There's no making him understand. I mean maybe you can coax him into it eventually but... He's obviously not the type of guy that's into weird shit. Neither am I.
Believe it or not, not every fucking guy wants to bang two girls at once. It has nothing to do with being scared. I personally feel that it opens doors towards other libertine, licentious behavior that I wouldn't condone; so why should I buy into it?
Next thing I'll know you're going to want to get gang banged or train-ed on while I'm standing there jerking off. Sorry, but FUCK NO. That ain't my style. Find someone else.
Also, it's not selfish of him. It's a lifestyle choice. If you want to leave him because of this one thing then I don't know ... maybe your relationship wasn't worth much to begin with.
Is it worth risking the relationship for one evening of fun? Even if you did coax him into it is your relationship definitely going to endure including other partners?
Respect his wishes and find other fantasies to try, chances are you two won't last forever and you'll be with someone begging for a threesome soon enough.
You don't make him understand, in any way. You asked, he said no, end of story. How would you feel if he was pushing something sexual on you, that you didn't want to do? Respect his decision.
This is the type of fantasy that is probably best just staying a fantasy, this is the kind of stuff that destroys relationships. If you want a threesome more than you want your boyfriend, break up with him. If you want your boyfriend more, let go of the idea of a threesome. Relationships involve compromise and this is a time when you need to compromise your wants to accomodate him.
He said no. No means no.
That's like telling a Catholic to eat meat just once on a Friday before Easter or telling an Indian that they should eat that cow over there JUST ONCE. You just don't do that.
It's his belief that it's cheating and so there is NOTHING you can do to convince him otherwise. Even if you do convince him to go along with it, you'll have essentially signed the death warrant for your relationship.
Respect his decision. If he doesn't want to do it you can't force him. He isn't going to change his mind just because you "want" to. If you aren't happy with his mindset in this matter find someone else.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!you can't make him understand or make him do anything he doesn't want to do. same advice you would give a girl who's man was pressuring her to have a threesome. pressuring people to do things they don't want to do should stop in middle school.
It has nothing to do with "falling in love"
cheating is cheating.
If you are in a relationship, and you have sex with anyone that is not your partner, that is cheating
If your relationship is at a point where you need to sleep with other people is would be an indication the relationship is probably over.
You can't. I know, "wrong answer".
He's more kind about it than I would have been.
He doesn't want to do it, so the only way you have a threesome is if you leave him. That's seems extremely selfish and silly though.
Maybe you'd be better off to go find two guys that are strangers.
what guy wouldn't want a mff threesome. i never understood guys who wouldn't want that. well, anyway, if you clearly want it and he doesn't , it's time to find a new guy. you shouldn't force sexual fantasies on someone who's not willing to
Strange. Try proposing another girl than the one you have in mind.
It sounds mega hot and a proper turn on to me
He's not comfortable with it and doesn't want to do it. You need to respect that.
No no no... Try to persuade him... He's probably high or something...
You Can Do It!!!
He's terrified and insecure.
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