How can girls complain about penis size?

[WhateverIDK]

I don't understand how girls can complain about penis size. I just want a real answer, no counter attacks or defense like I've been getting from other sources. Okay, we get it, you can't control your boobs, but who cares? If you have A cup tits you can still be a dime! My ex had B cup (barely) and she was superrrr hot. So don't even pull that one. And the make up one, don't even. I (and my gym buddies) think that makeup is fake and disgusting. I prefer it when girls DONT wear makeup because their true beauty shows. So if we can't control what us guys were born with, how can you complain about our size?

[Raebies]

Honestly, I could care less about something as arbitrary as penis size. If you have and one and it works, that's all that really matters. I don't know where all the hype about size came from -- probably the media and the p*rn industry.

Girls feel the same pressure about their cup size or the size of their butts these days. Many women feel they have to look a certain way based on what men want as well as what society makes us feel we should look like, hence all of the fashion magazines, etc.

None of it really matters though -- the media just wants us to think it matters so they can sell us a product intended to make us match its ideal image rather than feeling comfortable in our own skin. And many girls actually do look much less attractive without makeup (sorry to say), so I find it interesting how guys always say they prefer women without makeup, but once they actually see what most women look like without it, they feel quite the opposite. Just an observation I've noticed.

[WhateverIDK]

Well maybe we hang with different crowds or just have different tastes (which is totally cool) but I've always thought that my current and previous girlfriends have always looked best in the morning with the sun shining through the window on their face while they still sleep. My girlfriends also never put blush and base and whatnot on before they crawled into bed either so they woke up with no makeup. It's just how I feel, and I'm not alone.

[udolipixie]

How can girls complain about penis size?
Likely the same way that guys can complain about vagina size. The way being those genitals are used during penetrative sex and the size do affect the amount of pleasure the other feels.

So if we can't control what us guys were born with, how can you complain about our size?
Possibly because it's irrelevant if one can't control it as that doesn't mean it's still not unsatisfactory.

In my opinion I may find gals complaints a bit more understandable considering it doesn't seem penis enlargement surgery is that common yet it seems most gals know what kegels are and generally are recommended to do such.

[WhateverIDK]

Well I've been having sex since I was 16 and I'm 28, and I've never heard of a big vagina. Or a small vagina for that matter. I didn't even realize that there was a size difference that people recognized, although I understand there is. But the vaginal canal is longer than the penis 99% of the time so I'm sure you never took on a guy that was so big he complained your canal was too short... And do you seriously believe that most guys are willing to have thousands of dollars of surgery to fuck up their dicks just so their hook up babe likes it more? Fuck no, my dick is my dick and that's it.

[udolipixie]

It's not uncommon in my opinion for sexually active guys to not know there are vagina sizes. It's not even uncommon for gals in my opinion. According to studies I've seen 60% of gals are average, 30% of gals are above average, and 10% of gals are below average. I'm unsure why you're asking me if I seriously believe guys are willing to spend money to possibly fuck up their d*cks as nowhere did I state such. I stated that I find gals complaints about d*ck size more understandable since it seems more common for gals to work on their size issue than guys.

[WhateverIDK]

Well if it's not uncommon for people to not even know there are sizes, then how can you even have a size "problem"? Also how on earth do you expect a guy to do self enlargement? With kegel muscle exercises? No that may make you last longer, but it is impossible to enlarge your dick that way. But I mean if you have a legitimate, realistic, painless, and free way of enlarging a penis with no risk, then enlighten me.

[udolipixie]

You can have a size problem as a guy may not know that vaginas come in sizes however he can complain when he finds one he feels is too big/too lose. Just because most people seemingly don't know that vaginas come in it doesn't mean they don't feel it. Otherwise notions like throwing a hotdog in a hallway, black hole, loose vagina, worn out vagina, etc wouldn't exist. I'm unsure why you're asking me how do I expect a guy to do self enlargement as nowhere did I state I expect a guy to do enlarge...o.O You seem to have quite a lot of stipulations for self enlargement. In my opinion that guys haven't to my knowledge developed such a method or aren't willing to risk pain or money further supports me finding gals complaints about d*ck size more understandable. It seems gals are far more willing to please guys than vice versa.

[WhateverIDK]

It's not that we're unwilling, it's that it's our body, not yours. If we wanna take a scalpel and a screw driver to our dicks then we'll get surgery. And what do you mean girls are more willing to change their vaginas? I didn't realize that was a thing

[udolipixie]

I stated that in my opinion gals are more willing to please guys than vice versa. I'm unsure why you're stating "it's our body, not yours" as nowhere did I make any claims to the male body, what should be done to it, or what it's expected from it. None of my statements were about whose body it is but the genders willingness to change to please the other. There is plenty of vagina procedures- kegels, vaginoplasty, labiaplasty, vaginal rejuvenation, and hymen reconstruction surgery. Again in my opinion gals will go to far greater lengths than guys to please.

[WhateverIDK]

I think you're way too literal because literally EVERY time you said "nowhere did I say". I didn't copy you verbatim, I used your HEAVY implications that were peppered in every reply. And back to the subject, how many surgeries have you gotten to date? And how many more do you plan on getting? And do guys actually care about it as much as you apparently think they do? I can answer the last one: no

[WhateverIDK]

Also you didn't even attempt to answer my question in the first place. I didn't ask whether or not girls are understandable for complaining. What I'm asking is under what basis do you feel justified to judge and criticize men based on their penis? Not "girls are better". If you'd like to answer this question as a mature adult and not a judge mental sexist, then please reply. If you are not willing to do so, then refrain from commenting because I do not value your prejudiced input. :)

[udolipixie]

I state "nowhere did I say" when you ask me questions that had nothing to do with my comments. You didn't use my heavy implications. Stating I find kegels more common than penis enlargement is not heavily implying I expect guys to get self enlargment surgery. I haven't gotten any surgeries as unlike it seems most gals I couldn't care less about pleasing guys.

[udolipixie]

You're showing your lacking reading I did answer your question. Both of them I even quoted them. Don't try to bs as if my answer was about it being understandable for gals to complain. You asked "how can gals complain about penis size" and my answer was because it's genitals being used during penetrative sex and the size do affect the amount of pleasure the other feels. It's reasonable in my opinion for a gal to complain about penis size if it's unsatisfactory to her. You said complain nothing about feeling justified to judge and criticize. If complaining to you is judging and criticizing and can only be done when it's justified that's a bit skewed in my opinion. Either way the answer to that will be freedom of speech allows gals to feel justified to judge and criticize whatever they want.

[udolipixie]

I've already answered this as a mature adult. I've shown I'm not a judgmental sexist by equating gals complaining about d*ck size as behavior guys do as well via complaining about vagina size. If anything it'd be more suitable to label you the judgmental sexist as you're seemingly making this a gender war of the poor menz getting judged for their genital size as if gals don't get this as well. Perhaps rather than seemingly respond to what you think my statements imply actually respond to what they state. It's quite likely you're projecting on topics that seems to be a personal issue of yours.

[WhateverIDK]

Having fun? Go on, please. Don't stop, speak your mind.

[WhateverIDK]

Do you remember that time when you read the question I asked and I said please no counter attacks? Well you are the one who's fighting the gender war and you demonstrated this in your initial answer by arguing "how can we complain? The same way guys complain about women". Justifying your claims by blaming others is a very childish action. Playing the whole kindergarten "you started it" (referring to what I just said, in case you didn't get that either) is immature and I suggest you discover a new strategy before you're out here in the real world. You can't pull that kind of shit on you're boss; "you're fired for insubordination. BUT SHE STARTED IT. ITS OKAY THAT I DID IT BECAUSE SHE DID THE SAME THING" try it and get back to me. So save your energy and don't bother replying, being a keyboard warrior doesn't achieve anything Hun. Best of luck and I hope things work out. :)

[udolipixie]

I didn't make any counterattacks. I'm not fighting a gender war as unlike you I didn't make this a gender thing. I didn't justify my claim by blaming others. I stated "likely the same way that guys can complain" to show you this isn't some gender thing. The way is the justification not that guys complain as well. The way I stated was it's done because it's irrelevant if one can't control their sie as that doesn't mean it's still not unsatisfactory and the genitals are used during penetrative sex and the size do affect the amount of pleasure the other feels. The only keyboard warrior I see is you as you even fought against things I didn't even state. LMFAO

[udolipixie]

This has been amusing seeing you argue against things I didn't even state. It has been really amusing seeing you seemingly upset that this is a behavior both genders engage it likely for the same reason and not the gender war you try to make it. Most amusing has been your reading comprehension as it seems all you got was I'm blaming others rather than stating both genders do this and likely for the same reason. LMFAO

[WhateverIDK]

Well I gave that an honest effort to end on a good note, but you just keeeeep on arguing... God I'm sick of this argument okay? Well I guess you can't win em all.. But it doesn't hurt to try again; BEST OF LUCK, I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT :)

[udolipixie]

Your idea of ending on a good note is telling me I'm the one trying to start a gender war and implying I'm a keyboard warrior. I saw this as a discussion. You're the only one arguing. LMFAO Laters again next time try responding to what is actually typed not what you feel or project it implies.

[WhateverIDK]

Okay Hun. If you interpret it that way that's your choice. Have fun.

[udolipixie]

Don't bs I didn't interpret it that way. Your own words show you didn't respond to what is actually typed but rather what you feel or project it implies: " I didn't copy you verbatim, I used your HEAVY implications that were peppered in every reply" Have fun deluding yourself it seems.

[kaylaS91]

I agree it's not fair, and a lot of girls that complain about that do so to just come across as though they're more experienced than they actually are, and know the ins and outs of sex. I agree it's a total double standard with females for the most-part sitting on a pedestal.

[WhateverIDK]

Well you're super down to earth. My curiosity was spurred when for the 9 th or 10th time this year so far I heard girl say she was going to cheat on her guy that wasn't "hung well enough" unless he could somehow fix their "little" problem. And a few weeks ago one girl said "it's up to the guy to fix the problem if he's too small" wtf how can you even think that? whatever it is what it is. But thanks, haha

[Anonymous]

Some will and some won't. It's a real talent in life to not concern yourself like this for the people you can't change.

And with that said, I just now realized an interesting irony about all of this: you're complaining about the people who have preferences enough to vocalize them. This means that you complaining about them criticizing something that can't be changed, is also a bit on the "you need to be different than what you are" side of things too.

But a lot of people do this in life, with only a small portion learning the valuable trait of picking your battles. See, you're not appreciating the girls who don't show this sort of behavior, as you're focused on the girls who DO. You aren't going to change the girls who do, so why are you wasting the time trying to get them on your side?

There are like 7 billion people on the planet...not all of them are going to see it your way.

[WhateverIDK]

To what you said about me being hypocritical: wars are not fought by one side, massacres are. In other words, the only way to end something bad is to try and change it. Are you saying that trying to change bad things and judge mental things is bad?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm saying it's a waste of your time to take up some crusade to change the way other people think about certain things. If a girl wants to have a preference in penis size, gossip to her friends about them, whatever...guess what? She can, and you're not going to stop it anytime soon. So why take such a personal interest in what other people are doing like this?

[WhateverIDK]

She can say what she wants. That wasn't my question. My question is under what merit can she feel that it's fair to judge based on an arbitrary factor

[Opinion Owner]

And this was my answer lol. Why does it matter? Why worry about it?

[Theguyoverthere]

I have talked with married women who have husbands that let their wives have sex with other men. One told me how her husband was unable to get her off. The thing is, a small penis has major trouble with a woman's G spot. This is a valid issue in my opinion if she really wants to get off through intercourse. Granted, you could use mutual masturbation and such, but many women may not feel the same about it. I don't think a woman should mock the guy or anything, but she should be able to enjoy sex with someone who can get her off.

I've honestly heard more complaints about it being too big though and hurting her and how the guys felt they were they shit for having a big one. So it can go both ways.

[WhateverIDK]

Okay you bring up a valid point, but it's not right for a girl that's dissatisfied with her man to go and let some other dude go balls deep on her. If she doesn't like it then that's her problem and she should either a) break up b) divorce if it's really that super big of a deal (pretty shallow, sex isn't even what matters) or c) buy a dildo

[Distant]

A small penis sometimes does not satisfy a lady and, therefore, she has a right to refuse a guy if pleasurable sex is important to her.

[AmIReallyAGirl]

also valid (although a wise women won't be too hasty to judge).

[Distant]

You're right, of course, a wise woman should not judge too hastily. I meant if he were to fail numerous times due to his size exclusively.

[bdancer]

Doesn't matter the size, matters how you use it.

[islands7]

Amusing questions all, just a tangent observation
that vaginas visited have differed a bit from large to average to small & even "reversed" feels. The latter best described as feeling like it would doggie style but when in missionary... and my fav.

As far as this Q goes, my opinion is that there are so many varieties for each sex, there's a "best fit" out there for all of us. Not trying to be controversial, just saying that's been my experience.

[Cobalt]

You must be hanging with a different crowd than I do. I have never heard a girl even bring up size before unless it was to emasculate a guy they were mad at, or when they were baffled why guys would brag about being painfully large.

Besides, as they say 'its not how deep you fish, its how you wiggle your worm.'

[AmIReallyAGirl]

awesome sexual aphorism

[perfectlypinup]

You CAN alter penis size. It's called a pump. Women will NEVER stop talking about penis size.. ever.

[WhateverIDK]

Yea okay you talk that about the p

[WhateverIDK]

Pump* but I tried one once and it hurt so bad I can't describe. So don't even Hun, just don't. Sorry.

[WhateverIDK]

That's like saying we can turn your b cups into d cups, lemme get a car vacuum. No. Plus it turns you into a pencil dick so I'm glad I stopped.

[perfectlypinup]

My point is.. You can't change what others are going to do so if it bothers you than work on that issue (psychologically).. If it doesn't bother you then screw it. However, it's apparent that it does weigh on your mind so perhaps you should be making peace with yourself instead of berating woman with your disapproval of their opinions on this topic.

[lacelover20]

I dont think most girls care to much they just use to for an attack when nessasarly. Thanks for letting us to know you have a small dick no hate ; )

[WhateverIDK]

Haha I don't know if you read my response to the first girl to comment but I've never had a girl complain to me. But I know I'm not huge either, I'm like almost 7 but maybe a fingernail short. sorry

[lacelover20]

Lol im just kidding calm down

[DutchAtheist]

I never heard of a guy actually being dumped for the size of his penis.

[WhateverIDK]

Haha my bud was. It was unfortunate too because she was gorgeous. But from what I've seen in the gym locker room he's probably on the bigger end, but then again she was an amateur p*rn star so she probably took it for granted

[LovelySerene]

I'm waiting til marriage so it never really mattered to me...some things can't be controled. Who am I to judge?

Also, don't judge a girl for wearing make-up...I personally love wearing make-up, I think it's fun to put on and makes me feel feminine. I don't wear it to impress people, I wear it for me, and that doesn't make me fake.

[WhateverIDK]

I totally get that and more power to you for it :) I just said that because one girl bitched me out and went off about all girls do for guys making their hair look pretty and putting on makeup and how hard it is and what not. I just didn't want anybody to say that, simply because I didn't want a counter attack to my question.

[LovelySerene]

Yeah, they are crazy...I think it's fun experimenting with hair or make-up, I wouldn't chane for any guy

[TouglyforaGF]

Some women are shallow. I would never dump a girl for not having small boobs so I don't expect her to dump me for my size.

[naima17]

To be honest I dont really know. I think its based on preferences (those being influenced my media and peers). Its like men saying they like D cup breasts. Or like women saying they like a man with 6 pack. Love is love. Size shouldn't matter because at the end of the day if love doesn't hold them to you, your penis sure won't...its so petty and superficial.

[WhateverIDK]

Well you speak the truth. I think you're totally right.

[CovieCheckers]

Its true, we can't control are breast size without surgery. The same as you can't control your penis size without surgery. However, the penis doesn't relate to the breasts. It relates to the vagina. Complaining about penis size is no different than complaining about a loose vagina.
My boyfriend currently is no where near the biggest I've ever had. However, I have no complaints. The only complaints i've had against a man's penis size is when he acts like some sex god, or someone who is highly appreciated, but once I found myself in bed with him, he was smaller than my thumb. It sucks for them, and I in fact feel pity. But it is human nature to want something satisfying, so I will continue to complain about penis size with my female friends and enjoy the larger dicks in my life.

[joypantujan]

Nice one. :D

[WhateverIDK]

Nothing wrong with enjoying big dick, it just those of us with small ones, we just can't help it.

[Anonymous]

An average sized penis fits great in an average sized vagina. Most ladies aren't honest enough to acknowledge that half of the problem is a vagina that's too large / stretched.

[Anonymous]

The guys and girls that are caught up in petty stuff like that are basically wild Neanderthals going around screwing everything that moves anyway. lol

Good girls aren't going to mind enough to where they'd ridicule you or dump you for it. I say it that way because if a penis is small enough, it could be a bit of a issue for her sexually, but guys on the smaller end of average won't have anything to worry about. A vagina is what, around 3 inches deep on average anyway? Most guys are well in the clear.

Don't worry about it!

[Anonymous]

If you know how to do it and know to satisfy a woman it doesn't care your penis size -_-