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Why do guys look at my crotch?

I am a girl. and sometimes I've seen that men stare at my crotch. Why? I do wear tight pants, but i don't have a camel toe and my pants do not show the outline of anything, nor do i have a penis. I don't dress slutty either. I've noticed that sometimes their eyes go directly there, or as they look me up and down, their eyes linger there, or my boobs. but why? I make sure that my zipper is down or that i'm not showing anything inappropriate and I am not. why do they stare there?
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  • Everyone has something that is commonly found attractive to others and opposite gender. In your case it may be the crotch. It's not necessary that one has to be slutty or dress likewise for people to get attracted to you or that particular part.

    If your mind doesn't sense 'violation' I'd say enjoy the attention :) why fret & bother yourself on something you don't have control on & is natural :)

    • I didn't say it didn't bother me. I do feel awkward about it. I pretend I don't notice but in reality, I do feel slightly uncomfortable.

    • Which is exactly why I say why let it bother you :) Being bothered or not is up in the mind and likewise is feeling bad or good :) I'd take up the latter in both cases :) I don't say it's immaterial, I realize what you mean especially since you are a girl. But best is to look at the positive angle & feel good about it or live with it / ignore it & start wearing clothes that don't show any crotch :) Don't you think the former is better than suffocating yourself? :)

    • Yeah I guess its easier to ignore it. See, the thing is, my pants are tight, since I wear skinny jeans but they don't show crotch and i never wear tights. But I guess since I have thick thighs, it is kind of revealing in a way. This is usually at work so I guess I can wear different types of pants.

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  • They are probably suspicious that there's a vagina under your clothes there.

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  • I don't know, maybe they think since you were tight clothes, there is a possibility that they might see a camel toe. Who knows

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  • could be your legs they are staring to, but you think is the crotch, I sometimes look to see if there is a bonus cameltoe really quick but if there isn't then stare in another place ex. ass boobls legs.

    • Yeah it could be my legs. I just thought about that right now. I do have thick thighs so I don't know if thats the reason. Its still awkward though. Yeah, i've caught many people looking at my boobs too. and my butt, even though i don't have that much of a big butt. i was an awkward looking kid growing up so i didn't always have this much male attention. this is still strange to me.

    • its definitely because they find something attractive on you, maybe they check the whole package: thighs, check, boobs, check, ass, check, the whole enchilada. there are always dudes that stare creepily too much but other can just check around, specially with the yoga pants, those things let us see in a different perspective what we probably missed the first time.

  • Really? Because we know what is there. It is the best part on a woman (yes i know..besides the brain...). We are fantasizing about what it would be like with you having those pants off and doing what we want to what is under it. It isn't like we don't know what it looks like

    • What brain?

    • is that supposed to be a joke?

  • Oh my god are we back at kindergarten? Men are attracted to females, some men prefer to stare at one particular part, I like the legs and a tight ass. I don't think they stare at your crotch but they might I think they are staring at your hips then you must have great hips then you must look hot, why is that such a problem?

  • Because girls' crotches are amazing sexy wonderful things that we don't get access to nearly enough.

  • Could be a few things.
    A lot of people gaze in a downwards direction as to not zone out creepily looking somebody in the eyes. You're crotch region could just be in that drift off zone.

    Or, if you're wearing tight pants, they can see the total shape of your legs, crotch region. Only thing left to the imagination is what the actual vagina itself looks like.

    You can be the judge.

    • oh ok makes sense. The one i've seen do this a lot is my coworker. He's very tall and i'm very short but he usually does this when he's sitting and i'm standing.

    • lol I don't know how to say this and not sound creepy, but for accurate answers, a picture of you would help.

    • I don't know. i feel weird doing that. All i know is that i have thick thighs. I don't know if maybe thats why that happens.

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  • He simply imagines to insert his penis tempted by the tight pants. But it is not common attraction. Lips, Boobs and butts of a curvy women are the famous attraction for men around the globe.

    • Well, i do have thick thighs and i'm not thin, so I don't know if thats why they stare.

    • Yes thick thighs does attract sexual attention.

  • well, why not?

    • well, its not like my pants are off. So there's not much to see there. unless its my legs they're staring at. I don't know if thats it.

    • it was a rhetorical question

  • Maybe there's nothing to look at your face? that's why they don't have a choice but stay looking at your crotch?

    • haha. I don't know. people tell me im so cute and adorable. I never thought my face was the problem. but eh. i guess some people might not find my face very attractive.

    • :), so if u r cute then then there's something very special to your crotch.but let confirm it, can i see it?

    • haha no im ok thanks :D

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  • men are fantasizing you, don't let it bother you and be proud it is the other way of compliment

  • Are u ready for the truth?
    When a girl is cute, we feel desires to kiss her
    first in the mouth, but then in the parts you mentioned.
    I guess you are very attractive..

  • Personally, I'm not much of a crotch starer. Boobs/cleavage yes, but crotches no.

  • Because they are being creepy and think your not going to do anything to stop them from staring, so next time you see someone staring at your crotch you should yell at them to stop, of course if you think you can't do that yourself you can always ask a friend of yours to call them out for you. You can also be creepy back and stare at their crotch too i also recommend glaring when you stare.

  • Because they are imagining how warm and cozy it feels inside.

    Like a roaring fire in a fireplace with hot cocoa on a cold winter day.

    • but for your penis.

  • Sometimes I get nervous or shy, and my eyes just dart down. Sometime my eyes fall where her crotch is.

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