Wow, how does one describe a male orgasm to one who has never experienced it? That's like describing color to the blind.
Well, in the moments before it happens, it seems as though no matter how much you want to, you can never go deep enough. Having an erection is slightly uncomfortable (some have used the term slightly painful but I disagree). The vagina feels like it is soothing this discomfort. There is a build up in the first few seconds before and there is a point of no return (that is to say a point where an orgasm is inevitable and we can't stop it even if we want to). Every muscle in our body wants to tense (I have found, by the way, that when I purposely relax at the moment of orgasm it's much more intense and delightful. I don't know why). There's almost a sensation of a dam about to break, but you want it to break. In fact, the build up is delightful. Then the muscles contract and there are a few delightful spasms. I feel it most strongly behind my testicles. You can feel the semen rush out and it tickles a bit, though that is generally the last thing you focus on. I preferred to look at my wife's face at the moment of orgasm. As near as I can put it, it feels as though the comfort has been soothed and turned into something delightful. Usually the first two or three spasms are by far the strongest. Then it sort of subsides. In my younger years, I could stay erect after an orgasm. That has become less of an occurrence in my older years. Whether or not I want it to, the erection subsides. My penis and loins always seem ever-so-slightly more sensitive for several minutes after that.
I never had sex with a woman I didn't love, so having sex made me feel very much in love with her all the more. I am told I am something of an exception in that I very much enjoy the cuddling that comes after, unless it's a particularly hot day when it seems less comfortable.
The foreplay seemed to almost invariably start with a lot of passionate kissing and stroking bare skin. There were times when she or I would "ambush" the other, to which I always found that to be a very pleasant surprise. I'm afraid I'm not all that maverick when it comes to sexual positions. I've always favored the missionary position since it put me in the best position to kiss her and see her face. What turned me on the most was having someone I love who loved me naked in my bed. You know what? I think you should listen to Rachmaninoff's piano concerto number 2, third movement. Right at the end, the orchestra seems to go through a musical orgasm. To me, I've always thought the end of this piece is what it's like to have an orgasm. I'll link it for you. Listen to the whole thing if you like, but the "orgasm" is right at the end. Start at 10:08 if you just want to hear the "orgasm."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=21z-K5ChWbE
Here's a link to Rach's Second.
Thanks for asking, rebeccalouise. I believe you've inspired my next question.
It is like every nerve ending in your body becomes tight and pulls together at the head of your penis. Like a rubber band being twisted and twisted until there is so much tension it snaps. You pump faster and faster trying to "snap" the rubber band. Finally the dam holding the semen breaks and you feel it rush through your cock and out the head of the penis. You feel an urge get deep inside her thrusting your cock into her.
how you feel depends on your relationship to your partner. When it was my ex wife it was like trying to say how much I loved her with every thrust into her. But the woman I just had sex with, which was the first different woman in 26 years. I was only concentrating on the incredible feeling of being inside a woman.
Sex was the one thing in my marriage that was good. we had it down and we both were always satisfied. but it did get to be kind of a checklist.
1) suck her tits, play with her nipples
2) she sucks my cock. sometimes I would kneel over her head. she would suck my cock while I played with her tits and pussy. sometimes while I played with her nipples she would play with herself which gave me an incredible show.
3) then I eat her out with my refined technique. always incorporating a finger in her pussy and/or her ass while eating her out. until she has an orgasm
4) I plunge my cock into her pussy and fill it up with semen (had a vasectomy so no sperm..)
5) get up go watch tv...
what turns me on? watching her give me a blow job. and playing with her ass. she loved a finger in her ass (sometimes anal sex). so while she sucked me off I would put a finger in her ass.
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your welcome...
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think what you are looking for insight, is an orgasm for a man similar to a woman's the answer is no men have no attachment like a woman.
For most guys the feeling is peak and release or arousal and release where a woman releases oxytocin a love hormone which makes for attachment.
Making love is what women do and mature men, not boys.
The fact that there is a woman in the bed is the best turn on about a woman.
I think in general the younger the guy the less a woman has to do to turn a man on, you have heard that men are like dogs, this is a true statement who will screw anything, just look around.
You may not like my answers but you are searching for answers that have fuzzy logic as a premise.
Oxytocin is released in men, too. Not as much as in women, but it's released in men. Oxytocin seems to have a different effect on men in that it seems to make them sleepier (to the eternal consternation of their partners).
I get sleepy after orgasms too.. actually much like my bf. So, Bluemax, you're saying that men don't experience any attachment during sex? I've only experienced sexual attachment when my mind is already interested in that person as a potential relationship... I've had completely detached sex and orgasms with men, no attachment then or later.
No, I'm not saying that. I'm saying that there is a difference in the levels of oxytocin released by men and women during sex (men have less released, women have more). The sleepiness you might feel AmIReallyAGirl might be due to the physical exertion. I recall hearing about a test done where men and women were injected with oxytocin with no sex. Women tended to feel energized. Men tended to feel sleepy.
I think an orgasm for guys is basically the same other than most guys cannot have multiples (however, I can and yes, I feel lucky). I feel close to her when having sex. I usually like to start early in the evening maybe on a date with small foreplay, maybe kissing, touching in places that are OK in public, hand on inner thighs etc. Then go home and makeout and undress her slowly (or she does a strip tease). Then, a very sensual massage and start fingering her. Then she gives me a bj or 69 then I continue oral on her until I am ready again. I like missionary and her on top the best cuz I like to see her face, boobs, and body.
Making love means we already love her. In that case, it's a combination of lust and affection.
I have no clue
When every touch n kiss feels electric round your whole body but mostly your penis (because men feel most here), you are both in sync with the love making and it is so passionate you want it to last forever...
Loving making is awesome if your deeply in love, there's no better sex
there's no other position for it apart from missionary to make love, well to me anyway, any other position is just fucking
having the guy from beyond and laying on top is also a great lovemaking position actually, can be super intimate.
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