GUYS: Tips for a women on top when having sex.?

[Kris22]

Okay so my ex never tells me if it feels good to him so I never really have much confidence. Like if I got more reassurance I would be way more confident. I can't lean too far back and I like up and down but I just don't know how fast I should go because he likes it kind of slow and I want to show some new tricks you know? Does grinding while inside a girl feel good to you? It does for me but I don't know if it does for a guy. And also do you like fast head or slow head because I do both, along with my hands and licking all around and the tip of the head (he's uncircumcised). And sometimes I'll kiss him all over and grind a little on him and he'll cum ha like so if I do that when we are not having sex does that mean I'm like good when we are?

[Anonymous]

Your question was broader but I'll stay with what I know., which is that I love the Cowgirl position. You get eye contact, you get to watch her having and enjoying sex, you can hold hands and you get to watch her boobs sway. You get the deepest, tightest penetration. You can grab her hips and help with speed and motion. You can work her clit while she is running you to help bring her off.

There is no need for her to "post" (raise and lower). All she needs to to is thrust fore and aft plus a little "hula" motion. One caution us not to back out too far and then pop back in painfully. When I come, I pull her toward me for the deepest, tightest penetration, which restricts ejaculation so she and I both feel my hot, pulsating squirts.

[bri_lovesyou2]

That's really hot turns me on!!! I'd love to ride my bf someday.

[loxagos_snake]

Well, even for men, sex is a mind game. Grinding *does* feel good physically, but it's the idea of what actually happens in there that drives us crazy. So go ahead, do it. As for speed, it all depends on the phase you are in, but the general rule is slow first, fast when he's nearing.

The reassurance thing...If he is just too shy to tell you, you can just ask. If he doesn't feel like telling you, you should invest in a man who appreciates his woman.

[knotme]

how does it feel in there when a girl is grinding?

[loxagos_snake]

Uhm, I can't describe the actual feeling...but the grinding itself translates to a multitude of different nerve endings on the head getting stimulated. Plus, since to grind the penis needs to be deep inside, we love the warmth and wetness!

[knotme]

I knew you guys liked it, but I never understood why. Its seems like senseless moving to me, but I still do it, bc I know you all enjoy it. ;)

[loxagos_snake]

Well, as I said, some things are mostly in the head (not that this doesn't add up to the pleasure). Technically speaking, all we need to get satisfaction is our hand and some warming lube, yet we prefer sex (which is harder to get). Why? Because looking/grabbing at a girl is hotter. Proof? Compare an ejaculation from masturbation to an ejaculation from a BJ and see for yourself.

[1Advicegirl]

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[Argus14]

Men aren't the most complicated creatures on earth sexually speaking. Our penises are stupid, as long as there's something going on down there chances are we'll like it.

In summary, do what feels best for you, the more you're into it the more we will be.

[SüßeJäger]

Do whatever you want when you are up there. Let me touch your tits and rub your clit. Kissing is great too.

[ADVISER-MAN]

I suggest you grind, ride him like a bull. But my friends girlfriend says does belly dances.

[thatbuffedkid]

Well I am not really fan of chick on top but maybe reverse dragon?