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Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!

I've seen many questions on this topic, so let me explain you why many women don't care about penis sizes.

Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!

1) Only 30% of women can actually experience a "vaginal" orgasm during sex with sole penetration and without clit rubbing.

Why would we care about your penis size if most of the time it can't make us cum? Trust me, we are more concerned about your oral/fingering skills.

Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!


2) The vagina sensitivity lies only in the first third of its lenght. Yes, you got it right.

3) The lenght of the vagina varies from 3' to 4'.5" and it's specifically designed to accomodate every size.

4) We are having sex with you because we like YOU.

When you first meet someone you have no clue of his equipment down there. If we decide you're worth it, it means we have chosen you because of your character, behaviour, kindness and so on. Many women don't give a s**t about your penis.

Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!

5) We'll adore your penis because it's YOURS.

If we're into you, if we love you, we'll love it too. Not because it's big, not even because it looks nice, but because it's attached to your body, to you.

Here's why penis size DOESN'T matter!


So please, stop asking whether size matters or not. The answer is: no, it doesn't. If it does it means we're not that much into you anyway. At that point you should find someone who truly cares about you and make you feel like you're worth it.

A big hug to all of you who are having troubles and who are worried because of this.

I LOVE YOU MEN. You're special creatures.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Dear guys,

    we are more aroused by feeling your hot bodies and looking at your faces when you look at us during sex than your f*cking penis.

    Seriously, I can honestly say that a guy's face or body comes wayyyy before his penis size. Women pick their partners to have children with based on their GENES. We want to have the strongest, and most attractive offspring possible.

    You could literally have the nicest, biggest penis on earth. If you're fat or ugly... we don't want you.

    • Well guess what same goes for a girls vagina if vaginas were pretty girls would walk around with their faces covered and vaginas exposed. Face is the most important feature.

    • ya exactly

    • This makes sense... afterall you can't see a penis when its inside you

Most Helpful Guy

  • this take was made by a woman who has no idea what she is talking about and probably never had the misfortune to have sex with a man that has a small penis.

    • I agree. It does matter to me

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  • In all honesty: Size does matter. It might not make much of a difference if a penis is 4.5 or 5 inches, but is sure as hell makes a difference between 2 and 6... sorry, I just can't stand any more of this "women care more about you than your penis" crap (on regards to sex of course). Any extreme is bad, 2" is just as bad as a giant 8", both really difficult to work with. Guys, if you are average (5-6"), you are perfectly fine. But no, a below 4" penis is just not going to get me off. A man can be a magician with his hands and tongue but if there is nothing following up to that, unfortunately I will get frustrated and bored. I really do not want to be in a situation where I ask myself if he is in yet.

    Let the downvotes begin...

    • I just thought of an awesome invention that will make a lot of money. Penis extensions that go over the penis of small guys.

    • That already exists bruh, I tried it with my 7inch boyfriend for shits and giggles. @hwlsop

    • Most helpful answer to ''Does a penis size matter'' ever.

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  • Penis size, swings in roundabouts. If the guy has a 1 inch penis, he is going to have many problems having sex with women. Most women will leave him.

    Its only going to matter to girl, who is asexual, or hates having sex. So penis does matter to a certain degree, no matter how much character the guy has got.

    However this article would be good for all the guys, that boost having 8 inchers or above, because its going to hurt her during intercourse. So for those guys, you are actually just stupid.

  • UGH, yes to all of this. It's literally the same thing with how many of us women are hung up on this or that body part... literally no one cares but you and that's probably hurting your confidence and what not to the point where people get hung up about it which is such a mood killer. No one wants to hear, "do you think my size is okay, is this enough for you, am I too small." F--k it, just own it. You can't change it anyway, so if you're confident with who you are, men and women alike, that's what's super attractive about you to other people. And if a girl is soooo insistent on a specific size and can't see past that, then clearly that is not the girl for you.

  • Amen sister!!!

    Great take.

  • Amen Sis!!! I feel the same way... Every Man and Woman isn't alike, but I am with the majority of the ones just like you. Be Proud, I am. ;)

    • Im glad i read this lol

  • "Penis size doesn't matter"

    Is a general statement.
    I've met some women who have preferences in what they desire.
    Why?
    Because they can't feel anything when they do a guy a certain size, or like the fact that sex is more intense with someone larger.

    Yeah , there will be other women who prefer medium because large hurts.
    But you can't group everyone in one basket and say penis size doesn't matter.

    It does to some in all fairness.

    • you took the words right out of my mouth. haha! to me, size does matter.

    • Yes, exactlly what you said. It's not difficult concept to understand. I think the reason whysome guys keep asking about that is not because they don't understand, but because they have a hard time accepting it. But c'mon people have preferences! What's wrong with that? Just get over it. The world has far worse problems.

    • Big sis said it all

  • oh this again.

    It matters (no denying it), but it doesn't matter nearly as much as many guys think.
    In fact, i'll make a bold statement and say that it's more important to be small enough than to be "big enough".
    I'd rather be a little small in the eyes of a girl, than to be so large i'll make it hurt for her.

    So let's stop being PC, and actually admit it does matter. Too big can hurt her, to small won't do enough. But there's way more to it than just your equipment. How you use that, your hands, your tonuge, and everything else matter too. It's one of many factors. That's life, and let's just accept it.

  • Well perhaps this should have been titled "why penis size doesn't matter TO ME." I agree with these reasons completely, but for some women size is a major consideration in picking a partner, but turn about is fair play for some men looks and body type are a major consideration. That is their choice.
    Let me warn you once you hit your 40s and 50s your body may start to betray you. Guys, old faithful from your 20s may not cooperate any more and ladies what tripped your trigger at 20 may become uncomfortable at 40. So develop some bedroom skills beyond "its huge" and "its wet".

  • I personally don't care about size. I want my guy to have skills, or be a somewhat quick learner. I don't want him to be lazy in bed, that's a huge turn off, way more than size.

  • We love you too! We just get nervous when certain women go on and on about how they "need a big cock." Some even on this site lol.

  • Actually it matters, the irony is that it matters for him to be confident not because of actual size. I read an article where multiple women complained about guys with small penisis but the complaints usually consisted of him freaking out about it or being so unconfident that he could not perform. A few women mentioned being with guys with small penisis and it was some of the best sex they had purely because he was confident and knew how to use it. So good take, though I wish this would apply to women as well. Seriously seen a girl freaking out about her calfs, seriously who scrutinizes calfs?

  • I think it does matter to some people, but its good to know there are those whom it doesn't matter as well. If someone doesn't like you solely because of one feature of you body tho then they are shallow. there's no sense in worrying about it, you have what you have, that is what you were given when you were born, there is little that can be done about it so there is no point in worrying over it.

  • The G-Spot is located within the first 2 inches from the entrance of the vagina, so its more than likely that you'll give her pleasure with your little peter (-;

  • I have known for a good while now that size really doesn't matter. How? By actually listening to women! Seriously, guys go on about how important a big d is and how much women love it. But it's all a bunch of insecure and exaggerated bs. Listen to girls! According to most women, average is best. And according to a lot of women 8 inches or above is too much and can actually hurt. Unless you're under 4 Inches, size really isn't going to be an obstacle and even then, if you work and try different positions, there shouldn't be a problem.

    • Very true. I prefer average penises. I know most of my girlfriends do too.

  • "Cocks and hands
    And forearms, stomachs... and legs oh my!
    Aren't men beautiful?"

    Sounds very similar to a lot of the things I say...

  • On your first point, a lot of women who experience a "vaginal orgasm" often are experiencing an orgasm because the guy's pubic arch is stimulating her clitoris while having intercourse. So it is again about "how you use it." If the woman was not getting the clitoral stimulation that way, many of that percentage wold not be having an orgasm.

    This is a pretty good Take. But do proof read. Vaginas that start at 3' would be awfully deep. lol

  • Size completely matters, but also how hard it stays. There's no pleasure with a big size if it's a softy. But overall size DOES matter. And I don't understand how many women are not able to orgasm with sex without the clit rubbing. 99% of the time I have sex I orgasm, the 1% is usually because I'm tired and don't really care if I orgasm or not.

    • How big is your boyfriend, though?

  • THANK YOU!!!

  • Yay! Thank You!!

    www.doctoroz.com/.../does-size-matter

  • lol.. wow, all that might be true. but i still say all you women are full of shit. If he can't eat pussy right then damn straight your going to care about size a lot more.

    • Very mature of you.

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