determine the next step.

    • So I take it you don't like it when you're sitting there and he walks up and starts slapping you in the face with it.

  • You are dumb girl.

    I say that with love.

    A dick pic from your boyfriend is not like a dick pic from a trashy strange guy.

    Long term couples spank each other, hand cuffs, use toys on eachother - trashy racy non vanilla things... but since you are a commited couple, its not trashy at all.

    Its cute and spicy lol, since repettitive regular sex can get boring.

    Now if he was a random strange guy, then its trashy.

    A lot of couples, MARRIED, will send nudie pics.

    Def not worth killing a 2.5yr relationship.

    Whatd he really do to piss you off to the point of using something this petty to leave him?

    Guurl -

    there's a lot of us who would die to have someone love us for 2.5 years!

  • I think its normal for you to think its low and trashy etc etc etc but that is not a good enough reason to me for you to break up with him. I can't tell you what to do but really there was a reason you picked him for your bf he probley wasn't thinking it would offend you so much, you should tell him how you made you feel and if he doesn't respect it and keeps doing it then there's a problem

  • Wow you are over reacting! Relax just tell him again you didn't want a photo and talk to him about it. He was probably horny and wanted something back. It's not classy but it doesn't make you trashy it makes you stupid for the fact that snapchat now owns a pic of his dick.

Most Helpful Guys

  • This is why I do not like things like "Snapchat" which I have never been inclinded to use, not to mention I don't even own a smart phone.

    I can understand your opinion on this, especially considering you told him you did not want those. Even stranger is the fact that you weren't even talking sexually.

    I wouldn't necessarily end the relationship, just make it clear that you aren't happy and tell him not to do it again. If he gets offended and angry in the slightest, and doesn't respect you, then I would end it there.

    At that point his maturity level should be well displayed.

  • Probably did it as a joke, to get a reaction from you. Which it did.

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  • I don't think that pic was meant for you, dear. If you weren't talking about sex and you had made very clear that you're not that kind of person, then I think he didn't meant for you to see his dick. Maybe he was looking for fun with a girl that found that exciting.

    • Can you tell me the slang Spanish term for dick?

    • There are many, but I can think of a couple, one is "pito" pronounced (pee-toh), and the other one is more aggressive "verga", pronounced like that but of course, with Spanish R.

    • I am 100% positive it was intended for me. He's not a cheater. And the caption that went with it was a continuation of the conversation we were having before he sent said picture.

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  • I totally get where you're coming from, I always view it as disrespectful especially if you havnt asked for it. I think you should talk to him, he probably doesn't realise how much it would have upset you. Once he knows, he shouldn't do it again

  • I think the break up is a little extreme but clearly this is something that has violated your own personal standards/morals. I can see how you would take it as trashy and gross. Just talk to him and be honest, tell him how you really feel and why it made you feel that way and then move on.

  • You're worrying way too much about a penis. I'm offended that you find a penis so offensive (jk).

    Just talk to him about it, thinking about it is only causing you to blow the issue out of proportion.

    • Exactly he's only being playful and something tells me their sex life probably needs spicing up.

  • You are severely over reacting. I totally get that it didn't do anything for you and it isn't your thing, but it's not like some random guy sent you a dick pic. It's your boyfriend. You've been sexual. You're committed. Maybe he thought you'd want to see.
    The fact that you are disgusted, upset, and even considered breaking up with him, because he showed you himself sexually, is more shocking than his actions, tbh.

    It's your boyfriend's body. A body you've seen and felt before. Before working yourself into an emotional frenzy of disgust and doubt about him, try just saying "maybe if you were here that'd be nice, but random pics like that aren't my thing. please don't just send your dick, I'm sure I'll see it later."

  • send him a dick pic out of the blue from the internet and when ge goes wtf tell him this is how he made you feel

    • a slight correction: say "you started it!"

  • Ummm...you should be concerned. Maybe that pic...WASN'T for you. Were you having conversation at the time of him sending the pic? What was the con text of conversation before hand?

    I think either he was sending a pic as a way of flirting with you since the two of view are dating. OR...that photo simply was for someone else.

    • The conversation was us playfully arguing over which eye color was better: blue (his) or green (mine) we were sending pictures of our eyes saying either blue or green and the all of a sudden: Penis picture! With the caption, "Blue eyes!" So..yeah. Was meant for me.

  • ummm you should break up. He should respect your wishes. If he was hard, i'm sure he sent it because he was hard and thinking about you. He wanted to share that moment with you, which is better than him putting his hard dick in some other chick's eager wet pussy.
    He seems more voyeuristic and you seem more traditional. I do not see this relationship working out.

  • Just break up with him. He won't understand your hate for it. And you won't understand how it's not a big deal for him.

    Get it over with.

  • I personally don't think it's that big of a deal, but if it really bothers you, then you are entitled to your feelings.

  • He might have been in a moment...

  • I seriously think you are overreacting. Let it go and don't mention it to him.

  • It's just me who finds this funny? :)
    His dick is part of his body. So relax.
    Don't make it big deal , just talk to him if you don't like, say him again clearly. I am sure he will understand.
    PS ( it makes me laugh! Come on, not a big deal really, have you ever noticed in this site , cheaters, liars, perverts etc, so

  • Regarding the break-up, you're just going off your emotions right now. No need to break-up since it's a one time occurrence. If I were you, I would just talk to him about how the picture made you feel. Also, find out his motivation for sending it.

  • This is why I refuse to get things like snapchat, kik, or things like that...So gross

  • If you told him at the beginning your relationship, maybe he forgot? Just snap a photo of your thumb back and say THUMB WAR!

  • Just talk to him if you were disgusted. Breaking up won't solve your problems. It was just a dick pic. Talk to your boyfriend.

  • well at least its not some random dudes, right?

    • I mean, I guess.

  • What the hell you talkin bout? Dic pics are classy AS FUCK. Did he have a bow-tie on it?

  • I agree with anon

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