He texted me the day after sex?

I recently joined Tinder and basically been using it to meet new guys. Anyways, there's this one guy I matched up with and he wanted to come over that night. I basically told him simple rules including that I don't want a guy lingering after we hook up because it's not a "get to know you" session. I've been single for a few years, and he's recently got out of a long term relationship. Anyways when he came over we had a great time and felt physically compatible. Afterwards he asked me if he could stay a little longer and just started talking about stuff…. then he said "I'm not making an excuse just to be here longer just so you know". about 20-30 mins later he said he'll be on his way, and if I ever run onto his profile again, to be sure to swipe right, and basically a "cya" The next day I surprisingly get a text from him: "Round 2 tonight?" "Can't I'm working. Last night was great…" "I know I wanna see you again" "Well I'm free next Thursday night" "See you Thursday :)" To me at least, it seemed like he was just making an excuse to be with me longer, instead of just leaving right after. And the fact he contacted me right the next morning..
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Most Helpful Girl

  • He probably liked and it can be also just in a sexual way. Having regular sex buddies is somehow better than just one night stand. You get to know what the person like and you know it will be good. So if you see him again, you might find it better than with different guys each time. Doesn't mean you have to be exclusive ;)

Most Helpful Guys

  • I agree with Trojan. If the sex was good why wouldn't you want to bang him again. You made yourself very clear of what you're looking for. If he does start getting attached you can kick him to the curb, but it sounds like he wants a friends with benefits .

  • He could be possibly clingy but also likes the sex. It could be one or the other. If you feel like he's too attached cut it off but if the sex is good and he doesn't come on too strong I don't see why a round 2 would be a bad thing.

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  • Maybe he likes you. Is that so terrible?

  • Sounds like he likes being with you.

  • biatch...0

  • the hell is Tinder?

    • A dating app that seems to have a reputation for people having hook ups for.

    • It's goin down...I'm yelling Tinder!