I really agree with the review saying that flinching is a sign of sexual or physical abuse. Guys usually are up for losing their virginity if you ask me. This is not about his confidence at all. The nervous laugh indicates that you make him nervous about this thing. This might be due some past bad experience he had according this. Guys usually masturbate anyways so why is it that when you touch him he is feeling nervous? Just try touching him only and see his reaction. This might help you understand. If he does react then you should have a heart to heart talk and you should not show him that you are frustated with this because i'm sure he wants it as much as you do.
0 0 0 0...Fliching is a sign of sexuual abuse or physical abuse..usually from a young age
Source:A once molested child
I was like that..I was sexually molested as a child and I wouldn't let anyone touch me and I have had to known you for a great amount of time before I touched you..and I had to go through a whole lot of itching my arms, holing onto my ears or flinching when I felt uncomfortable..Now I'm fine and dandy..sort of but that's for another time
You should really talk to him about it, but don't push the topic..let him come to you or you'll scare him off1 0 0 0I hope that is not the case. He's coming round tonight, we'll see. I really hope he hasn't gone through something like that. I'm sorry to hear that you have and you are very strong for coming through it.
Thank you, it's all good and I wish you the best of luck
Sounds like he's really nervous and not ready. Talk to him about it but also let him know that it's okay if he isn't ready yet.
He's not rejecting you.0 0 0 0
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Godfatherfan is right. It's something to do with him. Once you've discussed it openly, I'm guessing it will no longer be a problem.
1 0 0 0Maybe he's just nervous. Start a little slower, maybe. A massage or other touching
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1 3You need to sit down with him and talk it out. There is no logical reason for it. Only he knows.
1 0 0 0Is he messing me about?
Why would he do that? Any woman willing to give me a blow job or have sex with me I am going to let her. So I can't see that being the case.
Well then what? I just don't understand. He is being so unreasonable.
maybe he's having a nightmare...
0 1 0 0...Well he is awake when we get close like that.
oh maybe he's nervous then
I wouldn't try to give him a blowjob if he was asleep... I'm not a fucking creep.
Hey! Talk to him about it. Thats the only way!! :D
0 0 0 0sounds embarrassed/nervous. his laughter is probably nervous laughter. is he a virgin?
1 0 0 0Yeah he is, I'm more experienced though so he should feel comfortable with me.
not necessarily. its always really freaky your first time. when i lost mine, i was so terrified
Why would he be scared of me though? I'm not scary, he needs to get over this its tiring -_-
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