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Why does my wife take dick better in the ass than her pussy?

My wife and I been married for some time, but something always has struck me strangely. My wife is fairly petite, little taller but thin and I am 7 1/2 and fairly thick. But during vaginal sex she can barely take me balls deep. I have to control how deep I thrust and how hard. But when I am in her ass which is everytime almost, she takes it all the way, she takes it any way I want to give it and even requests for it to be deeper or harder at times. This is where I usually finish as feel all of her ass around me is better than 3/4 of her pussy. I even get much fatter and longer when I cum and she can take this with no problem in her ass, but not her pussy. I find this strange that she can take it any how in her ass, but not her pussy. Any imput so I can understand this would be appreciated.
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  • That's the biggest problem with longer penises, most woman can't take all of it and it doesn't feel as good for us. I personally am glad Im not any longer. Most women only have about 5 inches until the cervix, some more and some less and it usually will sink in maybe 1 to 1.5" deeper when they are turned on. Im just the right size to fill it up. It is nice to be able to always be balls deep and they seem to like it more too cuz there is more contact with the clit.

  • The vagina, while elastic, has a finite depth--then you start hitting her cervix, something masochists like but others don't. Her rectum is longer and more accommodating. What you observe has been true for me for many years. Since I absolutely love anal sex, it's fine. For those gals who like pain, I'm big and long enough to hurt them but they all can take it balls deep up the ass.

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  • Austin and Redhead are right. The vagina does not have a lot of room or length and then you will start hitting her cervix. And the cervix is VERY small and sensitive. IT HURTS and also causes physical discomfort after sex to have you cervix rammed into, it even hurts after papsmears at the doctors office when they poke your cervix just a couple times. So that is probably why!

  • Well sounds like you dont really have a problem there if her ass feels so good anyway. she's built the way she's built, consider yourself lucky and go anal only with her :) sounds like she'd be down with an anal only lifestyle

  • Well ur ass doesn't have a limited space like the vagina
    Once u hit the vaginal wall it hurts thats probably why she likes it better in her ass

    • Thank you for your response. And yes, guys do like redheaded tomboys. This is why I married one ;-).

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  • I would guess you're hitting her cervix and that's painful for a lot of girls. Like hitting a wall. The rectum doesn't have a "wall", really. There's nothing there to prevent you from going in all the way.

  • This happens more than you think. There is a pelvic floor to the vag -- as others have pointed out -- that ends at the cervix. It hurts when you keep hitting it.

    Maybe that is whey there is no such thing as "cervix porn"? And you thought there was a genre for everything!

    So barring a physical injury -- which her gyno should be able to detect and should have seen already during her regular exams -- congratulations! You have an ass woman!

    It's wrong to give broad generalizations, so I can only offer my personal experience. Any type of female body type can learn to love anal -- pear shape, apple, shape, super thin, super thick, etc.

    But I have found that it is the petite girls who can go anal as long and deep as any vag most often. There are no limits -- after proper warm up. I am 7 inches, so that is not the longest out there, But I have hit a few cervixes myself. Moving to anal -- and sometimes anal only -- has been a long-standing solution. Have her reach in her own p ussy and push your dik around in her ass -- and/or experiment with other forms of double penetration. That may work for both. But if she does not need all that --- anal does it for her? You won. Enjoy it. Why fix what ain't broke?

    By the by, when you come deep in her ass, does is spurt out the minute you pull out? Or no, it stays up there. Sometimes, you never see it again. Her ass "easts come"?

    If the latter, you DEFINITELY have an anal woman on your hands. Just enjoy it, and become the best ass fuker you possibly can be!

  • Why? Because she has a shallow pussy... Not all pussies are bottomless pits regardless of the size of the woman. Also it's not exactly uncommon for a woman to enjoy anal sex more than vaginal. I have a larger than average penis and a larger than average wife as well. She has no problem taking it either way but she does prefer it in the butt. Unlike the vagina, the rectal cavity can stretch comfortably much moreso than the vagina... Furthermore the human anus has many more nerve endings than the vagina does and some women simply prefer the stimulation anal sex provides.

  • Your hard penis head is knocking on her cervix and that might be uncomfortable (if not painful) for her. Her vagina might not be as deep since she's petite. Meanwhile, if poop as long as a foot can come out of the rectum & anus, taking in all of your 7.5 inches should be easy.

    • "poop as long as a foot" Wow. And you know this -- how? Did you break out the ruler after a shuddering, shaking, ass-stretching dump?

  • That is kinda strange, maybe lube might help?

    • I really don't think lack of lube is the issue. I have to lick her pussy for a good 45 or so before even putting it inside. She is always like a slip and slide after her 4th orgasm from my mouth even before putting it in. When I do, she is very very wet even to the point there is a wet spot under her after oral.

    • What kinda pain is it? She may have torn. I tear sometimes too. so that might be why or, like the other person said it might be from lack of space.

    • Have you tried anal to see if it is easier?

  • It depends upon body of different women to accommodate penis in vagina. My size was 7 when I married. My wife wanted larger and thicker, so she stated massaging my penis and suggested me to use vacum pump. After few months we could increase the size only 1 inch and half inch thickness. My wife was heavy body, she takes whole penis in vagina and in her ass.

  • Count your blessings... some women just prefer anal... might be psychological... but... if they love it and are enthusiastic about it... get that ass!

  • She got that loose booty dude!

  • You are incredibly lucky. Most " married " women won't put out for anal sex but they don't seem to understand that their anuses can take virtually any sized cock as there is no restriction such as the cervix. Even a very large cock can go balls deep as the colon will accept any sized cock. The trick is use lot and lots of lube and sooner rather than later they will come to enjoy anal sex.
    The best anal sex is if you can talk a very very young teen into trying it. Their pussies are too small and there is the risk of pregnancy but it is amazing how even the tiniest girl's ass will stretch to take a huge cock and once hooked they love it. Watching your cock penetrate a young girl's ass is truly an amazing sight and an experience you will never forget. Just don't get caught.

  • Is this a secret gloating question? I think it is

    • what is there to gloat about?

  • Such a romantic and loving guy.;

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