How to tell a guy you are a virgin?

Question

How do you tell a guy you are a virgin?
At what stage in dating a guy should you tell him you are a virgin?
I'm nineteen year old girl and I'm still a virgin. I'm seeing this guy (not for very long, maybe a couple of weeks) and I feel like he thinks I'm not a virgin (I haven't told him otherwise, I just think he might have assumed I've had sex). He is two years older than me and has  had sex with a lot of girls. Which doesn't bother me, I'm just worried he won't want to see me once he knows I am a virgin. Is there anyway of telling a guy you're still a virgin without making yourself sound like a loser or frigid, or without scaring him off?
Help!! Any and all answers are welcome

Abhijit3101 · Accepted Answer

In our family tradition and community religious beliefs, boy and girl both are supposed to be virgin till marriage. If girl is not, and lost her virginity to somebody - she will feel insecurity about her acceptance in family after marriage. Guy usually do not doubt her if she do not bleed on first night, it is accepted that she may have lost Hyman without doing sex. Just tell your man you are virgin and would like to keep it till marriage. He will honour it.

mrtryst · Accepted Answer

I know some who are afraid of the concept of 'deflowering' a woman, and i've heard stories of them dropping contact when they've found out. But I've heard  a lot  more stories of guys who either don't care or respect that the girl is still a virgin. In my personal experience, I simply held back until she was comfortable.  Goodluck it could be an awkard talk.

meibay313 · Accepted Answer

hmm personally think that if he think you are a loser or frigid because you are a virgin then he doesn't deserve you.
You can tell him when it is about to be happened.. and when you are ready...and i don't think you will scare him off, I think it will be opposite.. he would be honoured. :) Good luck!

Troian · Accepted Answer

Just be straight forward. It's not because you're a virgin that he'll think you're frigid, if you're honest to him, it shouldn't be a problem. Guys don't take hints so just say it ;)
You're just 19, many girls are still virgins at 19 :)

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Accepted Answer

Toy should say it straight up and early in the relationship. Things tend to move quite fast in modern days so I would tell him before he starts fondling you during a makeout session or something

joypantujan · Answer

Jeez! Lucky you, you're still a virgin. Tell him straight that you are a VIRGIN. VIRGIN and proud. Easy. :D

Conviction · Answer

I dont know why its so hard to believe that someone is a virgin. People have become mistrustful nowadays. You should cook for him. Yes and he'll automatically assume that you're a virgin. A girl who has been screwed multiple types will never cook for a guy at the age of 19.

_barders · Answer

Personally! I won't think she's a looser or frigid. But Id still drop contact reason being she's likely to expect so much from u *emotionally! Because of the preconceived perception of guys and sex. Id advise u tell him

CasaNorba · Answer

hey sis! calm down. we guys dont find virgin women a turn off and i tried to explain this in one of my last questions...

jacquesvol · Answer

He doesn't have to know before you decide you want sex with him.

thatbuffedkid · Answer

"I'm a virgin" Believe me. That usually works

rUinSAYAN · Answer

I just tell her. I don't know why she shouldn't know it before. If she stops contact cause of it then I'll take another girl. avoiding someone cause he's virgin is no argument and If he/she cares then just fuck off.