Ladies would you ever sleep with an overweight guy? Is it ( was it ) very disgusting or bearable?

[Anonymous]

I'm a 23 year old virgin and not particularly by choice. My looks always held me back but now I've found a girl who likes me and my looks have improved due to hard training. I think she wants to sleep with me in the near future but I'm really scared what she is going to do once she sees me naked. She doesn't probably expect it since I'm very tall and with clothes on I can hide my weight, but I've still got a belly left that isn't exactly attractive Girls have you ever experienced this with a guy and did it turn you off completely or could you imagine keeping some level of sexual attraction to actually go through with it. Sadly there's no quick fix to my issue besides abstinence

[Anonymous]

Do you guys kiss and hug? Because if you do, she has out her hands on you and knows/likes you. When we kiss we tend to touch our partner. I don't think you should be scared or worried if you've taken the relationship to at least that level. I'm sure going to the next won't be bad.

I've never been in a relationship with someone that was overweight but if I liked my partner and he was a bit overweight i don't think it would ruin the mood. If I'm willing to sleep with you then obviously I am attracted to you, weight and all!

[CarmenBlake]

Are you actually still over weight or is it stretched skin from being overweight in the past? Either way, if she loves you, she'll be attracted to you and want to have sex, in my experience anyway. Love is blind (not that your situation is that extreme in anyway, I'm sure you're perfectly nice looking) but in my experience loving somebody can make them appear entirely different to you.

[Asker]

It's kinda both. I'm just so ashamed because she is so pretty and I'm so very not

[CarmenBlake]

I'm sure she's very attracted to you. There's no way she'd be in a relationship with you or hinting at wanting to have sex if she wasn't. You just have to keep up the good work (fitness wise, sounds like you've done well so far) and show her what you're made of in bed haha. She'll love it honest, just be considerate of her and asks her to show you what feels good, nothing's hotter than a guy who's willing to learn the ins and outs of what makes you tick.

[Killcupid]

You have a figure very similar to my boyfriend and I find him SUPER attractive. If she's expressed interest go for it!

[BrunetteNYC]

Look at this way, do guys wanna sleep with overweight girls? Mostly no.

[Asker]

That's exactly where my issue is! So I'm just wondering what her reaction will be or if she deserves some kind of warning.

[BrunetteNYC]

But then again, factor in that most girls expect a guy to be bigger. We don't need a guy who is all muscle and we do like a guy who's taller, heavier, etc., because it's usually opposite of what we are. So a little extra weight honestly isn't all so bad.

[gunnysgt111]

let me tell you ladies and guys. if your attracted to a fat guy. usually the attraction is his personality , his smile , his eyes. I was a fat man had a gorgeous girlfriend. I lost her when I dropped 200 lbs. why? she could not deal with my weight loss. I`m muscular and ripped now. women aren`t a problem now. the thing is , its hard to know if she`s sincere or not.

[Anonymous]

What you do is get her to suck you off.

[Drooogie4]

If she's touched you, and been around you enough, she knows. Plus, you're working on it. If she likes you, you'll have no problems

[shannon21]

Hey if she's not shallow all will be fine :) don't panic. Go for it. See mine please :( have no answers

[Neveryoumind2]

if i like him something as silly as that will never make me change my mind. I dont care about stuff like that.

[Anonymous]

It depends on how over weight if it's not like totally huge then it doesn't bother me as long as it's not 100 pounds over weight

[Asker]

Probably about 20 - 30 pounds

[Opinion Owner]

Then that would not bother me at all